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LadyIce -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/11/2007 4:44:49 PM)

I think your description would be the perfect slave for many women.
Your perfect slave sounds like the complete package.
I hope you find him one day.




DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/12/2007 10:53:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Unfortunately, femdoms who are lifestyle pros or have a high visibility of one somehow get to be the punching bag for male subs who are bitter at their own inability to find happiness in a functional relationship.  I have been on the Internet for more than 10 years, I basically "grew up" while posting on newsgroups like this, and it baffles me to think that how submissives viewed me, and my legitimacy, would be vastly different if at 25 I decided I wanted to go pro full time instead of going into a corporate job.

There have been times in my life where I sustained such a high level of energy for BDSM and femdom that I woke up each day and said, "YEAH! I could do this for a living, I LOVE this, I could share this passion and have total autonomy in my life!"  But I've always come back to reality and accepted that my personal highs and lows for energy and passion, and my own selectivity with partners, make it impossible for me to be a full time dominatrix with a really cool dungeon.  But what if I had?  All of a sudden I go from very credible Akasha, because I have a normal career, to totally uncredible Akasha, because I do kink for a living?  I don't get it.

Akasha



Thank you. That is very insightful, as you often are but I don't think most people would get it. Not because you didn't describe it well, you did, but that there is no way you could possibly know the conflicts and challenges unless you';re smack in it. In 20 years I haven't seen this change. What has changed is how I shift through BS and eliminate flights of fancy. Do I risk the possibility  of overlooking a diamond in the rough? I'm sure I do.

As much as I would also love to live the dream of being a Goddess, playing in a dungeon everyday and 100% making my living at kink, I can't. I've done this already and not only wasn't it enough for me and no matter how desired you just have to kiss to many damn toads to find a prince. I enjoy the balance of my life now and I know you too strive for this. My ideal of a perfect slave may seem like a tall order but I know he/she is the only type that will fit nicely into all areas of my life. Each and every facet just as important as the other.




novslave -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/12/2007 3:35:00 PM)

Be perfect... get perfect!! 




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/13/2007 2:24:50 AM)

I personally would not strive for perfection, as I find imperfections more appealing. I am by no means am being dis-respectful to your op Dianna, and I do hope you find what you seek someday, I enjoyed reading it [:)]




Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/13/2007 3:11:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I personally would not strive for perfection, as I find imperfections more appealing. I am by no means am being dis-respectful to your op Dianna, and I do hope you find what you seek someday, I enjoyed reading it [:)]



Interesting point Maam. Is this because You find a submissive thats less than perfect gives You something to work on, or is this because You find perfect becomes boring ?
[;)]




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/13/2007 3:35:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I personally would not strive for perfection, as I find imperfections more appealing. I am by no means am being dis-respectful to your op Dianna, and I do hope you find what you seek someday, I enjoyed reading it [:)]



Interesting point Maam. Is this because You find a submissive thats less than perfect gives You something to work on, or is this because You find perfect becomes boring ?
[;)]


Hello Politesub,
I find flaws more exciteable, I feel nobody is that perfect, not even Me lol. I have flaws aswell as positive attributes just like everyone else, whole part and parcel of being a human being lol. [:D]

I am not into this Goddess lark, I am too much of a Sadist!




Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/13/2007 4:16:38 PM)

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys.... [;)]

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course. [:D]




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 2:42:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys.... [;)]

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course. [:D]


I prefer the term Dominant, Domme, Domina, Sadist Ma'am & Mistress will suffice also, as personal choice [:)]. I feel a tad uncomfortable at the term goddess in My personal opinion, when subs call Me this in a general way. I am into greek mythology and I consider a Goddess such as venus, just that mythology, fantasy. I would get kinda bored of being fed grapes all day, and being fanned, how boring lol. My foot fetishists call Me goddess from time to time, as they like being at My feet and worshipping them, I am okay with that as it symbolises their servitude at My feet, and worship in that context, but not in a general, overall term.




Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 2:51:29 AM)

Uh Oh...... Now im stuck with 10lb of grapes Maam.... i suppose i will just have to start the diet at the weekend instead [:D]




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 3:16:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Uh Oh...... Now im stuck with 10lb of grapes Maam.... i suppose i will just have to start the diet at the weekend instead [:D]


Giggles [:D]




DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 8:58:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys.... [;)]

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course. [:D]


I prefer the term Dominant, Domme, Domina, Sadist Ma'am & Mistress will suffice also, as personal choice [:)]. I feel a tad uncomfortable at the term goddess in My personal opinion, when subs call Me this in a general way. I am into greek mythology and I consider a Goddess such as venus, just that mythology, fantasy. I would get kinda bored of being fed grapes all day, and being fanned, how boring lol. My foot fetishists call Me goddess from time to time, as they like being at My feet and worshipping them, I am okay with that as it symbolises their servitude at My feet, and worship in that context, but not in a general, overall term.


Goddess lark? Fantasy? Some people would consider a sadist a monster & want to lock you up. The truth is you have no idea what a Goddess is, really and that's cool if you don't understand it, but don't make insulting remarks because you don't.


I'm just fine sitting back, eatting grapes and being pampered. Then again I'm not a sadist, I'm a Goddess. I say stick with what you know.




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 1:28:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys.... [;)]

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course. [:D]


I prefer the term Dominant, Domme, Domina, Sadist Ma'am & Mistress will suffice also, as personal choice [:)]. I feel a tad uncomfortable at the term goddess in My personal opinion, when subs call Me this in a general way. I am into greek mythology and I consider a Goddess such as venus, just that mythology, fantasy. I would get kinda bored of being fed grapes all day, and being fanned, how boring lol. My foot fetishists call Me goddess from time to time, as they like being at My feet and worshipping them, I am okay with that as it symbolises their servitude at My feet, and worship in that context, but not in a general, overall term.


Goddess lark? Fantasy? Some people would consider a sadist a monster & want to lock you up. The truth is you have no idea what a Goddess is, really and that's cool if you don't understand it, but don't make insulting remarks because you don't.


I'm just fine sitting back, eatting grapes and being pampered. Then again I'm not a sadist, I'm a Goddess. I say stick with what you know.



Indeedy [:D], I agree I stick to what I enjoy and know, and to be honest some subs like monsters lol




MistressRouge -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/14/2007 1:48:41 PM)

Good luck, with your search for the perfect slave!




LadyDominaX -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/16/2007 12:07:06 AM)

The perfect slave for me -- truly an elusive creature.  Polite, respectful, and putting my needs and desires above their own.  They trust that I know best and follow instructions swiftly.  They have enough self-respect and self-esteem to be an asset to me.  There are many qualities I seek; to list them all might constitute hijacking the thread. 




novslave -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/17/2007 6:31:39 AM)

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!




LadyClaudiaVan -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/17/2007 8:05:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!


There happen to be plenty of fish and the like in the sea that adore women and worship women to the extent LadyDominaX describes, that is why they are submissives. If one day you find a woman worthy of such adoration, you may see her definition encapsulates a submissive rather nicely.




LadyDominaX -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/17/2007 8:13:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!


A jellyfish lacks a spine.  I've found too many of those, and too few of the truly worthy submissives.  I seek a slave who is willing to put their strength, will and wisdom to use serving me; how could a jellyfish be of any use?




LadyClaudiaVan -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/17/2007 8:30:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyDominaX

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!


A jellyfish lacks a spine.  I've found too many of those, and too few of the truly worthy submissives.  I seek a slave who is willing to put their strength, will and wisdom to use serving me; how could a jellyfish be of any use?



Bravo![;)]




novslave -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/17/2007 9:39:39 AM)

gr8.. But spineless pet... with no financial problem... won't he be ideal for u guys to squeeze off!! 




DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/18/2007 7:00:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyDominaX

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!


A jellyfish lacks a spine.  I've found too many of those, and too few of the truly worthy submissives.  I seek a slave who is willing to put their strength, will and wisdom to use serving me; how could a jellyfish be of any use?



Very true but no matter how well you define it more then half just will never get it.




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