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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 10:08:27 AM   
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Rummy drinks sound good! And there is nothing like a few drinks to bring on the slurred "I love you!"s that so builds community.


hehe, my yard is big.  We can make a huge (drunken) kumbaya circle. 



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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 10:19:28 AM   
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quote:

Rummy drinks sound good! And there is nothing like a few drinks to bring on the slurred "I love you!"s that so builds community.


hehe, my yard is big.  We can make a huge (drunken) kumbaya circle. 





Oooo... will there be tikki torches?

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 1:07:28 PM   
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Ok, the whole story. At the time I was 21 and she was 24. I'm sorry to say that I was always terrible with names back then, and have lost touch with her. She has become a nameless fantasy girl from my memory.

We were sitting in a dark club north of Tel-Aviv, my back to the wall. (I hate to sit any other way.) She was sitting to one side, and I lifted the calf of her leg nearest me and rested it across my knees. To anyone else in the club it looked like we were sitting and talking. To us... well, I spent an hour slowly rubbing her thigh, nudging her skirt up at the back as she slouched lower and lower, raising the back of her skirt... languidley running the outer edge of my index up and down her panty covered slit while she used both hand to keep the front hem decent... telling her about how, behind the club, there was a narrow walkway over a two story drop to a parking garage facing some apartments... saying how I was going to take her out there when I had had enough to drink, bend her over that unfinished concrete railing, and in full view of anyone that might be looking out their window at 2 am was going to take off my belt and...

Later, when her panties were soaked and I couldn't wait any longer, I took her there and made good on my promise. She held hands behind her back, gripping her elbows as my belt made a quick two-column tie. Bent over, legs spread, I stood behind her, pressing against her nearly bare bottom, letting her feel my excitement between her ass cheeks. As I untied her hair I pushed against her a little so that she could feel the concrete through her dress against her breasts. I traced my hands up the outside of her thighs once, twice, and then on the third I grabbed the hem of her skirt and slowly lifted it up and over her ass. I knelt and placed both palms flat against the backs of her thighs, my breath cool on her bare skin in the hot night air.

"Don't move."

i hooked the first digit of each finger under the edge of her knickers and traced the edge, first at the waist around to her belly, then from her hip bones around to the damp patch in the center, slowly pulling it back to let the breeze in. She shifted her weight as if to bring her legs together for me to remove the impediment.

*SMACK* It wasn't hard, it wasn't planned, but it got her attention.

"I said: Don't. move."

I'd never smacked a girl before. The realization of the awesome power I had over this girl had me so very very hard, tempered only by the knowledge that I had to be responsible or I wouldn't get another shot at this in future. I took a moment to compose myself and then tried to pick up where I left off.

Utility knives are wonderful things. A careful snip on each side and the useless cloth went into my pocket. Now my hands were free to roam over every inch of uninterrupted, exposed skin. I wish I could have seen her face when she felt the cold metal on her behind. I made do by running my hands from her ass down to her ankles, outside, then in. I circled each ankle with my hands. I could just imagine what was going through her mind, and voiced her thoughts.

"What if I picked you up and tossed you over the edge? What if someone comes around the corner? What if I told you someone was watching from across the street?"

Aha, that last made her head jerk up and twitch from side to side. Just what I'd wanted.

*SMACK*SMACK*SMACK* Fuck that was hot.

She yelped but tried to keep it quiet. "Clearly you have a problem following simple instructions."

I stood up and took a large handful of her hair. pulling up and back, forcing her to arch and press into me, I lowered first one dress strap, then the other, then reached around to pull down her top. Then I lowered her back onto the railing.

"Are you going to move again?" "No, Sir." "Hmm.. I like that. 'Sir'. I like that a lot. Now, where was I? Oh yes."

I untied her arms, then pulled them back so her wrists were touching and retied them. Then stood back and told her I was undoing my shirt. Untucking it. I didn't need to explain the sound of my zipper. She made a small whimper.

I'll spare you the... ins and outs we're all familiar with. By the end the only thing keeping her from falling over the edge was my weight against her thighs, a hand on her shoulder, and the other wrapped in her hair. Had anyone at their car bothered to look up they would have see a pair of bronzed Bs, a slender neck, and a face dewey with the heat and slack from orgasm, panting heavily. I dropped my forhead between her shoulderblades and tasted her sweat, cupped her breasts, and luxuriated in the feel of her hands on my abs, pressed against the small of her back.

