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"dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 5:09:50 PM

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I am refering to Orgasm without Ejaculation in Men.

I do this routinely. I think it dates back to sexaul incompatibility with my ex-wife. We were young and I liked to do it all afternoon. She could not understand why I wanted another orgasm 10 minutes later.

So as I took the creed to 'Adapt, Pperciveer, and Overcome" to a new level. I just easily learned to make my (1) orgasm worth it so to speak. I would have several "dry orgasms" before I finally came. This let multiple positions and orgasms occur in a single escapade.

I know I am not alone. I know of another Dom that likes to torture his victims this way. The "victim" thinks she has gotten Master off and will be let free... hehehe. Nope, the "pounding" continues and she and he enjoy another "battery" of orgasms... Eventauly fatigue sets in an you release a large load of fluid.

So is this common or uncommon ?

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 5:12:05 PM

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uhm and this is of general interest why?

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 5:12:15 PM

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Well my husband isn't all domly and stuff...but he also has this capacity. It can be fun and frustrating depending on our moods.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 5:52:36 PM

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There is a condition where the sperm will actualy go back into the bladder instead of beeing ejaculated out. There has been no health issue found with this other then not beeing fertile. This could be what is going on?

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 6:13:06 PM

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There is a condition where the sperm will actualy go back into the bladder instead of beeing ejaculated out. There has been no health issue found with this other then not beeing fertile. This could be what is going on?

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Not likely. Some men don't always cum, that's just life.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 6:16:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirPizon

I am refering to Orgasm without Ejaculation in Men.

I do this routinely. I think it dates back to sexaul incompatibility with my ex-wife. We were young and I liked to do it all afternoon. She could not understand why I wanted another orgasm 10 minutes later.

So as I took the creed to 'Adapt, Pperciveer, and Overcome" to a new level. I just easily learned to make my (1) orgasm worth it so to speak. I would have several "dry orgasms" before I finally came. This let multiple positions and orgasms occur in a single escapade.

I know I am not alone. I know of another Dom that likes to torture his victims this way. The "victim" thinks she has gotten Master off and will be let free... hehehe. Nope, the "pounding" continues and she and he enjoy another "battery" of orgasms... Eventauly fatigue sets in an you release a large load of fluid.

So is this common or uncommon ?

More than likely uncommon...and good job in the subtle way that you advertised your particular talent...Tempting

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 7:24:07 PM

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it is a 5000 year old taoist practice, and not at all uncommon for men that share my life as that i teach them pretty soon how to do it.

but dont do it to much...cause it can go from an awesome way to prolong sex, to very boring and annoying in a relatively short period of time.

torturing a woman by boring her is not fun

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 7:27:47 PM

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quote:

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it is a 5000 year old taoist practice, and not at all uncommon for men that share my life as that i teach them pretty soon how to do it.

but dont do it to much...cause it can go from an awesome way to prolong sex, to very boring and annoying in a relatively short period of time.

torturing a woman by boring her is not fun

Yeah, bored women fall asleep.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 9:20:52 PM

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It's fairly uncommon. I've been with men who simply did this on their own, I've been with men who did energy training and enjoyed it through that, and I've been with men I showed how to do it and delighted in their first time orgasming without ejaculation.

As always, it's a fun trick to have in the arsenal, but not more than that for me.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 9:27:58 PM

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The situation that MagiksSlave referred to is called retrograde ejaculation. i have that as a result of the type of prostate reduction surgery that i had to have done. However, i do not think this is what the initiator of this thread was referring to.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 9:42:29 PM

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One does it by using the male equivelent of the kiegel muscle (the one used to stop the flow of urine) and clamping it down as the feeling of orgams approaches.

Orgasm and ejaculation are not tied together. It is ejaculation that causes the loss of erection not orgasm. Learning to seperate the two takes a bit of practice but is surprisingly easy.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 10:57:16 PM

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My Master and i were particularly frisky one day and He orgasmed several times. On our last hooray for that day, as He came in my mouth i was shocked...LOL there was nothing...zero...i even think i felt a puff of air....LOL...i didnt know guys ran out?....how embarrassing that i didnt know that especially at my age...LOL

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 11:01:32 PM

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I don't think you should be embarassed not knowing something like that. Last I heard that wasn't something they taught at Sunday school, or that commonly is tested. (A domme I played with for a time wanted to conduct that sort of test, out of curiosity on her part.) ~Cheers

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/9/2007 11:30:54 PM

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I've never encountered it but I hear it can be done. All I know is that I wouldn't trust it as a method of birth control.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 12:22:14 AM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

There is a condition where the sperm will actualy go back into the bladder instead of beeing ejaculated out. There has been no health issue found with this other then not beeing fertile. This could be what is going on?

Magik's slave

Not likely. Some men don't always cum, that's just life.

I may have read the op wrong but I thought he said he was cumming just not ejaculating those are 2 seperate things that just happen to happen at the same time

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 1:50:49 AM

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The first time I tried that I was pissing needles for 2 hours. I probably did it wrong, but I know it's not some kind of disease, because when I tried, I was still a virgin. Later I tried it and it worked, so I'm not really sure what happened.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 2:36:26 AM

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As SimplyMicheal already said this but you can simply Clamp off cumming during orgasms using a little muscle control, you can even clamp it off with your hand too! Yes, us men run out and takes awhile to recharge. However we can orgasm again without cumming all over the place, many times it's just a little bit of small clear precum stuff.

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 2:41:03 AM

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It seems to be more common in men over 40. Maybe it's an acquired skill, or perhaps it's just to do with aging?
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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 5:17:27 AM

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Is everyone referring to the Male Multiple Orgasm? I've been doing it for years, in order to delay ejaculation. It's quite a sensation with practise. There are other links and info on it, but here's one: http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm

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RE: "dry orgasms" in men - 6/10/2007 2:20:18 PM

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There are many differen "situations" and conditions that end up appearing like what the OP mentioned. Some of these conditions can be dangerous, and others can't. Since pretty much each of the posters here are describing a different condition/cause, it's important not to assume what someone is saying might be applicable to yourself.

As for the original question, I would say it is quite common. It's a matter of choice, really, and depends on how you have "educated" your body. The only thing is, it seems the majority does not choose to use the ability....

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