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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 6:14:28 AM   
sunshinemiss


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When I took the class "Psychology of Women", I asked the teacher to have the title changed to "Psychology of Gender" because whenever we talked about women, we talked about men too.  It just seemed silly to me to separate.  And frankly all the ways that society puts pressure on women, there is equal, if different, pressure on men.

How are men supposed to be sensitive and kind and talk about feelings and be nurturing and then fulfill the fantasies of women by being all tough and brawny?  It is some seriously screwed up thinking.  Men are damned if they do and damned if they don't.  Just as women are who are told we can have it all,  quality vs quantity.  It's dang hard to have it all, very few women have the support system they need to have it all, and frankly even when they do...something goes missing.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 6:28:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		sunny, I would add that I think we are setting both genders up for disappointment, when we tell anyone they can "have it all"; precious few, if any, can.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 6:32:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Aylee - serious response....

When I took the class "Psychology of Women", I asked the teacher to have the title changed to "Psychology of Gender" because whenever we talked about women, we talked about men too.  It just seemed silly to me to separate.  And frankly all the ways that society puts pressure on women, there is equal, if different, pressure on men.


Good for YOU! 

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How are men supposed to be sensitive and kind and talk about feelings and be nurturing and then fulfill the fantasies of women by being all tough and brawny?  It is some seriously screwed up thinking.  Men are damned if they do and damned if they don't.  Just as women are who are told we can have it all,  quality vs quantity.  It's dang hard to have it all, very few women have the support system they need to have it all, and frankly even when they do...something goes missing.



I am not disagreeing with you.  I think that it is bad for all. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 6:54:58 AM   
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I hate it that my sis just sent pics of their new puppy. They couldn't even take proper care of a cat, and they think it's a good idea to get a dog.  They are away long, long hours and the puppy is going to suffer for it.


That´s what happened to my spicy. He and his mum used to beg for food at one of my work places as they had cats, too, before I started to work there, because his owners decided not to bother about their cats anymore and go for dogs instead. Then his mum gave birth to the next litter in their conservatory at work and my boss decided to intervene. She took on the mum and a kitten from the new litter and another colleague took on another young kitten (3rd kitten wasn´t born alive). Soon later I started and in December my Manager said she needs to do something about him and explained to me that Spicy regularly opens the recycling box at night time, to have it a little bit warmer in there...so I took him on, as I decided if 2 or 3 cats does not really make a difference...a couple of days later he moved in  So as a team we re-homed that cat family. Soon later bringing me a huge bird home (something like a pidgeon but IMO it was a little bit bigger then a pidgeon...). So he certainly said thank you for his new home

I just hope they don´t treat their dogs that way  in case they decide to go for another pet again...

Even more annoying it is sometimes when I know people who are not allowed to have pets anymore...but are still allowed to look after their children (with not much greater result either)...

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 9:27:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate it that some jackass took a piss in the dressing room at work, and I didnt realize it until I had walked into said dressing room to pull some clothes out and restock them.  Ugh.  I am so sick of crap pay, when I gotta deal with assolery like that.

I hate it that there are 3 co-workers that shirk some of their duties.

I hate it that one of the 3 co-workers left work without doing the rest of her duties, and it ended in me and the others closing with me staying till 12 am to clean the store up.

I hate it that my manager screwed my drawer up and told me that I was 100+ dollars short.  Im possible since I worked on that register less than an hour...Oh well.  Gonna call work and see whats what.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 5:23:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hate it that fucking Ryanair is so damn mean wit their luggage restrictions...15kg for checked in luggage is just not fucking fair for me on the flight to get back

If the main airport would not be more then double the distance to our little airport here I seriously would not bother to fly with them anymore...apart from their weight limits I also never got my refund for the flight they cancelled last october due to fog (despite them having a big mouth that they would do so, of course they never bothered when I wrote them my details...because of course...they don´t bother to do it that fucking same day )

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/22/2009 5:32:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hate when I exercise and then have to go somewhere (like the grocery store) and then by the time I get home the sweat is all sticky and gross all over me.  blech.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 2:37:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate it when I write a card to GT (that's not what I hate) and in it I tell her about the possibility of something only dreamt about for  me and while I am writing I wonder if I am jinxing myself but write and post it anyway, and then come home tonight to what I think was a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

so just ignore anything I wrote about myself or my life in your card GT ..... blah

I'd send hugs to you all but they may be a bit soggy at the moment


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 4:42:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		aww, Wanders... I'm sorry, sweetie..

soggy hugs are just fine.. thats what friends have absorbent shoulders for.. *biggest hugs*


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 4:49:52 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Dear GT,
It's been a bit since we talked, but I wanted to catch you up on my life.  Glad to hear the visa thing worked out for you going to Wales!  I have a wonderful job.  It makes me happy, pays really well, and is in a safe and beautiful locale.  Interesting thing happened, I met the most amazingly dominant man - not a Dom, just a man who is a Mayun.  We are in love and planning to vacation at his villa in Italy over Christmas.  I've seen it, met his family (with whom I have a mutual admiration society), and I couldn't be happier.  Ohhh, and there's a great gym nearby, and I go there regularly.  Taking belly dance classes now!  I feel so gloriously beautiful!

Sorry you aren't here, but will send you and the rest of the subbie mafia plane tickets to visit us in Italy as I received a huge bonus at the job.

Hugs and love,
sunshine




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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 7:00:31 AM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 7:25:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate it when I am cold.
I hate it when I have much to do.
I hate that I must go for now.
I hate that I can't give real life hugs and squishes to my friends on here right now.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 11:30:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate it when I am cold also & since my sister's been experiencing her own personal summer since she gave up HRT, it's always cold here.
I hate it when I allow people to make me feel less than.
I hate it when I'm bored & lonely & need a good beating.
I hate it when I can't touch my Daddy.
I hate it when all I want to do is go back to bed.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 11:44:47 AM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:24:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis

I hate it when I am cold also & since my sister's been experiencing her own personal summer since she gave up HRT, it's always cold here.
I hate it when I allow people to make me feel less than.
I hate it when I'm bored & lonely & need a good beating.
I hate it when I can't touch my Daddy.
I hate it when all I want to do is go back to bed.


I hate linea's hates. I'm lovin ya honey.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:27:25 PM   
LinnaeaBorealis


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I hate linea's hates. I'm lovin ya honey.

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*gigglesnort*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:32:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis

quote:

ORIGINAL: girlygurl


I hate linea's hates. I'm lovin ya honey.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:35:34 PM   
LinnaeaBorealis


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Status: offline 		Now ya gots me laughing right out loud.  although somewhat subdued because the sister is in the room with me.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:42:26 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		I hate when Linnea is laughing and has to hold it back... AND ... I'm not with her!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/23/2009 12:53:52 PM   
LinnaeaBorealis


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Status: offline 		Oh Sunny.  I hate it when you're not with me too!!!!! 

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