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yet another stupid chastity qeustoin - 5/31/2005 8:12:19 PM

analwhore

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Ok well here goes. Madaam has been training me for chastity now for close to two months and, I must admit that it does much more that i ever dreamed of being possible. I have no expierence in this matter (hence the training) and, I wish to ask if other during their first days of this found it normal for the pain and urges to actually become worse when you get the release you have been craving for what seems like foreever? i appoligize for any grammer errors as my monitor has just now died and i am having to use my tv for one. thank you for any input.

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RE: yet another stupid chastity qeustoin - 6/1/2005 8:18:27 AM

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Yes, I actually did have pain. I think, though, that the pain comes from the availability of it all. When I've been underway(read my profile) I found no reason to mastebaute, and it didn't effect me. But, when I was put on chastity for a mere week, it hurt after a while. The pain is normal, therefore. But ask a doctor to make sure, though.

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RE: yet another stupid chastity qeustoin - 6/1/2005 11:34:17 AM

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I suggest you visit http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/cblist.htm and join their discussion group about chastity. You'll have access to many many people who do chastity as a matter of course. Chastity over any length of time has consequences and side effects. The first time a sub of mine popped a blood vessel in his penis trying to pee with his semi erect penis in a chastity device I almost had a heart attack. While you know what it is, it is still scary as hell to have a man bleeding from his penis. And try to get them to go to the Drs.. almost impossible!

I have been told that release can be quite painful when someone has been started with a time period in chastity that is too long.

And the only stupid question, as I'm sure you've been told before, is one that wasn't asked.

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RE: yet another stupid chastity qeustoin - 6/1/2005 7:50:06 PM

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thank you both very much for the reply's. i truly do appreciate it.
I have not been put into a belt physically but the words when i am not allowed release are very effective. Although there has been a time or two that other activities would excite me enough to orgasm I was deeply ashamed of it and Madaam is training me to better control my excitement. Thankfully Madaam has been strict with me in training and that seems to help alott as far as my being able to contol the level of excitment causeing me to orgasm since I know from Madaams being stern with me that this something Madaam truly enjoys. It just helps me to have the strenth i need to obey Madaam. I am starting to adjust to the other effects this has had on my daily life and it doesn't seem to be quite as difficult to deal with the urges when I am able to stay busy or keep my mind occupied. When we talk though it just seems that it becomes such a task to even sit up right. That's just because things are tender anyway and that just makes things hit a level that I am as of now unable to handle as well as I wish I could. I am very gratefull to Madaam for allowing me other forms of release of the tension though. Just a few weeks ago during sessions of strecting (see screen name for explanation lol) I could not contain myself no matter how hard I tried. In madaams words I have a very sensitive rear and Madaam sais that she has known for a long that anything penatraiting me would makes it extrmely difficult for me to contain myself. I am now able to take objects I consider to be of pretty large size and, still keep myself from reaching orgasm. I owe this to madaam. if she hadn't have orderd me to stop all (I mean everything) activities then I would not be able to do what I can now. While I must say that this is a most unplessurable task in itself that knowing Madaam is pleased when i am able to perform to her expectations of me really does make me strive for better. That makes it very plessurable to me. I mat be in physicall agony from the urges and pain as it builds (as I said I am very new to this so to me it is torment) on a spirituall level I have never fealt anything like this and I do enjoy it. I haven't expierenced pain from orgasm just extremly sore genitals after words and, that was a brief pain of a hour or less. What I meant being worse is after orgasm I seem to have basically just thrown my sexdrive into high gear and floored it. For days later the urges are unbearable (well almost) and the tenderness is unmessurably worse than before. When madaam first started to train me for this I distinctly remember on my first 10 day chaste period that I did reach a point that this was just no longer something I was able to endure. My insomnia was so bad that I had fealt lucky for a good 2 or 3 hours of rest and I was unable to control my temper. When I start to reach that point Madaam allows me to either release until I am empty all at once or every other day till I am able to manage it again. That first time madaam allowed me release 3 times that night and the night before orderd me to drain off at least enough to get some rest. Needless to say that it took me under 30 mins to achieve three orgasms and, that I slept very well. The odd part for me is not only the physical effect but also the mental effects. I have found that when I am chaste I feel more paranoid and slowly start to push others away. After being allowed to fully drain all of this dissapears and I find that I feel so much closer to Madaam. I wish that I was able to better describe it but, I belive this is also normal or would seem to be. There are just so many new feelings and emotions that accompany this that at the moment I feel somewhat overwhelmed trying to comprehend it all. I am now on day three of this chaste period and I know that things are about to really get difficult so I guess now it is time for me to be prepared for what's comeing. Thank you all very much. This has put my mind at ease :)

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