SadistDave
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While Raphael claims to completely disagree with my post, he goes on to give you even more suggestions on my overall theme, which is to go out and just meet some people. Meet real live people. Thats all you have to do to start. Now, you're a big girl, and I'm sure you know enough about life to get you moving down your own personal path to happiness. If you don't, then you need to start educating yourself about safety, not reading about the perfect scene anyway. I have to agree with Raph about Alt. However, there are a lot of guys on every system that will just want to nail you... Even here. Yeah, you may become just another notch on someones belt, but that could happen just as easily by straying too far from the crowd at a church picnic. You're a hottie. You know how that works by now, right? Good. As Raphael states, quote:
Ultimately, though, finding a good D/s relationship is just like finding a good vanilla relationship - except it's even more difficult. which is precisely what I'm talking about here. You need to actually go out and do it if you want the rewards that come with it. If you are unwilling to experience things, no one can experience them for you. In spite of what people would have you believe, there are very few success stories on the internet for people who didn't tear themselves away from chat rooms long enough to interact in a meaningful way with an actual carbon-based lifeform. Eventually, someone had to get tired of typing with one hand and make a phone call. The phone call led to dinner. Casual social relations ensued, etc., etc. Munches are largely useless for the purposes of gaining experience. You will not become more experienced as a Dominant or a submissive by ordering the salad instead of the steak while you gossip about the local drama. However, they are extremely useful for people as a social platform. They are a mediocre learning tool. You can meet people (read "prospects") and more importantly get other peoples opinions of them. Play parties are definately what you should seek out, or events held by established R/T fetish clubs. Most private parties are monitored by the homeowners so no one does something that will get him/her/them shipped off to Sing Sing for 20-life. Public events usually have Dungeon Monitors for much the same reason. With all respect to Raphael, I'm not convinced that he disagrees with me as much as he claims to. He also suggests that you find a way to actually involve yourself in your interests, and specifically re-states some from my post. Food for thought. -SD-
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