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subordinance -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 5:37:19 AM)
As a submissive, I found this thread absolutely delightful so far! There is absolutely no trick mentioned which failed to turn me on, although I get the impression the person who started the thread is unpopular for other reasons. I do agree, however, that the criticism probably makes people less inclined to share ideas, and certainly seems hypocritical coming from people who have yet to share any ideas at all. I really expected a "BDSM" forum to be a place where "should" never entered the equation when it came to sex. None of us have sex the way we "should". Being that we're all deviants (just ask the American Psychological Association), I would not be at all surprised if some of us deviate in different ways from others. Most likely, some of us are a lot more vanilla than others. Some female submissives have an unusual form which mixes feminism with submission, while others have a more traditional gender roles thing going, while others really get off on cruel sex play, and others play parent/child roles, etc. So I doubt there are any tricks which would work for everyone who falls under the cateogry of a dom or sub. But, say what you will, the tricks turned me on, and I appreciate that some Masters are attempting to gather info for the purpose of making people like me happy. I guess I will have to wait for somebody to mention a trick which I think would not work for me, and then see how difficult it is to hold my tongue. But I do hope the thread has actually not been killed. I will keep checking, hoping to see more ideas.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 5:40:23 AM)
quote: Dom Tricks? i didn't know Doms did tricks. who teaches them tricks? Dommes? LOL

KatyLied -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 5:48:17 AM)
quote: I appreciate that some Masters are attempting to gather info for the purpose of making people like me happy. One person's purpose of making you happy is another person's oh god, not another wanker pretending he wants to please the women.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 7:17:59 AM)
quote: Being that we're all deviants (just ask the American Psychological Association), That hasn't been the case for years, it was changed in the DSM IV quote: I really expected a "BDSM" forum to be a place where "should" never entered the equation when it came to sex. Should absolutely enters the picture, which is why we are not longer listed as nut cases. While there are vast ranges of things which we do but others don't, there are things that are either wrong or at least have only very narrow ranges of where they are "right". Take branding, I am sure I could take a few ladies here to get my brand on the first date. They consented but "should" I be doing that to women who I just met? I think that would be wrong despite their consent.

HypnoticDan -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 10:00:22 AM)
Take a vanilla girl's wrists and hold them above her head while you are having sex/making love. Depending on the girl you'll get a different reaction in body language every time. If it seems positive, then ask "Do you like this?" If she doesn't answer because she's lost in the moment, order "Say 'yes'." When she answers, ask "Do you like the way this feels?" "Does (whatever I'm doing) turn you on?" (basically get her into a pattern of saying 'yes'). Then the more important questions: "Do you want more?" 'yes!' "Then you're going to do what I tell you, aren't you." 'yes!' At which point I used to break out the padded cuffs, blindfold, and maybe a tickler. Nowadays I find it works better to keep the rhythm going and order her to masturbate daily until we are together again. That keeps her sex drive high, keeps her thinking about me, and guarantees a repeat performance where she can be taken to the next level.

marieToo -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 10:59:32 AM)
That's kind of hot.

HypnoticDan -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 6:00:03 PM)
MarieToo - kind of sort of maybe a little bit? Do tell: what would make it absolutely, unquestionably, totally, rip roaring, toe curling, so good the neighbors have a cigarette hot?

imthatacheyouhav -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 6:04:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HypnoticDan Take a vanilla girl's wrists and hold them above her head while you are having sex/making love. Depending on the girl you'll get a different reaction in body language every time. If it seems positive, then ask "Do you like this?" If she doesn't answer because she's lost in the moment, order "Say 'yes'." When she answers, ask "Do you like the way this feels?" "Does (whatever I'm doing) turn you on?" (basically get her into a pattern of saying 'yes'). Then the more important questions: "Do you want more?" 'yes!' "Then you're going to do what I tell you, aren't you." 'yes!' At which point I used to break out the padded cuffs, blindfold, and maybe a tickler. Nowadays I find it works better to keep the rhythm going and order her to masturbate daily until we are together again. That keeps her sex drive high, keeps her thinking about me, and guarantees a repeat performance where she can be taken to the next level. Wow....(swallows hard) that was a nice little scene.

