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"Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/23/2007 2:51:15 AM   
Immortalandeden


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Greetings to Aall,
This is the first time that I have posted here and may be the last. My girl and I have searched on this site now for a few months now for a sub/slave girl to join us in our adventure in this lifestyle "real time". As of today I have removed our information on this site due to the fact that all I have seen so far on here are sub/slave girls who say "i live this lifestyle real time", yet when they are asked to begin a friendship in order to get to know them, one of two things happens. One, they either block us, or two they respond with "not interested".
My question here is simply what is the meaning of "honesty"? Surely the girls on this site cannot all be player, wannabe's, posers, etc. We have honestly opened up in messages to a few on this site sharing our lifestyle with those that say "i want that type of lifestyle" in their profiles, only to be shunned away. The title of this post is "Honesty vs. The Online Game". I have to question the honesty and integrity of some of the girls on this site who claim to be "sub/slave". Every relationship in life starts with an introduction, learning of each other, bonding as friends, and possibly moving forward to a deeper relationship. Well it seems to me that opening up and even introducing ones self does not work here.
I am not a super Dom, nor do I ever want to be the "know it all" type of person. I try to learn everyday and lead my girl in a safe, sane, and consensual manner in all that we do. I say this to all of the sub/slave girls on this site that claim they "want" this type of lifestyle real time, yet are not even willing to get to know someone to even see if the interest is there from all persons concerned. At the end of the day if things do not work out in the "introduction" phase, at least hopefully a friendship type of bond has been made moving forward. We can never have too many friends in life.
If anyone on this site feels they want to bash, trash, or otherwise bitch at me, please feel free to do so, all I ask is be respectful. I am not always right, nor will I ever be always right. I admit my own faults often and when I am wrong, I say that I am wrong and sincerely apologize to those I have wronged. I wish Aall well in their journey through this lifestyle and hope that I have manged to at least teach something to someone here, or at least enlightened someone's own "honesty" level.

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/23/2007 3:19:43 AM   
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As you clearly state,  there have been open honest messages to a "few" on the site. This seems to negate the rest of your statement, clearly aimed at all the "girls on this site". For the moment however, lets just pretend that you had sampled more than a few. There is the possibility that those you have picked actually are players. There is also the strong possibility that they just aren't interested. I know that may be hard to believe, people not being interested in you. Who knows, you may well be percieved by them as a player.... In any case, its their choice . As a Dom you should understand that better than any..

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/23/2007 3:25:55 AM   
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Thank You Cuffs for the response. I will have to say You are correct, the message was intended for me to learn and grow as a Dom in this lifestyle. Speaking to "all" of the girls on this site was not the right way of saying what I think, feel, or see here. I retract the "all" portion and change it to the "few". My apologies to any girls on this site that may be offended by my statements.

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/23/2007 8:04:17 AM   
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How can we be offended by something we see every day?  We are so used to hearing this stuff.  Are you voice or cam verifying?  Do you realize there are many guys, pretending to be girls, on this site?  Are you aware that sometimes people can't move from fantasy to real time, because they are stunted in various ways?  Are you aware that on-line is a huge playground and that many people are not (gasp) genuine?

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/24/2007 2:59:50 PM   
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Well, I have to agree again, being offended is a daily occurence in life in one way or another. As for voice or cam verifying. There is no point prior to be able to chat with a girl first and see if something clicks, getting to that point has been the challenge. As for guys playing girls on here, yes I am fully aware, they also would be addressed as sicko psycho's in My opinion.
Maybe I have completely misread the purpose of this site all together. Maybe patience is one of My faults that I need to look at? I will be looking at many different ideas within My own mind. Thank you for the comments and questions.

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/24/2007 5:57:59 PM   
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I think there are many who enjoy the fantasy, the thought of the fantasy, and when it becomes a real possibility they run scared.  Some of them probably are genuninely afraid, the others, I think are probably in other relationships and just here for wanking material or to play with others, on-line.

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RE: "Honesty" vs. "The online game" - 5/24/2007 6:02:28 PM   
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OP, you get responses saying not interested.  I''d be delighted to get that much.  My emails just go unread completely.

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