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just coming out - 6/1/2007 9:31:10 PM

kitchendisco

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hello switches.
I have come to point in my journey, where i realise that im a bit of everything, i like to have fun, both top and bottom of the spectrum.
Can anyone suggest where to start?
I have very ltd experience in real life as a switch, i have been a collared submissive in the past. But i realise that i am not a submissive.
Im relocating soon to south england, in Portsmouth. Can anyone share any links with me on the local groups for that area? As i prefer real life to online.
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RE: just coming out - 6/1/2007 10:32:05 PM

Laura

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You need to decide who you are looking for. I'm not sure I'd still call myself a Switch as I have leaned to the Domme side a couple of years now. But, the feelings of sub are there, poking around. Still, when I am looking for someone to have a relationship with I am looking mainly for submissive men. I feel that compliments me better. I used to crave meeting a male Switch but gave up on that or at least put it on the back burner. I do know that I am not looking for a male Dom. That is very unlikely to work out for how I am feeling/ living currently. Anyway, you do need to decide who you are looking for, what works for you. Better to have some idea that way before you begin looking around. Just because you are a Switch does not mean you will suit everyone and everyone will suit you.

I can't help you find local groups as I'm far from the UK. You might get lucky if you search Google or try the directory at dmoz.

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