marieToo -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 6:25:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HypnoticDan MarieToo - kind of sort of maybe a little bit? Do tell: what would make it absolutely, unquestionably, totally, rip roaring, toe curling, so good the neighbors have a cigarette hot? It's already there, Mr. Dan. I was just too shy to say it like I meant it. ; )

Sinergy -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:23:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross A few weeks ago I was at a party playing with a gorgeous blonde boy and had my whartenburg wheel out The first time a submissive called "Yellow" in a scene I had her tied to a spanking bench at the Lair and was driving my whurtenberg wheel over hill and dale. Gently. Lovingly. Maddeningly. As LuckyAlbatross pointed out, too many think that playing hard means bruises and bloodshed. For me, the point of all these things is to create an effect in the mind of the bottom. Sinergy

Sinergy -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:24:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia quote: Dom Tricks? i didn't know Doms did tricks. who teaches them tricks? Dommes? LOL Will Bob Saget be the host of the show? Sinergy

SirMGD -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:34:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross ; I'm all about giving advice. I'm not all about giving misinformation. .......(snip..YMMV?)......... And there's no if. I'm right. Awwwwe LA... dont be so hard on yourself. I mean judging my the pile of requests I've had for the pdf, it would seem I'm far from the only one around here who feels your perhaps far too modest. I was sorry I became incensed before, after a friend pointed out your dedication to us all citing your posting schedule; quote: "Morning, noon and night...all day EVERY day....post after post after post. Not in spurts, but all fucking day and night every single day of the week. She is the second poster on almost every single OP that is started. This is all she does all day long. " Apologies, as one must wonder how you could have such experience and knowlege, while never spending time away from the pc. An amazing feat to be sure. Presumably, we are all suitably impressed. I know I am, albeit ambivalently.

felineone -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:49:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirMGD quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross ; I'm all about giving advice. I'm not all about giving misinformation. .......(snip..YMMV?)......... And there's no if. I'm right. Awwwwe LA... dont be so hard on yourself. I mean judging my the pile of requests I've had for the pdf, it would seem I'm far from the only one around here who feels your perhaps far too modest. I was sorry I became incensed before, after a friend pointed out your dedication to us all citing your posting schedule; quote: "Morning, noon and night...all day EVERY day....post after post after post. Not in spurts, but all fucking day and night every single day of the week. She is the second poster on almost every single OP that is started. This is all she does all day long. " Apologies, as one must wonder how you could have such experience and knowlege, while never spending time away from the pc. An amazing feat to be sure. Presumably, we are all suitably impressed. I know I am, albeit ambivalently. I've often thought LA could make a good living with an advice column. I've never seen anyone cut through all the BS to what really matter, so effectively. And I've heard rumors that she's kinda active in the r/l scene as well.[;)] Maybe she just makes good use of her time??

Invictus754 -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:50:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty The word 'trick' implies deception, why would a Top-type want to decieve their partner? The word 'trick' does not always imply deception: a clever or ingenious device or expedient; adroit technique: the tricks of the trade. the art or knack of doing something skillfully: You seem to have mastered the trick of making others laugh. a clever or dexterous feat intended to entertain, amuse, etc.: He taught his dog some amazing tricks. a feat of magic or legerdemain: card tricks.

