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VeryMercurial -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/20/2007 3:59:15 PM)
I think I am glad I don't have a vibrator, now. Thank you for sharing pixelslave, I never knew this either.

zindyslave -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/20/2007 5:06:06 PM)
I know that when I use a vibrator I get used to the sensations and it takes longer and longer for me to come when using one, and then eventually I can't cum with it, so then I have to wait awhile like a week or longer before I can just use my fingers to cum then we use different things for awhile so I don't get desensitized by a vibrator.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/20/2007 5:12:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave If it makes you feel any better (I doubt it), the same thing happens to men who masturbate too often with their hand. They get used to the same sensation of using their hand which is quite different than the sensation of being inside a woman's vagina or the feel from receiving oral sex. It can take them quite a while before they reach the point where they're able to ejaculate again via intercourse alone. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] The positions and amount of effort required by different muscles are also quite different. This can make the whole sex thing for both partners (women who use vibrators and men who use their hands) very different than what either is accustomed to. There are a whole bunch of factors involved based on my experience, including the shared intimacy and dependency upon communication with another for your pleasure that is required for that orgasm to happen. Hope this helps cast things in a different light and put some additional perspective on the issue from the other side of the coin. [&:] - pixel Wow.. That is definitely something I never heard before. Thank you for the insight Pixel..

lighthearted -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/20/2007 7:02:15 PM)
I used to joke and say I was the oldest woman in america without any sex toys...so someone bought me one, and it's a very basic one. I don't really enjoy it at all, I wonder if it's just because I waited so long in life to try one? anyway, it wasn't as thrilling as I expected. it's fun to use occasionally, but if I need to get off, my lo-tech, user friendly hand works better [:D]

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/20/2007 7:33:34 PM)
I can not orgasm with out my vibrator, and on the off chance I can it takes tons and tons of rubbing, to the point of hand and wrist exhaustion, ton of constantly reapplying lube because I do not produce enough naturally, and then it's not very strong of an orgasm.

lovewithoutfear -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/21/2007 10:33:33 PM)
"the same thing happens to men who masturbate too often with their hand. ... It can take them quite a while before they reach the point where they're able to ejaculate again via intercourse alone." Yes, and although many seem to think it's a good thing for a man to be able to plow on and on forever, there are limits to that and it can be just as frustrating as coming "too quickly." Interesting thread, and informative!

pixelslave -> RE: Too much Vibrator? (5/22/2007 11:03:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch Wow.. That is definitely something I never heard before. Thank you for the insight Pixel.. To all the ladies who've thanked me, you're very welcome. [:D] I'm glad I could shed more light on the issue for both sides and how it can affect all. Sharing any insight I may have is something my Mistress encourages me to do. Since my relationship with her is relatively new, it's something she and I have also had to deal with and work to overcome. [&:] I'll also add, as information for Dominants into orgasm denial/control, it makes it even more difficult for many subs to relax and allow themselves to orgasm on their own (or whenever they're ready) as a result of the conditioning they've experienced with present or previous Dominants; something I can attest to as well. This kind of conditioning teaches them to shut down or numb-out their response to sexual sensations until they're told otherwise; at which time they're expected to turn it back on as if it were as easy as flipping the switch to "ON" for say the lights in a room. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] I feel very blessed to now have a Mistress who is working with me to undo the conditioning I previously experienced; teaching me to it's okay to not have to wait for her permission to ejaculate, which for me, feels a bit as though it's akin to retraining one of Pavlov's dogs... [8\|] - pixel

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