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simplewhispers -> So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 11:55:44 AM)
was shaken by an idiot ....... tell me what went wrong please. Conversation via yahoo........ no bdsm background that I knew of , so conversation is light and early in the am , so he has to run bbl........ so I am looking forward to it message him and say this well I have more than one id on yahoo , one for games , one for family and one for chat, not all that unusal , so when I message I sent it under name #2 not a big deal for me, so we talk and turns out he is a bit into bdsm so I say hey I am on collar me go look at my profile, next thing he says is "so your playing me" I am thinking and said wth? No....... i dont know what happened but no ...... so needless to say I finally figured it out the idiot thought I was a bot I suppose, he asked me if I worked for collar me .......... I was just astounded, still am . Now how in the world did all t hat come to pass? From a normal hi how are ya to OMG YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYING ME....[:@]

mnottertail -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 11:59:13 AM)
perhaps he is the passionate type, and blurted it out without thinking, or read to much into it (which would mean he was a woman disguising himself as a man, in which case you don't want him anyway) Ron

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:03:43 PM)
Well miscommunication and bots happen often enough- specially when someone has multiple names. But like you said, it was just a casual nice conversation. Not worth much to keep or lose.

SimplyMichael -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:04:13 PM)
If finding out some men are idiots is enough to shake your faith, I predict a rude awaking ahead for you. Just like women get 10,000 responses, men have to suffer through the scams. The woman I am in love with I told to go fuck off and blocked her becaue I started thinking she was just a guy faking it. Lucky I had sent her my phone number or I may never have met her.

cinn -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:04:53 PM)
I think maybe the "I have 3 accounts" thing perturbed him slightly, although his way of expressing that seems to be far from optimal : ) Maybe he was somewhat 'offended' (I'll use that word until I can think of a better one) that you segregate your contacts like that for what ever reason. As an example to explain what I mean, if I had all my CM friends on one Yahoo! account that I only signed into when everyone was out of the house, that might make anyone think "So he's ashamed to be my friend?". Do you see what I mean? I'm not saying that's what you do or maybe even that's why he said that, but I'm sure you get the idea. Just my 2c Regards

SlpBeauty333 -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:06:47 PM)
Maybe he thought the rings in your profile pic are wedding rings?

simplewhispers -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:07:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael If finding out some men are idiots is enough to shake your faith, I predict a rude awaking ahead for you. Just like women get 10,000 responses, men have to suffer through the scams. The woman I am in love with I told to go fuck off and blocked her becaue I started thinking she was just a guy faking it. Lucky I had sent her my phone number or I may never have met her. Oh it only shook it for a little while ...... hence the reason I am posting about it , kinda makes me chuckle ........ [:D]

WhiplashSmile -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:15:35 PM)
The world is simply full of idiots and asses.

Celeste43 -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:36:10 PM)
He's had no luck here in the past so assumes therefore no one has ever had luck here. Either that or he's been on match.com and is aware of that site's propensity to get guys to renew by sending purported come-ons which are actually not from interested females but solely from the site. Basically, he's been burnt before and therefore was afraid of coming too near the fire. No matter what you said and did, he would have found some reason to reject you before you could reject him.

simplewhispers -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:46:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 He's had no luck here in the past so assumes therefore no one has ever had luck here. Either that or he's been on match.com and is aware of that site's propensity to get guys to renew by sending purported come-ons which are actually not from interested females but solely from the site. Basically, he's been burnt before and therefore was afraid of coming too near the fire. No matter what you said and did, he would have found some reason to reject you before you could reject him. He did mention match.com........ however I had not been so had no clue as to what he was eluding to ....... but your right it was whatever reason do the rejecting first .[&o]

MHOO314 -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 12:54:10 PM)
*I'd bet My money on the fact that he is married.*

mistoferin -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 2:06:29 PM)
Ok, I've read your OP three times now but I fail to see anything in it that would shake anyone up or make them lose their faith in men. Actually, I don't even see anything in it that warranted writing a post about it. Looks to me like a miscommunication of sorts, which doesn't really surprise me because I found your personal style of writing very difficult to understand.

Celeste43 -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 2:11:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: simplewhispers He did mention match.com........ however I had not been so had no clue as to what he was eluding to ....... I guessed right. I win! Match.com got exposed in the news last year for this practice. I believe alt does it also. Haven't heard of it happening here simply because this is a free site, so why bother going to the effort if it doesn't bring in money. The bait and switch technique is only used to make money.

CreativeDominant -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 3:17:32 PM)
Sounds like he was fairly confused and a bit idiotic. Having three different names may have indeed thrown him. His loss, most likely...[;)]

LadyHeart -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 4:35:05 PM)
Putting on my Dr Freud hat here. This is a trivial incident, yet it has upset you. Why? You are not upset about him, you are upset about you. Was there something about him you really liked? You are kicking yourself that you screwed up? Hmm, maybe this is not about your faith in men, but about being annoyed with yourself.... :)) LH

Aileen68 -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 4:38:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: simplewhispers was shaken by an idiot ....... tell me what went wrong please. Conversation via yahoo........ no bdsm background that I knew of , so conversation is light and early in the am , so he has to run bbl........ so I am looking forward to it message him and say this well I have more than one id on yahoo , one for games , one for family and one for chat, not all that unusal , so when I message I sent it under name #2 not a big deal for me, so we talk and turns out he is a bit into bdsm so I say hey I am on collar me go look at my profile, next thing he says is "so your playing me" I am thinking and said wth? No....... i dont know what happened but no ...... so needless to say I finally figured it out the idiot thought I was a bot I suppose, he asked me if I worked for collar me .......... I was just astounded, still am . Now how in the world did all t hat come to pass? From a normal hi how are ya to OMG YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYING ME....[:@] Can I borrow three hundred dollars from you? I swear I'll pay you back.

LadyIce -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 4:42:24 PM)
If that slight incident phased you then you must have had high hopes that were quickly dashed. If you did not care about him, you would not be writing this thread. Chalk it up to experience, and stick with the same name next time.

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 4:44:39 PM)
file it in the "shit happens" file and move on.....if this kind of thing upsets you this badly, i might also suggest you immediately put your computer up for sale on ebay

simplewhispers -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 5:32:27 PM)
Yall it was a joke....... I am not torn up nor kicking myself good gracious ....... I thought I would share a funny tale with you nothing more or less, and since my faith was only shaken for a moment or two I think I wont sell the pc....... I do have hopes that the right one will come along ...... [:D]

MirthyHart -> RE: So my faith in men ........ (6/11/2007 5:52:59 PM)
quote: Forget the jerk. He is the one with the problem.. Just another crazy in a world of them.. I have run into a few of those too.. They get all paranoid and stupid.. Just move on and never talk with him again.. You cannot judge all men by one man. There are many good ones still out there.

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