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Dnomyar -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 7:09:14 AM)
LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

meatcleaver -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 7:49:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones. I have to laugh at these cheating threads too. Since according to research after research approx. 60% of people cheat on their partner. Either most of the 40% are dedicated CM users or some people are telling porkies. I've never seen the attraction of kink with morals to be honest, it just doesn't seem kinky to me. To quote Nietzche 'Fear is the mother of morality'.

Indemnis -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 11:40:14 AM)
There is no justification for being dishonest to a person you claim to love, no matter what the majority think and do. If statistics said 60% of the population slaughtered babies, would that make it ok? Not in my opinion.

Tuomas -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 11:59:17 AM)
...or the only people who participate in a topic about how bad cheating is, are people who don't cheat [;)] meatcleaver, then we can quote Mark Twain, while were are at it: "There are three kinds of lies: lies, damn lies and statistics"[:D]

Griswold -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 2:58:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Male subs who spring on their wife/gf that they are kinky, get the lady to reluctantly try as best she can to make it work by learning and having an open mind, only to find out he is still cheating on the side with a femdom because he needs a "real Mistress." Guys, if you are going to try to make it work with your wife or significant other, the first thing you need to do is be honest and stop the flings on the side. It must be heartbreaking for a woman to realize she's being giving it her all, only to find out he was still cheating on the side. Akasha What the fuck are you talking about? Grow a fucking dick...then you'll know what you're talking about. I've said it before...I'll say it again...you're a guy hiding behind a pair of cyber titties. Give this "girl" some fucking testosterone shots...then "she'll" know what the fuck she's talking about.

Einzelganger -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 3:55:41 PM)
I found it just as heartbreaking, as did another young man, when we both inadvertently discovered we were both told, by the same woman, that each of us were her only sub. While I prefer monogamous relationships, at least he wouldn't have been hurt if she'd have simply told him she wanted another sub. Similarly, in my humble opinion, if someone is not getting their needs fulfilled within their marriage, then they should either be up front with their parter about their problem; if there's no solution to be found within the marriage, then they should also be up-front about their desire for something else on the side. It's not cheating if it's consentual, and noone's feelings would be hurt by their finding things out the hard way. As always, just my $0.02... -Einzelgänger

AquaticSub -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 4:35:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones. They sure can! But when their spouse is fulfilling their kink and they still go elsewhere, it speaks volumes as to their character.

Einzelganger -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 5:33:57 PM)
...or lack thereof. -Einzelgänger

minnetar -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 5:38:57 PM)
Even if their spouse is happy with them doing it? minnetar

AquaticSub -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 6:31:04 PM)
If they approve then it's not really cheating is it?

N4SDChastity -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 7:43:31 PM)
I say, if yu're gonna cheat, at least be honest about it[8\|]

adoracat -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 8:05:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tuomas Why do people go out with married people, anyway? Cheaters really annoy me. Afterall, if they are capible of doing that to someone they love -what kind of sick things will they do to people they don't care about? perhaps because not all married people who see others ARE cheaters. my husband knows what i do on a general level. he isnt into any sort of kink, and i feel unfulfilled without it. we've been happily honorably non-monogamous for years now. i say "on a general level" because we dont divulge details to one another, it leads to hurt feelings and jealousy issues, and this way works better for us. kitten who would love to be totally open with him, but it just doesnt work that way.

pashafewj -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 8:09:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub If they approve then it's not really cheating is it? ROFL!!! i wouldn't think so...but who knows!

MasterMischief -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 10:07:25 PM)
Prepared for my stoning now.

MzMia -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 10:18:49 PM)
Maybe its me, but I can think of many other scenario's that are much lower than this. How low can ya go?

maledave7 -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/12/2007 3:47:53 AM)
I do agree that he should have talk with his wife from the beginning. He should have let her know his feelings and desires. A married person should never be involved without their better half knowing. Their spouse should always know about it and is ok with it.

eyesopened -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/12/2007 6:06:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones. Eh?? It would be nice if people had the courage to be intimate with their spouses. i don't play with married men. i've been approached plenty with the "my wife isn't into BDSM but she's okay with me finding my kink outside the marriage" to which i reply "i would love to hear that from Your wife and if she assures me it's okay, then we can talk about meeting." It's so weird that i never hear from that Dom again.... i don't understand....

LadyPact -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/12/2007 6:22:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones. Missed the target big with this one, but thank you for the laugh.

MellowSir -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/12/2007 6:53:27 AM)
If you don't get satisfied by the one you marry, then why be married at all and make a farce of it by cheating? Unless of course you either married for money or so the kids didn't get labeled as bastards....

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