Oral 'home sampling kits' are available. However, it should be noted that it is illegal to use them in the UK.
It is recommended that a HIV test is done within a medical setting.
Remember - there is still a stigma linked to HIV - there are still misunderstandings. Contacting someone you don't know could be a risk.
Charities will NOT divulge any information, and in most countries - they will send home samples or conduct blodd samples in their clinics
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