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Well I think I will just give up! - 8/19/2015 3:02:17 PM   
kw1984


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Status: offline 		Well where do I begin? I have spoken to some lovely people on here....mostly from the USA. But I have been looking for someone closer to home and this is where the problems start. EVERYONE I have spoken to asks for money.....I would like to know if there are any genuine people on here or am I just chasing my tail? I don't want a prostitute, I am looking for a playmate but this is starting to seem like an impossible task. Has anyone had a uk meet?
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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 8/21/2015 11:21:22 PM   
Countryslut


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Status: offline 		hi my name is Rob are you male or female please it is not clear if you are a master I am sorry that you are not getting any hits but the dominant s out weigh the demand for girls
Rob

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 8/22/2015 2:06:32 AM   
bossman777


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Status: offline 		KW, this is a free site, right? And that means lots, and lots of flakes and fakes and outright liars and scam artists. I'd guess probably well over half of the profiles are fake. You just got to consider it like finding a diamond by looking through a ton of trash. There are a few gems to be found here. Use the money requests to weed out the scammers. Limit yourself to those who have had profiles up at least 6 months. That should help.

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 8/22/2015 2:20:28 PM   
samantharenee812


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Status: offline 		There are many Pro-Domme's and Findommes on here, but I also notice that there are normal everyday women on here as well. Make sure your profile is up to date, with pictures. Write more journals, put up video journals. Get into the forums more. They will come to you if you wait. :)

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 8/22/2015 3:47:19 PM   
dorsetgent1963


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Status: offline 		hello my name is Rob you want to tie your self up for me I will come and pick imho up were will you be so I can come to you and take you but can't g parentage that you will be let go again what you say do you want this if so get in contact soon
Rob

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 8/22/2015 3:56:55 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: dorsetgent1963

hello my name is Rob you want to tie your self up for me I will come and pick imho up were will you be so I can come to you and take you but can't g parentage that you will be let go again what you say do you want this if so get in contact soon
Rob


Gosh. How could anyone say this site has gone down the tubes?


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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 11/21/2015 1:49:15 PM   
Bunnicula


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Status: offline 		Yes, I've had several UK meets over the years.

I could have had a lot more but I tend to be quite choosy in deciding who I want to spend time with.

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 11/21/2015 6:04:08 PM   
malefica


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Status: offline 		You could try looking up local events and meets in your area.

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 11/23/2015 5:16:39 AM   
Aibo


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Status: offline 		Indeed, thumbs up for Malefica.

And as for the question above, the OP is likely a male submissive. Edit: I got to the profile, Male switch slanted toward sub, ok switches of both genders sometimes have problems finding a partner Quite some exist though in that age range they're already settled couples.


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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 11/23/2015 5:28:18 AM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: kw1984

Well where do I begin? I have spoken to some lovely people on here....mostly from the USA. But I have been looking for someone closer to home and this is where the problems start. EVERYONE I have spoken to asks for money.....I would like to know if there are any genuine people on here or am I just chasing my tail? I don't want a prostitute, I am looking for a playmate but this is starting to seem like an impossible task. Has anyone had a uk meet?




You've been on the site for 4 months and haven't found exactly what you are looking for in your area... Oh wow...

Seriously, your profile isn't too inviting, it's all about what you want and what you should be given, so don't be surprised if you are contacted by people expecting compensation for servicing your kinks. As others have said, go out, go to munches, meet people in your area face to face instead of being passive and sitting on a computer and expecting to get what you want delivered on a silver plate. Think about what you can offer as well instead of "I just want somebody who shows me everything about kink so I can pick what I like"

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 12/12/2015 9:40:22 AM   
sweetchoc100


