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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 4:21:58 AM

LadyPact

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Yes, there have been a number of activities asked about recently. Check the anti thread.

I don't see strapon play as a version of punishment. If I'm enjoying it, exactly how is he being punished? He's serving Me and that can be it's own reward. Oh, and just a quick biology lesson.... The nerve endings in the anus are the same on men and women. Pleasuring those nerve endings doesn't change depending on gender.

Yeah, but guys have prostate glands, and women don't, so I think it would feel different depending on your gender.

This is true, but considering the number of people who enjoy the activity, I don't think there is an issue. When you get a bit older, and perhaps have an actual experience or two of your own, you may think differently about the subject.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 8:44:12 AM

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LOL!

This is very un-dommely of me~ but am I the ONLY one that feels absolutely stupid wearing a harness and plastic dildo??? I prefer a hand held dildo. I'll take his ass like a woman, not like a man :)

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 9:09:08 AM

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This is very un-dommely of me~ but am I the ONLY one that feels absolutely stupid wearing a harness and plastic dildo??? I prefer a hand held dildo. I'll take his ass like a woman, not like a man :)

I think that a bobbing dildo in a harness just adds to the complete "inappropriateness" of the act, which is part of the fun

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 10:00:53 AM

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[I think that a bobbing dildo in a harness just adds to the complete "inappropriateness" of the act, which is part of the fun

LOL! Fun for WHO?! (I wanna have fun too!)

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 10:05:38 AM

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I'm submissive, but i find the idea of donning a strap on and fucking either a male or female to be wildly exciting. The same goes for being fucked by a female wearing one.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 10:31:28 AM

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[I think that a bobbing dildo in a harness just adds to the complete "inappropriateness" of the act, which is part of the fun

LOL! Fun for WHO?! (I wanna have fun too!)

Fun for those who enjoy either end of a strap-on I would guess :) But if that kind of thing is not your style I'm certainly not going to tell you what you "should" enjoy..lol

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 10:37:55 AM

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ohmale....actually I can't remember the last time I had a straight boy that didn't beg for a strap on...somehting to the effect of wanting to be "possessed" by Me...
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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 11:06:48 AM

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Now, what I would like to see is a Domme embrace her sex. We can only fuck, a guy LIKE a guy???

Don't use a phallus, be creative and use something that represents females :) Like a Barbie (or better yet, a Ken doll!). Or a curling iron (maybe on low... maybe) or a douche bag. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm what other things that represent females could we use :)?

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 11:11:05 AM

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Now, what I would like to see is a Domme embrace her sex. We can only fuck, a guy LIKE a guy???

Don't use a phallus, be creative and use something that represents females :) Like a Barbie (or better yet, a Ken doll!). Or a curling iron (maybe on low... maybe) or a douche bag. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm what other things that represent females could we use :)?

Another male sub's phallus.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 11:33:20 AM

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A curling iron brings a whole new meaning to getting warmed up.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 11:36:55 AM

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Don't give me any new ideas. hahaha

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A curling iron brings a whole new meaning to getting warmed up.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 12:05:02 PM

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Really looking forward to my first experience ..... That is, if done with love ...

And don´t we call this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)

http://www.answers.com/topic/pegging-sexual-practice
..., or do i overlook somethinghere ??

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 12:45:45 PM

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mines can't get enough of it but kinda sucks sometimes becoz it takes alot of preparation and .. clean up. The strap on that we have is a two way one, and has a clit tickling part.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 1:26:43 PM

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Now, what I would like to see is a Domme embrace her sex. We can only fuck, a guy LIKE a guy???

Don't use a phallus, be creative and use something that represents females :) Like a Barbie (or better yet, a Ken doll!). Or a curling iron (maybe on low... maybe) or a douche bag. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm what other things that represent females could we use :)?

I've actually used the curling iron, it was not on or plugged in at the time since I didn't want melted condom all over it. Then there was a shampoo bottle that was very intriguing in shape, filled with warm water to give it a bit more "heft" or frozen to give a completely different sensation. I've also improvised with a matrioshka I have.( A set of Russian nesting dolls.) I just love perverting everyday objects into something...kinky. I can look up at that nesting doll right now and smile remembering what I did with it.

With me it's more about position. There is something very interesting that occurs when a male sub is positioned on his back with his legs in the air. The intimacy and the closeness of that position does it for me every time. The ability to force them to look into my eyes and acknowledge what I'm going to do to them is awesome. Watching their face as I do what I want to them...sigh. I suppose that could qualify as fucking a guy like a guy would do it but for me it's simply my favorite.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 2:39:15 PM

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Whem I'm doing a male in the ass with a strapon, bigger is better!!!!!!!

Diane

A strap-on needs to provide a good amount of stretch to be enjoyable. It has to fit tightly. If its too easy, its a bit of a let down. Yeah, i'm a size queen. ;)

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 2:44:33 PM

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Whem I'm doing a male in the ass with a strapon, bigger is better!!!!!!!

Diane

A strap-on needs to provide a good amount of stretch to be enjoyable. It has to fit tightly. If its too easy, its a bit of a let down. Yeah, i'm a size queen. ;)

I can tell that you have been stretched before...You are a strapon expert....

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 2:49:21 PM

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whats the big deal, I have held the legs of men up so a woman could get a better angle on his ass. And even the ones that say they dont think its going to feel good end up shooting a wad on their own chest.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 2:57:02 PM

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whats the big deal, I have held the legs of men up so a woman could get a better angle on his ass. And even the ones that say they dont think its going to feel good end up shooting a wad on their own chest.

To a male that has never tried strapon, it's a very big deal. Yes you're right. I've used my strapons on guys that didn't think they would enjoy it. A few them were busting wads
within minutes and some took longer and some didn't like it at all.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 8:04:02 PM

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Actually woman do have a prostate gland look it up.Its just as pronunced as men

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 8:30:57 PM

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Actually woman do have a prostate gland look it up.Its just as pronunced as men

What you're possibly referring to is the Skene's gland or the Lesser Vestibular. It's also the site of G spot orgasms. It's been thought of for years to be a residual prostate gland for females or homologous to the male prostate. However it is not the same thing. There are both similarities and differences between the two. The only other problem is that it's (the Lesser Vestibular) is located in the upper vaginal wall not anally.

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