Sometime during all that I came to realize how much I enjoyed being in charge.

I only saw her once more, some weeks later. We had vanilla sex. It was only the second time I'd ever slept with a girl and I was terrible. The condom broke. I was so nervous about consequences that later I said things I probably shouldn't have, or that came out wrong. I never saw her again. For all I know there's a little Israeli version of me running around out there somewhere.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 3:17:55 PM   
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***caution wank fodder ahead***
[quote]
ORIGINAL: HypnoticDan

Ok, the whole story. At the time I was 21 and she was 24. I'm sorry to say that I was always terrible with names back then, and have lost touch with her. She has become a nameless fantasy girl from my memory.

We were sitting in a dark club north of Tel-Aviv, my back to the wall. (I hate to sit any other way.) She was sitting to one side, and I lifted the calf of her leg nearest me and rested it across my knees. To anyone else in the club it looked like we were sitting and talking. To us... well, I spent an hour slowly rubbing her thigh, nudging her skirt up at the back as she slouched lower and lower, raising the back of her skirt... languidley running the outer edge of my index up and down her panty covered slit while she used both hand to keep the front hem decent... telling her about how, behind the club, there was a narrow walkway over a two story drop to a parking garage facing some apartments... saying how I was going to take her out there when I had had enough to drink, bend her over that unfinished concrete railing, and in full view of anyone that might be looking out their window at 2 am was going to take off my belt and...

Later, when her panties were soaked and I couldn't wait any longer, I took her there and made good on my promise. She held hands behind her back, gripping her elbows as my belt made a quick two-column tie. Bent over, legs spread, I stood behind her, pressing against her nearly bare bottom, letting her feel my excitement between her ass cheeks. As I untied her hair I pushed against her a little so that she could feel the concrete through her dress against her breasts. I traced my hands up the outside of her thighs once, twice, and then on the third I grabbed the hem of her skirt and slowly lifted it up and over her ass. I knelt and placed both palms flat against the backs of her thighs, my breath cool on her bare skin in the hot night air.

"Don't move."

i hooked the first digit of each finger under the edge of her knickers and traced the edge, first at the waist around to her belly, then from her hip bones around to the damp patch in the center, slowly pulling it back to let the breeze in. She shifted her weight as if to bring her legs together for me to remove the impediment.

*SMACK* It wasn't hard, it wasn't planned, but it got her attention.

"I said: Don't. move."

I'd never smacked a girl before. The realization of the awesome power I had over this girl had me so very very hard, tempered only by the knowledge that I had to be responsible or I wouldn't get another shot at this in future. I took a moment to compose myself and then tried to pick up where I left off.

Utility knives are wonderful things. A careful snip on each side and the useless cloth went into my pocket. Now my hands were free to roam over every inch of uninterrupted, exposed skin. I wish I could have seen her face when she felt the cold metal on her behind. I made do by running my hands from her ass down to her ankles, outside, then in. I circled each ankle with my hands. I could just imagine what was going through her mind, and voiced her thoughts.

"What if I picked you up and tossed you over the edge? What if someone comes around the corner? What if I told you someone was watching from across the street?"

Aha, that last made her head jerk up and twitch from side to side. Just what I'd wanted.

*SMACK*SMACK*SMACK* Fuck that was hot.

She yelped but tried to keep it quiet. "Clearly you have a problem following simple instructions."

I stood up and took a large handful of her hair. pulling up and back, forcing her to arch and press into me, I lowered first one dress strap, then the other, then reached around to pull down her top. Then I lowered her back onto the railing.

"Are you going to move again?" "No, Sir." "Hmm.. I like that. 'Sir'. I like that a lot. Now, where was I? Oh yes."

I untied her arms, then pulled them back so her wrists were touching and retied them. Then stood back and told her I was undoing my shirt. Untucking it. I didn't need to explain the sound of my zipper. She made a small whimper.