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Status: offline 		I'm a genuine babe seeking a Dom or sub or switch - I would not put a video journal up here cos most of the ones I've seen here are by girls in the USA who seem to be advertising as prostitutes and that's not what I’m about. I'm not seeking to exploit anyone for money and so as a decent girl I would not put up a video journal so I’m not mistaken for being a prostitute. My profile is very comprehensive and has recent photos. I think one needs a substantial amount of luck in this place. It is indeed hard to sort the genuine through the numerous fakes and flakes and then with the genuine people, it's about meeting the person who has the same kink as you and wants the same kind of relationship as you do. Personally I'm not into anything extreme or painful etc as I'm a sensualist and many of the guys here - particularly the Doms that say they like me have kink that is not compatible with me (they want to punish and tie up and flog etc which is not my thing) so they would be satisfied with my personality and looks and chemistry etc but their kink is much too extreme for me and so I would not be satisfied even if we have a good non – kink / vanilla connection – so I would just be suffering in the relationship and while I do really want a connection, it has to be loving and satisfying for both of us. There is no point me submitting for something that is not satisfying to me and may even leave me traumatised and I’m just too grounded and aware to get into something that is not good for me and the other person would also be disappointed that I am dissatisfied so just no point with that. I’m sure there are more babes here into extreme kink so they have more choice - lucky them :)

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 12/12/2015 10:07:34 AM   
sweetchoc100


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Status: offline 		Just wanted to clarify, I don't judge anyone for what they do, what their interests are or for what a person may put in a video journal. My preference is that a person reads my profile to understand what I'm about cos it is very factual and then introduce themselves to me if they think we suit. I admire people who are brave enough to record themselves on video. Cheers and kind regards to all :)

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 12/14/2015 11:43:59 PM   
littleclip


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Status: offline 		never give up you will find what your looking for. there are a lot of dungeons and events in the uk join local groups and attend munches you never know where or when you will find the one you seek

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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 12/16/2015 11:31:21 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		Part of a post I did this week, as I sense you are genuine soul and I know before I click on you you are male most likely from the UK.
bossman777 agreed but the problem exists on all sites the percentages do however vary, it can actually be greater than >90%
Bunnicula I know this to be a uk women before i even click on her profile.

Not sure this is worth my time….but understand on fetish sites and swingers sites, if you are genuine, you will be competing with 100s of married (and fibbing about it and everything else) men. Competition is therefore exceptionally tough.

Okay my time

Scotland population 5.5million haggis and haggisettes and a sandal wearing loon.
Search parameters checked = pictures & dominant

Number of female dominant profiles online in scotland since December = 14 (has it come to that on here – not my doing a shameful total)

Pro domes = 6
Fake profiles =5
Genuine - I use that term loosely to encompass cheats too, benefit of the doubt profiles included = 3

Sighs I will do submissive men too without the breakdown = 75 and none of them will be pro and I can assure you the bulk attached and at it..same with mainstream dating sites.


Giving a ratio of 75 men: 3 genuineish women or 25:1. I could convolute that figure evermore


Your eyes and mind are open a little more so concentrate on the minority I mentioned. And ignore everyone you mailed who asks for a tribute just to talk to you in return.

All sites I feel need a verification system and the removal of all stolen imagery. This site does offer one now so I am a little more happier. But still no way to search for them Tuts. And all sites need genuine people so if you leave those not of your kind win, sure there numbers are vast.


featured & verified if you can afford to do so please consider it these places need more of these people or genuine souls will be scared away after a few days


Sure I've talked to some wonderful real people on here since the dawn of time, but i have talked to many more iffy and never met anyone from here since the begiining of time - conjunction i cited Scotland
..which excluded the odd real genuine soul I came across in England and a handful in America.

As i said I think sites need more people like you and free cake for those verified.. You are no more 98lbs as I am 35 years of age. If you can afford a few mean moody solitude pictures do so and add to your profile over time, and refine it.



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RE: Well I think I will just give up! - 12/21/2015 10:54:02 PM   
MasterNewYork


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Status: offline 		Uk woman, try Kink talk, i'm over there, and i'm getting killed by the amount of UK woman. I'm starting to think England is the kinkiest country around.

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