Sinergy -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 9:54:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: felineone Maybe she just makes good use of her time?? I was a webmaster for 2 years. This is synonymous with building Windows and Linux web servers on one computer, and surfing the net on the other. Now I have a job that gives me long breaks in the middle of the day. It is possible to be successful in real life -and- spend a lot of time on the internet. I imagine the comments from the person attempting to trash LuckyAlbatross were based in jealousy at her ability to organize her life. Just me, etc. Sinergy

winterlight -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 10:35:28 PM)
I am a newbie. Never had a relationship yet with a Dom/me. This is a very interesting thread here and for me i really like to have my hair brushed. my back brushed, my neck scratched with fingernails. I find these acts most erotic and relaxing. As far as bathtime is concerned being lathered up and touch with His hands or a soft net scrubby would be heaven... It hasn't happened yet but some day..... winterlight yeah i am weird... i know....

SimplyMichael -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/15/2007 11:19:32 PM)
MGD, You went from starting a cool thread to being a pain in the ass rather quickly. LA is quite real, deeply knowledgeable and rightly called you on your shit. A man would have stepped up and apologized, seems you aren't there yet, too bad as you would have made an interesting addition here.

SirMGD -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/16/2007 12:49:46 AM)
Thanks Micheal, look man, i certainly am not averse to sincere apology, nor giving credit where credit is due. as a matter of fact, I've already conceded she might well be right, and I am yet not saying she isn't. The point was I asked that this thread be treated differently, and was summarily ignored. Of course it's her right to do so, and she avails herself of said right, at every possible juncture. You guys sure stick together, and as far as I'm concerned, the "Know-it-all tag team" strikes again. Interesting addition around here? No thanks, I am badly outnumbered, and if you think superiority in numbers gives you more credibility here, go ahead, but this is a very unpopular forum to many, especially newcomers, and many veterans alike. I got nothing against LA, or anyone in peticular here, I just feel the flow of ideas and concepts is continually stifled by so many arrogant, overcritical, nitpicky, judgemental, "i'm always right" trolls. Maybe I'm wrong, sorry if so.

HypnoticDan -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/16/2007 1:33:57 AM)
We're sitting in a dark club north of Tel-Aviv, my back to the wall. (I hate to sit any other way.) She was sitting to one side, and I lifted the calf of her leg nearest me and rested it across my knees. To anyone else in the club it looked like we were sitting and talking. To us... well, I spent an hour slowly rubbing her thigh, nudging her skirt up at the back and she slouched... languidley running the outer edge of my index up and down her panty covered slit where her skirt had ridden up... telling her about how, behind the club, there was a narrow walkway over a two story drop to a parking garage facing some apartments... saying how I was going to take her out there when I had had enough to drink, bend her over that unfinished concrete railing, and in full view of anyone that might be looking out their window at 2 am was going to take off my belt and... oh, who am I kidding. You don't want to hear about all that. SirMGD - Does it carry more weight if I follow your suggestions and THEN tell you you're acting like you just discovered the MaGiCaL WoRlD of the internet? Seriously, if you actually cared one iota for "your" thread then you'd be posting more tips instead of wasting time on these ...what do the kids say these days... "playa hataz"? Shame on you for acting so childish, and shame on anyone equally childish enough to debate you. Hell, I feel ashamed just writing these words! Seriously, just write clever things you've done with your subs and fuck anyone who is in it for wank material or in it for TALKING about anyone who is wanking on about the people who are in it for wank material. So fuck me, and you, and them, and everybody! Fuck it! hrm.... My argument started out OK but fell apart when it became self-referential. Also, quote: edit: I'm outta here Somebody told a fib! Naughty naughty!

SirMGD -> RE: Dom Tricks? (6/16/2007 1:41:53 AM)
I shouldn't have come back, but some fool threw down a gauntlet and said "don't let em run you outta your thread." I fell for it. I said my piece, and posted some tips and tricks. I got ganged. Nothin I'm unused to. I been on the net and in forums for a decade. But none ever rivaled the sheer impossibility of this one. Hope you guys have fun with the thread...I hope you learn, and I hope Your D/s dynamics are greatly enhanced. seriously. But to quote a hypnotic visionary; quote: "Fuck it!"

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