I'll spare you the... ins and outs we're all familiar with. By the end the only thing keeping her from falling over the edge was my weight against her thighs, a hand on her shoulder, and the other wrapped in her hair. Had anyone at their car bothered to look up they would have see a pair of bronzed Bs, a slender neck, and a face dewey with the heat and slack from orgasm, panting heavily. I dropped my forhead between her shoulderblades and tasted her sweat, cupped her breasts, and luxuriated in the feel of her hands on my abs, pressed against the small of her back.

Sometime during all that I came to realize how much I enjoyed being in charge

That was really, really erotic. 

quote:


I only saw her once more, some weeks later. We had vanilla sex. It was only the second time I'd ever slept with a girl and I was terrible. The condom broke. I was so nervous about consequences that later I said things I probably shouldn't have, or that came out wrong. I never saw her again. For all I know there's a little Israeli version of me running around out there somewhere.

So the time on the narrow walkway was the first time you had sex?  No way!

**edited to try and fix my quotes but no luck!

< Message edited by BossyShoeBitch -- 6/16/2007 3:21:09 PM >


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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 4:44:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirMGD

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: SirMGD

but this is a very unpopular forum to many, especially newcomers, and many veterans alike.



The Voice of Authority On All Things Related To The Internet hath spoken. 

Are you channelling Al Gore?

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p.s.  I agree with SimplyMichael.  The problem with posting something in cyberspace is that anybody can post any sort of response they want to your thread.  Coming in and acting all hurt because other people are not playing by the changes to the rules for you seem to think is your own personal game of Monopoly seems rather 2nd grade to me.



LOL
I am so amazed that anyone here agrees with Michael. Obviously, you're easily entertained.
hehe



So wonderfully condescending, it must get lonely up there in your ivory tower.

Sinergy

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/16/2007 6:25:48 PM   
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Bossy - Thank you. I left out a lot of the boring bits before hand, the opportunities I missed, the opportunities I turned down (what was I thinking? Oh, right, that I have standards) and the opportunities that were right in front of me and I told myself I shouldn't (Why? because I was stupid, that's why). I also didn't mention how short the actual sex was because we were both so randy at that point it really didn't matter.

My life's been a little wierd like that. Broke my leg the first time I went skydiving, went directly to the other side of the world when I moved out of my parent's place... There's probably a lot of stuff I don't even think of as strange that would make most people go "hmm..."

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/17/2007 1:30:21 AM   
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Wow!  Thank you for helping me get that whole ending out of him, Bossy.  No matter what happens now, that story was worth it!  But I must beg his forgiveness in not responding sooner, as it has been a busy day.  Never one to disobey, my entire profile is now complete.  I ony ask, Sir, that you please read and decide how you wish to proceed from there.  I have read yours, and very much enjoyed it.  The only part I didn't like was the discovery that you are in Canada, an entirely different country!  But I hope, no matter how you respond, that you will continue to post such golden moments.  Seeing no comparable and active place for subs to explain their tips, here is mine:

test your sub's intelligence.

A sub proves their intellect by being able to read their master.  An intelligent sub does not need to be told everything he or she must do, but can sometimes figure out and/or anticipate commands if she knows the master well.  She does this by reading body language, facial expressions, and patterns of behavior.  She knows if a glance at the floor means to get down on her knees, or if pointing at a bed post means to place her wrist in the proper position to be tied.  I also read a quote in an article about BDSM, and I am afraid I have completely forgotten who I am quoting, but here it is: You may "hurt" the sub, but never "harm" her.  In other words, anything causing permanent harm is off limits.  Only punishments they can learn and recover from, as these are actually more loving and beneficial.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/17/2007 3:04:18 AM   
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Subordinance - That also doubles nicely as a test for perceptiveness. Also, give yourself some credit: you asked for the full story first.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 6/17/2007 7:08:32 AM   
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ill give y'all one piece of advice when doing fire play A. don't do it on a bed  B. don't start laughing so hard you drop your fire stick on the bed. C. don't then pick it up and throw in into the curtains.  But it is funny as hell later


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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/12/2007 7:54:13 PM   
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Regardless of the reply to your post, I did use your suggested technique of mantras.  I don't have a clue as to why someone thought the answers needed to be memorized.  I don't recall you insisting that they had to be.  The answers are simply the truth and the truth was all I required.  My slave goes weak in the knees whenever I do it.  (I've only used it three times over three weeks and each time the reaction is the same.) he was literally trembling after  I did it the first time because I did it "out of the blue."  I modified your suggested mantras to suit Me but I appreciated I the idea. 

