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Define a moment - 6/13/2007 9:14:43 AM

Kitte9

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Is there a favorite time or memory when you switched? Something about it that really turned you on? Share your stories! Thank you in advance.

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RE: Define a moment - 6/13/2007 9:56:57 AM

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Yes, but it won't be like what you're asking for. One of my nicest memories was recently. I went to Butchmanns as a slave. I wanted to know what it felt like and if what I was feeling was slave heart or my Servant archetype. I was collared, as all the uncollared slaves were. When the lock clicked shut...there was calm and I knew. I'm a Servant, not a slave. It was an enlightening weekend...and fun to be nekid the whole time.

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RE: Define a moment - 6/13/2007 11:04:56 AM

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In the beginning of our relationship my sub was experimenting with switching as he had been a Master in his past relationship. I introduced him to role playing, he enjoyed playing "Daddy" and I would role play "Babygirl". We were in our costumes and he was punishing me for being naughty when he went to the table to get his flogger. I slipped off the cuffs and rolled over and sat up, I snuck up behind him and when he turned around I lightly kneed him in the groin and grabbed a handful of his hair. I dragged him by the hair over to the bed and I pushed him down onto the it and tied him up. He looked at me as if I had lost it, as he had never had me switch on him in midscene. I smiled and then shook a finger at him "You have been a naughty Daddy, now its MY turn to punish you!" I tortured him good and hard with some faceslapping, CBT, flogging, nipple torture etc then I sexually teased him until he was about ready to pop. He was so far out into subspace he couldn't tell what I was doing to him. When I was done fucking his brains out and we were snuggling he said that it was the hottest thing he had ever done. I had to agree with him.

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RE: Define a moment - 6/14/2007 8:03:26 AM

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Grins… O yes I can remember a gem.. I was in a long term relationship with a Domme.. it was very interesting since We were both dominant going into the relationship and in the end switched to each other..

One night We were at a public play party… the scene had been set for me to sub, and she had set up all her gear to give me a very physical play.. cp and a flogging being high up on her list for the evening.. well she called me over from the bar, told me to strip which I did, and as I turned around to face her I put my hand behind her neck… standing naked before her.. pulled her head closer for what she thought was a very cheeky kiss, and then put pressure on her neck, shoving her to the ground before putting a collar on her… laughs… it was divinely magical to say the least! There she was dressed up in heels kneeling in front of me.. naked and smiling… that night was one of the hardest most intense Domme games of My life!

One of many incredible memories of a relationship that I will cherish always…

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RE: Define a moment - 6/15/2007 11:55:59 AM

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Ah well. The first time I hurt a guy's cock. Watching it leak and jerk as I hit it with my suede belt. Beating it. And then beating his ass. Listening to his moans and watching him lean into it. So intoxicating I came hurting him. Made me want to do it again. And again.

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RE: Define a moment - 6/23/2007 3:05:51 AM

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I agree with Sunshine,

a defining moment for me was when i was playing at a party with a sub, and began flogging him, then leaving welts with the snake tongue, and seeing his reactions along with the fact that he was loving every minute, made me realised that i loved getting those reactions, as much as i enjoyed having them.

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RE: Define a moment - 6/29/2007 11:33:33 PM

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I was with my last switch we were both in a Dominating mood neither of us would give up control. Well to make a long story short it was the best switch moment i had ever had to the point that night we ended up upside down on the couch having the roughest sex i have ever had.

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RE: Define a moment - 7/3/2007 8:13:47 PM

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I'm sure I've told this here before somewhere...however...

My owner knew I was a switch and enjoyed watching me dominate others on occasion. He saw the changes in me and it was cool for him. One day we woke and I was sitting on the couch in the living room (we were actually at a friend's home and had slept on the floor out there) and he crawled from his place on the floor, put his head in my lap and looked up at me with the most beautiful face and said "take great care, please". And it was done. We flipped back and forth with each other and both loved all of it. I miss his presence in my day to day life greatly as he was not only an amazing dominant, a beautiful man but a great friend. As we all know life happens and we do what we have to do and we've since lost each other. Hum.

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RE: Define a moment - 7/4/2007 7:24:08 PM

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One of my favorite scenes ever sort of involved a switch. I was playing with a submissive partner, and we had done a long scene that tested her limits a bit, and she had preformed well. She was laying face down with her hands tied behind her back. The tie was around her wrist so that her hands were palm to palm. Since the scene was ending I decided to give her pleasure with a vibrating toy. I noticed that she was very, very stimulated by it tonight, so I placed my testicles in her bound hands, and told her to "squeeze away" as I brought her to a thunderous orgasm.

She didn't take control of the scene, but we switch from me giving her pain as she gave me pleasure to the other way around.

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RE: Define a moment - 3/14/2008 10:01:29 AM

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Some wonderful stories. Any others?

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