Immortalandeden
Posts: 4
Joined: 2/17/2007 Status: offline
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Greetings to Aall, This is the first time that I have posted here and may be the last. My girl and I have searched on this site now for a few months now for a sub/slave girl to join us in our adventure in this lifestyle "real time". As of today I have removed our information on this site due to the fact that all I have seen so far on here are sub/slave girls who say "i live this lifestyle real time", yet when they are asked to begin a friendship in order to get to know them, one of two things happens. One, they either block us, or two they respond with "not interested". My question here is simply what is the meaning of "honesty"? Surely the girls on this site cannot all be player, wannabe's, posers, etc. We have honestly opened up in messages to a few on this site sharing our lifestyle with those that say "i want that type of lifestyle" in their profiles, only to be shunned away. The title of this post is "Honesty vs. The Online Game". I have to question the honesty and integrity of some of the girls on this site who claim to be "sub/slave". Every relationship in life starts with an introduction, learning of each other, bonding as friends, and possibly moving forward to a deeper relationship. Well it seems to me that opening up and even introducing ones self does not work here. I am not a super Dom, nor do I ever want to be the "know it all" type of person. I try to learn everyday and lead my girl in a safe, sane, and consensual manner in all that we do. I say this to all of the sub/slave girls on this site that claim they "want" this type of lifestyle real time, yet are not even willing to get to know someone to even see if the interest is there from all persons concerned. At the end of the day if things do not work out in the "introduction" phase, at least hopefully a friendship type of bond has been made moving forward. We can never have too many friends in life. If anyone on this site feels they want to bash, trash, or otherwise bitch at me, please feel free to do so, all I ask is be respectful. I am not always right, nor will I ever be always right. I admit my own faults often and when I am wrong, I say that I am wrong and sincerely apologize to those I have wronged. I wish Aall well in their journey through this lifestyle and hope that I have manged to at least teach something to someone here, or at least enlightened someone's own "honesty" level. Immortal
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