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Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 3:34:29 PM   
VeryMercurial


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I wanted to tell the submissives here that little things mean a whole lot.
I just washed my hair, and I found myself wishing I had a submissive to wash it for me.
Washing and brushing your Mistress hair is a small thing, but it can bring a lot of pleasure.
We always see threads on foot massages, pedicures and manicures.
There are a lot of other things that you can do to make your Mistress life easier.
Ironing, washing the dishes, watering the plants, and taking out the trash are small
things, but they sure mean a lot.
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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 3:59:05 PM   
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i agree. i think that as well as being service orientated, like a maid for instance, that there is also a lot of pleasure to be given just by being thoughful or attentive.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:16:57 PM   
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absolutely!  I can think of tons of small gestures that mean the world to me.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:24:41 PM   
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One of my favorite memories with my former submissive was the times he bathed me.

He would run the bath with my favorite vanilla bubble bath, candles all around the bathroom and a nice glass of red wine on the side of the tub. :)
He would bathe me and shave my legs and underarms.

Utter and total bliss :) Sometimes we would talk quietly and other times it was just peaceful quiet.

I used to say I wished I had 6 legs.. smile

It doesn't get any better then that.

MC

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:26:28 PM   
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Awww, bathing me is an all time favorite.
So sensual, especially in a big bathtub built for 2.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:26:42 PM   
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thank You for those thoughts.  i love to let a Master know how much i care by sharing poetry that can explain my feelings and emotions better than i can.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:28:59 PM   
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OMG.....6 legs would mean..... No matter ill go and take a cold shower.. Smirks


Sorry couldnt resist it !

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 4:31:52 PM   
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ROTLMAO... damn, I almost spit my tea.

Ok, I just wanted it to last longer.. although by that time I was looking like a prune after being in the bath so long... chuckle

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 5:00:10 PM   
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I also like human furniture.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 5:17:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

I wanted to tell the submissives here that little things mean a whole lot.
I just washed my hair, and I found myself wishing I had a submissive to wash it for me.
Washing and brushing your Mistress hair is a small thing, but it can bring a lot of pleasure.
We always see threads on foot massages, pedicures and manicures.
There are a lot of other things that you can do to make your Mistress life easier.
Ironing, washing the dishes, watering the plants, and taking out the trash are small
things, but they sure mean a lot.



I agree.  Not only do the little gestures mean the most, they also never go unnoticed.  

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 6:22:04 PM   
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Completely agree.  I got blasted on another thread for saying not everything has to be a big thing.  The little things mean just as much. 

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 6:33:03 PM   
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A very special submissive has done some wonderful little things for me.  I have had him research topics for my school work and employment work, and he has typed quite a few papers for me.  It's nice to be able to enjoy some free time knowing that he is doing work that I would rather not be doing.  It's funny how sometimes things that seem so "vanilla" can show such 'submission'..... he hates to type papers- unless they are mine.

If I were to add up all the little things he has ever done for me, I think those things have brought me more pleasure than the big things...  though big things are great too.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 6:47:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

I wanted to tell the submissives here that little things mean a whole lot.
I just washed my hair, and I found myself wishing I had a submissive to wash it for me.
Washing and brushing your Mistress hair is a small thing, but it can bring a lot of pleasure...


Being a Domme's trusted and reliable bath/groom/massage servant is an idea of which I find highly appealing! And there's quite a bit that falls under these categories!

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 6:57:27 PM   
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I would very much enjoy bathing a mistress and brushing her hair. It's very relaxing for both, I think. As for doing the dishes or taking out the trash, I just do that at a friend's house to be neighborly.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 7:14:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kitte9

I would very much enjoy bathing a mistress and brushing her hair. It's very relaxing for both, I think. As for doing the dishes or taking out the trash, I just do that at a friend's house to be neighborly.


I have a neighbor who takes out my garbage too.... he asked if he could do it after I made a joke one day about my needing a male, cause I was sick of taking out the trash.  

All of this talk of baths being drawn is making me miss the days of having one drawn for me.   Flower petals, candle light.... sigh


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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/20/2007 10:06:19 PM   
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Little things mean a lot.
Life is made up of days and days of little things.
I have learned this, its usually not the big things that matter.

It is the day to day, small things that make the quality of most of our lives.

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:16:57 AM   
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As a Cosmetologist, and having been awarded the title Master Hair Designer,
(though the title makes me chuckle given my submissive nature) my day is
filled with the fortune of service and pampering of Wonderful Women, ahhhh
there is a God!  i take special note of the, later in the day clients, rushing in
during rush hour, adrenalin pumping, one more thing to accomplish before
They can head for home and a comfy couch. i have them sit first, offer something
to quench the thirst, or satisfy a caffine urge, all the while gently touching and
softly massaging Their neck and shoulders while confirming the plan for
uplifting Their appearance, and in the course of, spirits. When i sense Their
breathing has relaxed and Their muscles less tense, i escort them to the shampoo
basin, lining the cold porcelin with a soft inviting towel. i place my hand gently
mid-back and guide Them slowly into the cradle of the basin, allowing for
personal movement as They settle in, and as most will do, take that deep body
and mind cleansing breath. i speak softly to again comfort and relax the client,
gently placing my hand across Her hairline to protect Her from any straying
sprays of water. The bathing of hair and scalp at just the right temperature, tested
on the wrist much like an infants bottle, warm and soothing, pausing at the nape
to relax tense neck muscles. The cleansing shampoo is worked within the palms
of the hand to warm with friction before smoothly applying to the hair from
hairline to the ends, beginning with soft methodical motion as it is penetrated
into the hair. Slow sweeps of massage glide along the hairline to the temples,
pausing to rotate in gentle circles before slowly returning to the point of origin.
Fingers apply firm but pulsating strokes across and down the scalp, lifting the
hair and tense moments of the day up and away. i continue with massaging
movements until i sense the client is totally relaxed and calm. i begin again
with a warm rinse and follow the above technique as conditioning treatment
is lovingly applied. Most husbands or lovers should send me a note of thanks
as i release the days tension well before sending their mates back into their
world, absent the firey torments of the day. The passion to serve continues
with each glide of the comb, each turn of the brush, each sweep of warm
air as it bathes and creates movement about Her. They are small things in Her
day, small things to mere man, but here in the heart of a submissive, it is a
banquet of passionate servitude to behold. And i will confess to loving those
moments when a man is foolish enough to accompany Her to me, as my touch
will linger just a few moments longer, just to see his discomfort as i continually
run my fingers through Her hair, to watch his eyes as She closes Hers and tilts
Her head to meet my lead. Yes, it's the small things, it's a small world after all.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)   

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:19:41 AM   
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wow chia I felt much more relaxed just reading about it... my hair needs doing...

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:26:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout

wow chia I felt much more relaxed just reading about it... my hair needs doing...


Thank You, though i have very long arms, Toronto may be "stretching" it!

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Small things mean a lot - 5/21/2007 12:28:08 AM   
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Ok., chia, that's it!!!   Exactly where were you when I lived in the west?

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