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livinincincy -> How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 5:41:20 PM)

How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? I am talking about players, fakes and wanna-bees.  How can you spot them ?

I was told that if their first communication to you involves "send me a picture" that it is more than likely a wanker.  I was to call them on this and see how they respond..

Any better advice ?



DianeB269 -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 5:48:48 PM)

I get lots of wankers asking me for pics. If and when I'm looking for a sub, I'll ask for a phone number.



Diane



earthycouple -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 5:52:02 PM)

I bypass anyone who can't write a decent email or create a decent profile.  Beyond that, I believe it's up to your good senses and ability to be discerning...Just like in life outside of collarme.



undergroundsea -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 5:54:04 PM)

I ran blindly into the forest and kept running until I hit a tree!

Just kidding ;-)

I think asking for picture is not necessarily a sign of a wanker and, instead, is a reasonable request or expectation. As for sensing a fake or not, I rely on my intuition most.

Cheers,

Sea




chiaThePet -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 6:18:47 PM)

You run head strong into the forest swinging a really big chain saw

The fakes and wannabees will throw themselves off the nearest cliff into obscurity

If a little innocent blood get spilled....eh.....all in a days work

chia* (the pet)



MistressDolly -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 6:56:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: livinincincy

How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? I am talking about players, fakes and wanna-bees.  How can you spot them ?

I was told that if their first communication to you involves "send me a picture" that it is more than likely a wanker.  I was to call them on this and see how they respond..

Any better advice ?



Yes, don't make that an absolute.

I do that too and lol, I'm not one of those wankers you're referring to.

I would call them sooner than later too.



MistressDolly -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 6:58:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

I ran blindly into the forest and kept running until I hit a tree!

Just kidding ;-)

Cheers,

Sea



lol



MsPleasure -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 7:19:03 PM)

Picture and phone number are my first requests.   Phone calls let me know if I want to meet or even continue conact.



LaMistressa -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 7:26:42 PM)

I usually ask for a picture up front, since mine is on my profile. As for weeding out wanks and fakers, I email and chat with the people who interest me, and if they continue to interest me, then I consider them. If every email is "pleeeeeeaaaaase Mistress chat with me noooooowwwww pleeeeeease", I figure they're  a shrub vs. a tree. 



slaveboyforyou -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 7:42:42 PM)

I caution those that think a phone number will root out the fakes.  For about 20 or 30 dollars you can buy a cheap pre-paid phone with about an hour or so of time on it.  It can then be easily discarded and they are untraceable.  I also caution people that think they are smart enough to spot a con-artist right off the bat.  I speak from experience; con-artists have a lot of practice doing what they do and know how to reel in a sucker.  Whether you accept it or not, we are all potential rubes to them.



SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 7:51:51 PM)

I ask for a photo upfront and I'm not a wanker. I ask because I want to see who I'm communicating with. Mine is available and if theirs isn't for provacy purposes then I usually require one rather quickly.

As for how to weed out the fakes...harder answer...trust your intuition, don't be afraid to ask questions and use your common sense.

Best of luck.



littlesarbonn -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 7:54:54 PM)

I demand sex on the first date, within an hour of the first email. This weeds out all of the fakes. I know this works because so far I've weeded out EVERYONE. Wait, maybe this isn't as good a plan as I thought....



hereyesruponyou -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 8:02:21 PM)

Perhaps more the type of picture requested matters? When they want to send me a cock pic before a face shot, i'm generally not interested. Same goes for pics that show how "extreme" they are. Also the "watch me on cam do anything you want" is not my thing.

I don't do phone contact until i get to know someone. I hate talking on the phone and i'm not really willing to compromise that just to satisfy someone else's insecurity. Personal choice. I'm not in any hurry to "meet" the wrong person



MellowSir -> RE: How do you find the Trees in the Forest ? (6/6/2007 8:03:15 PM)

Someone who doesn't answer ANY messages, be they from a man, woman, or whatever, refusal to at least show you their face after you've chatted for awhile, anyone who claims so many years experience that they would have had to start as a preteen lol



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