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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 8:21:50 AM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 8:37:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm sorry to hear of your loss; no matter how much you know it's coming, it's never easy.
my condolences.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 8:42:16 AM   
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I shall be living
In one of them
I shall be laughing
And so it will be
as if all the stars
were laughing
when you look
at the sky tonight
 
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 8:49:58 AM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 9:32:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am sorry to hear of your loss Vendaval, take your time, there will be grief and then a healing process.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 10:16:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		My condolances on your loss.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 10:55:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am very sorry for your loss. i hope all in your family comes thru this well

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 11:14:03 AM   
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We will miss you. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
 
We will see you when you get back.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 2:19:17 PM   
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Our thoughts and warmest wishes are being sent your way for safe journeys as you travel your path.  May comfort wrap itself around you and yours like a warm, cozy quilt, as you grieve.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 3:45:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Vendaval take good care of yourself as well as others...I'm truly sorry.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 3:47:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Please accept my heart felt sympathies...i mean no offense by this...but my prayers are with you and your family

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 3:59:13 PM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:03:11 PM   
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My thoughts are with you and yours. It never seems to make sense regardless of the knowledge that it's coming. Please remember to take care of yourself right now just as you are taking care of those around you. If it brings any comfort...

All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Henry Scott Holland


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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:13:28 PM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:14:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.  Take the time to grieve...it really helps.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:24:22 PM   
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Offering up good thoughts for you and your family
 
~J~

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:36:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Take care, Vendaval.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/21/2007 12:11:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you so much everyone for the kind words, prayers and support on and off-list.
 
I spoke with my brother for about 2 hours on the phone today, it was his wife of 20+ years that died and he was her primary caretaker.  He was awake for 2-3 days at the end.
2 of her daughters and her mother were there too, assisting in caring for her.
 
Trying to compose the right words for the Memorial next week, it seems to help put my thoughts in order.
 
Peace and Light,
 
 
Vendaval

< Message edited by Vendaval -- 6/21/2007 12:13:29 AM >

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/21/2007 1:30:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am sorry to hear about the loss in your life...we are never truly prepared to lose a loved one and my heart goes out to you and your family in this difficult time in your life. Take comfort that they are no longer in pain and in God's arms now....

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/21/2007 5:22:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		       Sorry for your loss, V.  Poe and I will send some good thoughts your way. 

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