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/12/2007 8:00:37 PM   
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I personally am of the opinion that some people here went wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy over the edge with the replies to the word trick.  I've seen children with more ability to see i.e. comprehend figurative language.  Why do these people have so much time online?  I'm looking at the # of posts vs. joined date and I'm thinking hmmmmmm real life must not be that exciting. 

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/12/2007 11:05:38 PM   
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why was this resurected?
and as i didn't read the whole thread forgive me if this has been discussed............did ya'll know the subs read this board too? i know that as a sub, i would never post anything i found in the "sub Manual" where Doms could read it.......perhaps i should read the whole thing to find out whats in the "Dom Manual"....
but....there doesn't seem to be any indication from the first and last page that it will show me how to get my Dom to fetch anything...oh well

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/13/2007 8:04:18 PM   
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Because I could and I wanted to.  Didn't realize this was top secret CIA Dom/Domme information.  Are the subs going to steal the information and take over Dom/Domme nation?  I just want to be prepared with a ....flogger? Will that keep Me safe?

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/13/2007 11:00:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Brushing a woman's hair is almost always something that a woman hasn't had done but will love.

Reading someone to sleep is another wonderfully bonding experience.

I ask them affirmations such as "who is my beautiful woman" and have them respond with "me" or "I am."  The point is to reinforce in their mind whatever the affirmation is in a way that can be far more powerful than them simply saying a positive affirmation by themselves.

There is a heavy stainless steel dildo available specifically for kegel exercises which accomplishes both of the OP exercises at once.


I find several things to be extremely useful, for different purposes.  Kneeling on rice and corner time seem to quickly end a bratty streak. 
Light kisses and breathes of air on places that you have just recently made red with a belt, whip, crop, et cetera, seem to do two things at once, giving them a tingly sensation, and showing them you are attentive.
And when it's all over, if you're blessed with the ability to sing, most women at least seem to enjoy it.  If not, reading works just fine.
Those are just things that I do that I guess I would consider "tricks," more like just things that I have come to notice work more often then not.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/15/2007 9:08:08 AM   
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Well I for one am glad this thread was started...

I enjoyed it.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/15/2007 5:16:11 PM   
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i am grateful for this post, i have enjoyed all but the drama as usual with these things... thanks to Michael and BringerOfTears who had wonderful things to say and made me think... something i respect.
~elizabeth

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/17/2007 4:25:09 AM   
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We're sitting in a dark club north of Tel-Aviv, my back to the wall. (I hate to sit any other way.) She was sitting to one side, and I lifted the calf of her leg nearest me and rested it across my knees. To anyone else in the club it looked like we were sitting and talking. To us... well, I spent an hour slowly rubbing her thigh, nudging her skirt up at the back and she slouched... languidley running the outer edge of my index up and down her panty covered slit where her skirt had ridden up... telling her about how, behind the club, there was a narrow walkway over a two story drop to a parking garage facing some apartments... saying how I was going to take her out there when I had had enough to drink, bend her over that unfinished concrete railing, and in full view of anyone that might be looking out their window at 2 am was going to take off my belt and...

oh, who am I kidding. You don't want to hear about all that.
I do ....Yes Yes Yes,heck I'll buy a pack of smokes and pass them out to the neighbors evenwankers of the world unite!!!................Sorry I forgot myself for a moment after finishing off that pack of smokes I'm much better now.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/17/2007 5:27:39 AM   
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When I was with my first and only Master, at the very beginning of our relationship, he did lots of things to build trust but the one I most remember and the one that always brings a sigh to my lips and a tear to my eye is this:

One night, he bade me kneel and then blindfolded me. He sat in a chair and had me crawl around the room with only his voice to guide me around the various pieces of furniture, until he finally told me to kneel and I found myself at his feet where I felt like I belonged even more for having done the exercise.

This is just the most memorable and specific incident I can remember, and this is one of the reasons I can say that -with him- I am a no limits slave.

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/17/2007 8:01:10 AM   
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Try having your subs do long division...

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RE: Dom Tricks? - 7/17/2007 9:18:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: instynctive

Try having your subs do long division...


heh...bring it on 


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