naughtygrrl -> RE: what triggers the switch? (7/2/2007 9:43:38 PM)
Personally, it depends on my inner mood. Yes, others attitudes towards me can influence my mood, as well as songs/movies/the written word and etc... But I am at my best when the mood comes from within. If I'm feeling confident and happy I switch into Dom mode easily. When I'm emotionally vulnerable and unsure of myself, I become submissive. People have often said that I seem to have multiple personalities---one to fit each of my different moods. I guess my sexual proclivities are just an extension of that.
thetaboosun -> RE: what triggers the switch? (7/5/2007 8:38:27 PM)
For me, as a more B&D sensual top, the trigger is seeing my work in the course of topping. I get incredibly turned on by my bottom in that position, and when I'm done I wind up yearning to be there. So, ultimately, seeing someone enjoy themselves makes me jealous and want to be them.
BlackWolfSwitch -> RE: what triggers the switch? (7/8/2007 7:09:23 PM)
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What causes the switch for me? The answer would have to be Yes. Lol