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RE: How does a subf find a good master? - 5/29/2007 7:37:19 AM   
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I do not understand the context of this statement, perhaps you could enlighten me? I do not know if this comment was supposed to be to me or not, because my name is in the cormer.


Cormer?




That is where one sticks a subf when they have been naughty... like DUH.

thanks for catching my typo.. I did not even see it last night

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RE: How does a subf find a good master? - 5/29/2007 7:38:13 AM   
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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/29/2007 11:36:55 AM   
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A master will "squeeze" or turn your nipples on the first kiss.........


I've been trying to create this visual image in my mind. Assuming you are talking literally and not metaphorically I don't think this is possible or practical. At the very least it would be uncomfortable. Unless, upon meeting, you have your potential submissive prove she/he was "real" by having them raise their shirt and you apply some clamps you carry with you for this purpose.

However your 'nom de plume' gave me a hint. Obviously your "first kiss" occurs while in the process of a very intimate act. In that event reaching up and squeezing is possible and practical if you failed to bring your clover clamps on the first date. However, as an obviously vastly less experienced individual, I've never managed to place my first kiss in such an intimate place. Most time I managed to graze my lips on her cheek while shaking her hand in a traditional greeting.

A first kiss combined with a nipple squeeze? WOW! You are the "Master"-Man!

Oh hell, I really hate myself and feel so "dirty" for contributing to this!

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/29/2007 11:47:48 AM   
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A master will "squeeze" or turn your nipples on the first kiss.........



Damn and all I did was kiss my sub and pat him on the ass on the first kiss....I twisted his nipples later when I had him on the cross.

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/29/2007 4:32:54 PM   
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Ohh... To be new again. Maybe to teach them would be a better way down the path to perfection, rather then ridicule and derision. :)

Edit> This was a reply to all who posted in this thread. And not directed at Lashra.

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< Message edited by CruelDesires -- 5/29/2007 4:35:27 PM >


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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/29/2007 4:39:35 PM   
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When I saw the name of this post, I was all excited as i was gonna direct her to the fella looking for the subf.
No need i see

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/29/2007 11:13:02 PM   
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Well the op has two truly intelligent threads going on today.  Here is he telling everyone how to find a Master yet on his other he is asking how to find a "subf". 

You just have to love experienced "Master's" who are DomGodLordof the world online

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 5/30/2007 1:47:54 AM   
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if one is gay, does a really firm squeeze of the testicles take the place of a handshake now?
one likes to keep up with the newer trends, and i fear making a social gaffe in the new ettiquette, so guidance is important to me from those that know it all. can one tip a waitress by crushing her nipples now?


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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 6/1/2007 7:42:05 AM   
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I must still be upset about My spilled bowl of Fruit Loops from the other thread.  Trying so hard not to resort to name calling.

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 6/2/2007 9:50:50 AM   
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Hey isn't your signature a line from 'Aeroplane' ??

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/11/2013 10:33:57 PM   
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Back to the question at hand here on how a submissive woman finds a dominating man * Inhales and exhales * Here it comes my honesty bomb take cover if this is going to bother or hurt any one.
First off to do so you need to be able to place all your limits in plain logical clear easy to read view, if a dominating man does not read best advice don't reply.
This choice alone will save so much head ache in the long term. That or another option if it was possible. Beat the moron with a old fashioned hard back Marion Websters dictionary saving you the pain and suffering of having another decade of uneducated back ward spawn from populating the already shallow end of the gene pool.
I know i know bad form and blah blah blah. Moving on Secondly if you do have a realistic stable sane consenting adult dominating man with enough sense in his head get to know the man online first and then with friends and safety in numbers go out to a public setting any place will do be it a mall or a mcdonald's where there are eyes every place so in the event this seemingly safe dominating guy turns out to be not so much as you have anticipated some one will hopefully have enough sense to beat the stupid off the guy for being dangerous or one of your friends can do so.
If he turns out to be decent in person after a good year or more pending on how much trust he has earned then I would try to go out to munches and in time get to know one another and never ever allow this guy to have sex with you and respect your limits as a civil human man should. It is about you and what your needs and safety is concerned also get a drug screen just to make sure he is not under any dangerous chemicals and make sure to get a full health check report for the two of you to share. If nothing comes back that makes ether of you run for the hill's with your hair lit ablaze screaming from terror then stat out slowly dating and experience a few play sessions when he earns that trust.

Then as time goes on and if he can further prove that he is worthy of your life and commitment feel as comfortable provided you both do get along and have a deeper connection only when you both feel it is the right time to do so. To me that is how i would do it but then again I am just saying the honest truth in how I see it being safe and loving for both sides.
I am just honest and do not have a thing to fear from being as such.
To me this is the proper way to handle dating in today's age and finding that right Dominating man.

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/11/2013 10:51:57 PM   
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MisterBusiness, this thread is now six years old. Most of the people discussing this topic are no longer here. Perhaps you might like to start a new thread in general BDSM for the current members to weigh in on your honesty bomb.

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/11/2013 10:52:33 PM   
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This post is from 2007!!



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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/12/2013 3:51:47 AM   
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Not only did you dig up a six year old thread, but...

If you're advocating a one year chastity period up front, most people would leave after the first month or two.

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/12/2013 8:23:43 AM   
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Ihave a suggestion if this an old thread take it down and delete it then and don't leave it up *rolls eyes*

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/12/2013 8:34:03 AM   
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Ihave a suggestion if this an old thread take it down and delete it then and don't leave it up *rolls eyes*


Or you just follow TOS and not post on it.....

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RE: How does a sub female find a good master? - 2/12/2013 10:13:45 AM   
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Ihave a suggestion if this an old thread take it down and delete it then and don't leave it up *rolls eyes*
They didn't leave it up. You dug it up.





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