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New here - 5/30/2007 11:28:31 PM

bbmwst

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Just thought it was time to post an intro. i have been in the lifestyle about 6 years and i am just coming back after a year or so. i am married to a gentleman who has absolutely nothing to do with BDSM. He does know about any relationships that are established outside of our married but doesn't want details, which i can understand. Poor guy, he is one of those tender ones and just doesn't get the masochistic thing. i came here to find a few friends and if i end up finding someone who tickles my fancy; well that is icing on the cake.

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RE: New here - 5/30/2007 11:49:27 PM

RuheMaus

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Welcome! And in defense of those of us who ARE gentle & Dominant, it can be done. Mabye get the Topping Book & The Bottoming Book for him to read & see if it strikes his fancy? Perhaps from there mabye ease him into it, if he's comfortable by starting with such simple things as tying you to the bed with silk scarves when you make love, or giving you a few swats on your rump? If you go slow and easy with him, and show him this side of you, there's a good chance of 'converting' him.

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RE: New here - 5/31/2007 7:17:40 AM

bbmwst

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Thanks for the recommend on the book. I will have to get a copy of that and see if it does strike his fancy. I have no problem with those who are Gentle and Dominate; I really enjoy it when it comes in the right combination.