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Termyn8or -> RE: any diaper lovers out there ? (6/17/2007 10:20:10 AM)
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pv, What it would help to know is if you are into the diaper or the other aspects of "babyism", which is referred to as ABDL much like the acronym BDSM.
Diapers are not a real big fetish for me, but I think they are pretty cool. I have also been bound overnight and they do come in really handy, errr, something.
Diaper lovers are a distinct group from adult babies, but they do coincide quite a bit. For example any baby aspect in my kink makeup boils down to being prevented from going to the bathroom. My interest is on a bondage angle. I don't want to feel like a bay, but it is a bit similar, all must admit that a power exchange like that is similar.
In other words I am either restrained, and it could be on the fourposter, or in a chair or whatever. Look what happened to you when you were a baby. You were strapped into carseates, put into cages.
I can't get around the fact that to bottom, to give up control does release one from all responsibility during the scene, except to not be shy to use the safeword. In a way it is like a return to childhood. and I think that is the allure for some people.
Some embrace the fetish.
Others embrace it partly out of necessity, and think it adds to the experience. I really do.
Others reject it vehemently, and I got this to say about them. I studied psychology before they fucked it all up, and their vehemence for the ABDL fetish indicates that they are insecure, or have doubts about their mental level of maturity. And let me make it clear, I am saying this is an indication, as such it probably is true of some, I am not saying all.
For some people there is a stigma to this, but there is no logical reason for it. You get on here, you like to get all tied up and shit, like me you admit that you are kinky, maybe even a freak. That's a matter of perspective. Well if you can be a kinky freak so can they. You don't have to do what they do.
Some keywords and at least partial URLs are forthcoming, but I wanted to address the lack of response, I think alot of people want to distance themselves from this. And I think it is for no good reason.
OK, so much for that.
dpf.com
is a good resource to start with.
search for wilf's creations
on Google for reins and harnesses. Like the kid ones but in bigger sizes.
b4ns.com
has plastic and vinyl pants. They also sell some diapers etc. They are not ABDL aware though. Just order through the website. Pictures are all there.
I'll have more later. Gotta go do an estimate.
T
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