Sinergy
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Rarely I've let a first play date put me in cuffs, but again, I must know him well and trust him. It is not generally what I do though, as I don't wish to end up where I don't want to be. For me, I tend to approach things with a "not asking others to do things Im not willing to do myself" sort of outlook. I have provided her with all the relevant information about me. I refuse (most of the time, and when I have not I have regretted the decision to do so) to leave where I am meeting her for the first time and go to another place. I think she should be allowed a cool-off time to consider if she wants to take it further. So whether I restrained a person on the first meeting with me is somewhat moot. Wont happen. Sinergy
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