wandersalone
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Some ideas for living with chronic pain - pacing yourself - identify what activities trigger your symptoms and avoid overdoing these activities or allow yourself time to recover eg. go to the shops 4 times a week and buy a few things at a time rather than doing one big shop, don't do the vacuuming and cleaning the bathroom in the one day, vacuum one room a day, if you know that driving increases your tiredness and make sure that you don't have anything else planned for that day exercise - gentle exercise such as stretches, some yoga/Pilates moves, short walks..these can help both physically and psychologically meditation/relaxation exercises - there sould be lots of scripts/mp3s available on the net - setting time aside each day to meditate can be very helpful, if meditation is not our thing then mindfulness/awareness exercises may be more appropriate medication - talk to your doctors about ideas cog behavioural therapy techniques - there can be a couple of different types of pain, there is the physical pain that we feel and also the psychological pain that comes from our attitudes/emotions about our pain eg. I feel sore so I cancel a lunch date with friends, I then feel frustrated and guilty and weak for cancelling the lunch, I feel I should be able to cope with my pain, I am weak/useless because of the pain etc etc... this emotional overlay can then reduce our ability to accept/live with the physical symptoms and so what would usually be a 3/10 on a day when we are feeling emotionally strong feels like a 5/10 on a day when we are beating ourselves up psychologically... we can get caught in this awful cycle of physical pain, feeling bad about our pain, physical pain feels worse and so on and so on. some additives/caffeine/foods can trigger symptoms remind yourself that it is ok to tell people when you are having a crappy day, don’t bottle up your emotions of feel that you need to be a martyr do enjoyable activities that you can still do when having a bad day eg. listen to a favourite cd, burn incense, watch a soppy movie, call a friend get enough rest/sleep Okay, these are some ideas off the top of my head, there are also internet groups for people with CFS/FM that may have other ideas.
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