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Finding a Mistress - 5/30/2004 8:46:07 PM

jason77

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I am new to this lifestyle and currently searching for first Mistress to serve. I guess my question is how do Mistresses like to be approached by a slave who is new to the lifestyle who is wanting to know if the Mistress is seeking slaves? Thanks for any help. Also if anyone knows of any good bdsm places (clubs and so forth) in south florida (broward county, ft lauderdale area) to check out on this subject i would really appreciate if anyone could name a few. Thanks.
jason

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 5/31/2004 3:26:19 AM

inyouagain

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For your viewing pleasure, How to approach a Domme may give you some insight. The feedback to Mistress Didi's post seems to be very favorable, and it may help to provide you general knowledge. Finding Domme's by name and location is your tasking, and there are numerous posts on this board regarding local groups, munches, etc where you may find a Domme near your location.

Welcome to the message board, and best of luck in your search.

Inyouagain

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 5/31/2004 4:01:32 AM

MistressDREAD

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jason77
Im in Central Florida
go to the Collarme
main profile area
copy My name here
and insert into the
name area and look
up My profile and
read what it says
I seek in a slave.
If you think you fit
the bill contact Me
from there by a
short email asking
Me if you may approch
Me for more conversation.
If I have a interest
I will give you
permission to approch
Me and if not will
tell you thanks but
no thanks so now
go and try it.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/10/2004 10:36:28 AM

Sundew02

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jason, a good place to start is a SHORT well thought out blurp about you on the comment side of your profile. READ carefully what the Domme is saying on her comment side. Ma'am is always a good opener, if your butt is glued to your area, be honest and say so. Don't give her a laundry list of what YOU like, but what you have experienced. Never use the phrase "I will do anything for you", how do you know that? you havent met her yet. I know eagerness makes the fingers unwise at times, but asking what is your favorite play, or worse what will you do to me, are no gos. At least for the Dommes I know. In a nut shell, be honest, be polite, and send more than a one line querry. Sundew

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/15/2004 9:53:24 AM

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The comments already posted regarding your profile are correct. I also suggest that you consider going to your local munches and meeting folks face to face. This is a site that has free access to many groups and I have selected the page for Florida groups for you.
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=FLORIDA&view_records=View+Records&ww=on

Best of luck and take your time.
Ana :)

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