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RE: Respect - 5/10/2007 12:59:28 PM   
MadameButterfly


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Status: offline 		Like pretty much everyone else said Respect is something that is EARNED!  You don't wake up one day and go "Oh I am a Dominant you MUST bow down before my Dommly greatness!"  I mean come on lets be realistic... how is this any different than earning respect in a work enviroment?  Or your community? 

So-called subs??? Yeah ok...shakes head

I see insecurities in this original post forcefull.  I don't know you  from Adam... however I have been around the block enough times to know a Stand & Poser when I read one. 

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RE: Respect - 5/10/2007 1:06:19 PM   
domiguy


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Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		Oh (sock it to me, sock it to me,
sock it to me, sock it to me)
A little respect (sock it to me, sock it to me,
sock it to me, sock it to me)
Whoa, babe (just a little bit)
A little respect (just a little bit)
I get tired (just a little bit)
Keep on tryin' (just a little bit)
You're runnin' out of foolin' (just a little bit)
And I ain't lyin' (just a little bit)
(re, re, re, re) 'spect
When you come home (re, re, re ,re)
Or you might walk in (respect, just a little bit)
And find out I'm gone (just a little bit)
I got to have (just a little bit)
A little respect (just a little bit)


Ladies all the man is asking for is some props...Is it that fucking hard?....A new batch of  "Dominotes" is heading towards a sub near you as we speak....Again hoping on the average 1-2% return ratio I should be knee deep in subs for quite some time.

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 8:47:27 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FORCEFULL11229

As a lifestyle Dominate, who takes this lifestyle very serious, i have found that so called submissives and/or slaves who post ads here stating what they want in a dominate/Master forgets one very important thing. All want to be respected by whoever answers their ad but it seems that even thou they are not interested in who responds they do not show the simple respect in return by just sending back a little note, saying thank you, but either not interested or thanks but no thanks.

Respect works both ways.




First you confuse Showing Respect with Showing Courtesy... the two are vastly different.

Second... never understood why you don't recieve a response.  I have always recieved response to those I have emailed.  I have to wonder what YOU are doing wrong.

Third... you earn little respect by whining about others not appeasing what you want from others.  I would say you will get less not more.

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 12:37:28 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		It goes both ways. It isn't just a sub thing.

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 1:23:12 PM   
slavemaia


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Status: offline 		i think people get courtesy confused with respect. i attempt to express courtesy to all whether i know you or not. Respect is something that grows in me as i know about a person. i don't respect people just because they're walking around on the planet, but i do treat them courteously. i don't understand how one would instantly respect another - why? Respect to me concerns who a person is, what they believe, how they live.
 
So often on CM and other boards people get all wrapped out of joint because people they don't even know, don't respond to them the way they think they should. Expectations without communication and/or consent always lead to disappointment. There are many forms of communication, verbal, written, visual. When somone does not respond i believe they ARE communicating. They're saying NOT INTERESTED. It has nothing to do with respect or even courtesy imho.
 
 

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 2:55:11 PM   
Griswold


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Joined: 2/12/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FORCEFULL11229

As a lifestyle Dominate ("Dominant"), who takes this lifestyle very serious ("seriously"), i ("I") have found that so called submissives and/or slaves who post ads here stating what they want in a dominate ("dominant")/Master forgets one very important thing. All want to be respected by whoever ("whomever") answers their ad (comma) but it seems that even thou ("though") they are not interested in who responds (comma) they do not show the (delete "the"...redundant) simple respect in return by just sending back a little note, saying thank you (quotations around "thank you"), but ("but" is redundant) {"I'm"} either not interested or (comma) thanks but no thanks.

Respect works both ways.


(I'm so glad your a "dominate"...out saving the world...go get 'em tiger).

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 8:13:01 PM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

First you confuse Showing Respect with Showing Courtesy... the two are vastly different.



my thoughts exactly :-)

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RE: Respect - 5/11/2007 9:46:02 PM   
Stazia


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Status: offline 		i would just like to point out the OPs lack of "respect" as well.  if he had respect he would look through old posts and see that this issue is covered about once a week by other so called "dominates" so all that we are doing is pretty much copy and pasting the same answer again and again.    

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