RavenMuse -> RE: How many Doms were subs first? (7/18/2007 7:13:33 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AdventurousLife In my opinion, you are giving the BDSM Top/Bottom, lifestyle, "kinky sex" perspective. I have 26 years in the lifestyle, 20 of those 24/7 live-in TPE, don't try and teach your grandfather to suck eggs over whether I am speaking about the D/s dynamic or not. If you want to read into what I said that I made some claim about switches not having value, then I suggest you learn to make less assumptions. I stated they where diffrent, not that there was any less value. After all, regardless of what the dynamics are in a relationship of any kind, if it works for those in it then it has value. The mear fact that a switch CAN switch wether they do or not in any particular instance means they will process that experience diffrently than someone who can't. So a switch doesn't get the same experience as a Dom, or a sub. The internal struggles and processes will be diffrent, as the mindset has diffrent componants.
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