Not as complicated as you might think... I identify as a submissive Top. I am submissive within the relationship and dynamic, but I have the ability to Top should it be required by my dominant. Darcy considers himself dominant and allows me to top on occasion. Ultimately it is his choice. I do not switch roles, but I submit to the 'moment' as desired (if that makes any sense). A dominant can be any 'role' - bottom, masochist, sadist, top etc - as can a s-type. Switches can make very wonderful D/s couples or poly relationships. Peace
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