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RE: curious..... - 5/30/2007 7:07:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

My horrible secret is .. and please do NOT tell anyone ....

I LIKE VANILLA .. ice cream!!

LOL

It is my favorite too! Especially if it's the kind with the little tiny black vanilla bean seeds in it. my favortie scent is - guess again...Vanilla! i use the body cream as well as the cologne and love it.

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RE: curious..... - 5/30/2007 7:22:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

My horrible secret is .. and please do NOT tell anyone ....

I LIKE VANILLA .. ice cream!!

LOL

only if its a really good rich french vanilla with the lil bits of vanilla bean in there.

kitten, who also likes lime sherbert cause NO ONE else in the house likes it, and that means i dont go for something sweet and find nothing...or worse yet a carton with ONE BITE of icecream in. damned teenaged walking hormone person.

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RE: curious..... - 5/30/2007 10:38:02 PM

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...What if Hugh and his Master decide to not have a poly household, attend a minimal amout of munches, events, playparties, etc., if at all?...

regardless of whether Al has other slaves, or if and where they hang out with other Masters and/or slaves, this slave would consider them to be engaging in an alternative lifestyle, because the society and culture that they live in does not accept or recognize an Owner/property or Master/slave relationship as healthy and/or legal to engage another in.

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What if they are solid and comfortable, content in the simple transfer of power that has occured with the two?

this slave doesn't consider power transfer an alternative relationship style. it is a very common and accepted part of the society and culture in which this slave has lived and lives, with or without the labels Dom/sub/switch, etc.

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It seems to me that the only distinction between a vanilla and a lifestyler is someone who makes the effort to socialize with others who've chosen the same lifestyle...Would you consider someone who never attends events, but is living the lifestyle every other way, vanilla?

there are folks who make that distinction, but that is not this slave's opinion. If Al decides to attend munches with Hugh, allows Hugh to post to a message board, etc., that would seem to this slave to be along the lines of what pleases Al. If he never allows Hugh contact with others who also engage in alternative lifestyles, it wouldn't make their lifestyle less alternative to this slave.

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I'm not trying to ruffle feathers...and i sincerely hope i am not...

not this slave's anyway...and the same to you!

this slave's perceptions and opinions are not intended as one-true-way-isms, generalities or insults for/to anyone.

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RE: curious..... - 5/31/2007 3:45:06 PM

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I feel that in a vanilla relationship that people share responsible and power. I think that society considers vanilla normal. I feel vanilla is more toward the main stream of how people live.
I feel in the past the man work and usually was in charge and the woman ran the home and submit to the man.

I feel in a D/s relationship that any person can be in charge. I feel that this kind of relationship does not follow society’s way of thinking. I feel in a D/s relationship that you do not have to follow what society thinks is right.

I desire to find a dominant woman and submit to her. I think most of the time our relationship would be more toward vanilla. I think we would look like any other couple on the outside.
I would desire to submit and obey her. When I submit and her rules then our D/s relationship shows forth. I think that the D/s would be more of a mental thing than physical thing. That is not to say I would not love playtime.

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RE: curious..... - 5/31/2007 3:55:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: maledave7

I feel that in a vanilla relationship that people share responsible and power. I think that society considers vanilla normal. I feel vanilla is more toward the main stream of how people live.
I feel in the past the man work and usually was in charge and the woman ran the home and submit to the man.

I feel in a D/s relationship that any person can be in charge. I feel that this kind of relationship does not follow society’s way of thinking. I feel in a D/s relationship that you do not have to follow what society thinks is right.

I desire to find a dominant woman and submit to her. I think most of the time our relationship would be more toward vanilla. I think we would look like any other couple on the outside.
I would desire to submit and obey her. When I submit and her rules then our D/s relationship shows forth. I think that the D/s would be more of a mental thing than physical thing. That is not to say I would not love playtime.

in terms of vanilla?

In the past males got to work and be the primary career interface for the family and exerted major influences in car and home repair, and landscape maintenance, while the woman's domain was the home.

Then women became a 2nd income. And then they became the primary income. In order to balance the difference males now have to do housework, cook, shop, babysit and other stuff too.

If you have a vanilla better than that, you're a genius/pimp/moslem/hindu/?

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