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notlooking -> Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/7/2005 6:33:17 PM)

These are questions for unmarried single Doms--- Do you love your subs?

Do you love her for what she does for you sexually [;)]or do you love her for who she is[:)]?


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SirKenin -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/7/2005 10:10:18 PM)

I love her for who she is. I love everything about her, even when she gets grumpy. I love that no matter what look she gives Me she's still cute and irresistable. I do love the things she does for Me sexually as well, but that is not what is important to Me.




Archer -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/7/2005 11:44:04 PM)

Although I don't qualify as unmarried I married my slave years after I put my collar around her neck.

I do love my slave, I love my slave for many reason but the biggest reason is, I love her because I really like the person she has helped me become. Sex is great, many other things are nice but the final count is she has helped me to become a better more well rounded person.

Does love get in the way, occassionally I have let it get in the way of doing what is best, just as anyone falls short on occassion. I try very hard not to let love or really the fear of withdrawal of love from playing a part in the decissions I make.

Probably more answer than you wanted.

In Leather

Archer




Voltare -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 4:24:54 PM)

I love mine. Usually.

Stephan




gretchen -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 5:21:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Voltare

I love mine. Usually.

Stephan



...Yeah...

I usually love you too...kinda.




DesertRat -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 6:06:27 PM)

I love my slave very much. The things she does for me make it easier to love her, but they are not the reasons for that. I just love who she is. Quite a remarkable person, and my favorite one in the whole world. She is also my best friend. I am a much better man for knowing her.

I could write a book about this. Maybe I will someday....or we will.

Bob




sub4hire -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 6:26:11 PM)

Congrats the two of you. Did you meet here? Sorry to hijack the thread but Stephan never tells us anything.




gretchen -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 6:55:30 PM)

Yeah...for some reason he hasn't...I think he's afraid of losing popularity here...[laughs[:D]].

We actually met here in Chile, like "normal" people in my brother's bithday party seven months ago. It's being just wonderfull since. He's a very precious and unique person, and I love him very much...USUALLY of course.




angelbob -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 9:38:10 PM)

I'm going to answer in the past tense, since my most recent D/s relationship ended a few weeks ago.

I loved her (and love her) very much. A good D/s relationship is at least as deep and as powerful as a good vanilla relationship, and can be, in my opinion, more so. A good D/s relationship also requires all the same things as a good vanilla relationship, and significantly more.

It was definitely not just for the sex, any more than any other good relationship is just about the sex. If you don't care about the person and you just want sex, you can make your life much simpler than if you're looking for a really genuinely good person that you can respect. It's not the same, though, as I'm sure you know.

As a disclaimer: she was the one who decided to end our relationship. I can't imagine that would change my answer, though.




FangsNfeet -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/8/2005 11:09:11 PM)

I love my pet for who she is and what she does. Even when she's being naughty. Why is such a question asked? Are you questioning rather a submissive is just used are acctually loved as well?




Voltare -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/9/2005 10:21:45 AM)

Yeah yeah...

I just know how some people get when they splatter their guts out on message boards. We met about seven months ago at said birthday party, and every day it just gets better (well, for me - I think they just get more painful and terrifying for her.....)

I guess more then anything, it's the reason I've written a lot about looking for the right person in real life, through 'normal' channels. Odds are, if you share other similar tastes with someone open minded, there's no reason they wouldn't at least be willing to at least entertain the suggestion of trying BDSM or Ds (or whatever floats your boat.)

Stephan




sub4hire -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/9/2005 3:04:26 PM)

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I just know how some people get when they splatter their guts out on message boards. We met about seven months ago at said birthday party, and every day it just gets better (well, for me - I think they just get more painful and terrifying for her.....)


Well, THANK YOU for the late notice...hehe. She doesn't sound too terrified just yet. I mean she is here where other's could tell her all about you. I doubt she has seen anything terrifying just yet.




liltxsubby -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/9/2005 6:21:56 PM)

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I love my pet for who she is and what she does. Even when she's being naughty.


Your pet is never naughty. [;)]




Stunning -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/10/2005 2:34:28 PM)

I love her a couple times a day.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/10/2005 2:57:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stunning
I love her a couple times a day.

That's pretty good, you must be in pretty good shape than, LOL. M




Stunning -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/10/2005 3:07:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
That's pretty good, you must be in pretty good shape than, LOL. M

I try.




TheSecondRebel -> RE: Questions 4 unmarried single male Doms (5/10/2005 6:01:34 PM)

Gawd yes. She very well may be a soul mate.




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