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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 8:31:20 AM

MzMia

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There are thousands here on CM, to think we all will understand each other
would be futile at best.
I will settle for civility whenever possible.
All the best to you also, TM.

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 8:45:17 AM

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See? You've jumped to the conclusion AGAIN that I meant something snippy or negative. I meant nothing of the kind.

I do not presume to understand you, or anyone else for that matter.

I'm only pointing out that recently, you've jumped to the defensive, or been aggravated, by anything I post. Evidently, I'm not the only one.

I wish you well, because I like you intuitively, always have, and will continue to do so, despite your harsh reactions to anything I post, whether it's in reply to you directly, or not.

You've been REALLY sensitive lately. That's all I mean to observe here. Whatever is going on with you I hope it smooths out and that you return to your bright, effervescent self soon. If we could talk on the phone and establish a rapport, I'd do that, too.

If I've offended you in any way, I am not aware of it, would immediatly regret doing so and would hope you would understand and accept my sincere apology for same.

I simply find it curious that others are getting lashed out at, in a similar manner. Which tells me that perhaps I am not doing anything to aggravate, only that you're being very quick to interperet things in ways they are not intended.

That's all. Truly.

If there were such a thing as cyber hugs between Dommes' I would send you one.

Unfortunately, I would no doubt manage to somehow offend you by doing so.

Shame, that. Because: I think you're nifty. I think you rock. I think you're the Bomb. I think you're 'all that' and more!

FWIW. (For whatever it's worth.)

TM

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 8:50:18 AM

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I guess this is another post on communicating, the part I meant
about "civility" had nothing to do with YOU.
It had to do with other people on here.
I meant, we should all try to be civil to everyone.
I am no more sensitive than usual, and I have learned who pushes my buttons
and not to respond to that.
Which I believe I have a right to do.
I have never had a problem with you and I still think you are great!

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 8:52:40 AM

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Well thank GOODNESS that's clarified!

Let's go whip a subbie.

; )

TM

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 8:54:51 AM

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Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Works for me!

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 12:07:14 PM

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Sea and LadyPact, I hope you two appreciate the fact that I have been singing "What would Brian Boitano do" all day

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 12:11:52 PM

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MsKat, I certainly do! We South Park fans have to stick together. Still, to be helpful.....

There's a bunch of birds in the sky,
And a deer just went running by,
Oh the snow's pure and white,
On the earth rich and brown,
Just another Sunday morning,
In My quiet mountain town

(Yes, I know all of the songs by heart)

Enjoy!

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 12:14:05 PM

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I sing the Xmas songs all year long.

Of our dear saviours b-b-b-birrrttthhhh
ding dong ding dong...mm kay
Her name is rio...

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 12:17:22 PM

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You can do it, it's all up to you M'Kay,
With a new plan you can change your life today,

Ok, I was going to finish this, but I realized it would be pulled. <Laughs>

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 12:24:56 PM

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Yea I know...my favorite song is one that would be pulled immediately. lol

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 5:35:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
What would Brian Botano do
If he was here right now
He'd make a plan and follow through
That's what Brian Botano'd do.

Ah, thank you for the song. I shall now write modified versions.

What would Mskat do
If she were here right now
She'd sit down and take off her shoe
That's what MsKat'd do

What would Lady Pact do
If she were here right now
She'd leave bruises a pretty blue
That's what LadyPact'd do

What would MsKat do
If it was Halloween right now
She's pull over a sheet and say boo
That's what MsKat'd do

What would LadyPact do
If it was happy hour right now
She'd have a bud and say, true
That's what Lady Pact would do

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 5:41:05 PM

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sea, very creative, dear, with one small exception. I'm afraid I don't drink beer. Never really had a taste for it. Switch it out with almost anything else, and you have yourself a hit song.

Always imaginative and creative, sea.

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 6:58:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I'm afraid I don't drink beer. Never really had a taste for it. Switch it out with almost anything else, and you have yourself a hit song.

What would LadyPact do
If it was happy hour right now
She have a bud and say, false....

Oops. Let's have a do over.

What would LadyPact do
If it was happy hour right now
She'd spank a bartender or two
That's what Lady Pact'd do

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 7:59:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia
For the time being, I am going to do the adult thing again, and not respond to posts
from you TWO, in which I will not be typing anything pleasant or of any real value.
There really is no need to turn this board into a slam fest because certain people
do not see eye to eye.

Fair enough. I much prefer lighthearted exchanges and constructive, cereberal discussions.

I recognize your choice to not continue this conversation is your prerogative and am fine to let this conversation end. I think my posts demonstrate I have engaged in this conversation in a fair manner. I wish to clarify against any suggestion that I have engaged in a slam fest.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 10:24:39 PM

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MzMia, I've read a few of the pages here, not all of them yet, but I have 3 words for you: he'll be back. You know I'm talking about...it's like we're all cursed to be pursued by the terminator.

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/26/2007 10:26:08 PM

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lol, those are usually my lines.

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/27/2007 4:52:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I'm afraid I don't drink beer. Never really had a taste for it. Switch it out with almost anything else, and you have yourself a hit song.

What would LadyPact do
If it was happy hour right now
She have a bud and say, false....

Oops. Let's have a do over.

What would LadyPact do
If it was happy hour right now
She'd spank a bartender or two
That's what Lady Pact'd do

Cheers,

Sea

Now THAT, My dear sea, is more My style. My thanks for the smile.

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/27/2007 7:00:40 AM

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I TRY TO PUT THINGS OUT. SET THE TONE RIGHT OFF THE BAT, MALES ARE TREATED ONE WAY AND FEMALES ANOTHER WAY. MISTRESS PASSION WAS ON THE MARK. HE SHOULD WHAT TO EXPECT. NOW WHAT DO YOU DO TO GO FORWARD IN THE FUTURE?

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/28/2007 3:31:14 PM

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Honestly, many of the subs I have met are not very serious. I mean I want to talk to get to know them them. And they go on and on about what they want to do for me. I believe we have some really sensitive male subs out there who are simply jumping in without thinking. And those who do think are simply demanding. Personally, I don't care and find that it is about powerplaying. And if you have a male sub who is overly sensitive by what you said- they are simply trying to force your hand. I would simply call it another day in the collarme hood and keep on walking.

A

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RE: Simple Misunderstandings/Styles of Communicating - 5/29/2007 7:47:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

LOL me too, we are a loving and supportive bunch.

Very supportive aren't they?

Diane

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