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shyinini -> RE: Success Factors for Being subs (6/21/2007 4:43:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix
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ORIGINAL: shyinini
Looking at your profile pj, maybe ya oughta look in the Good Book?
Sir's cumslut
I hate to say this... but she has a point. You are only looking for a Christian Dom. What a mature Christian Dom wants may be in contrast with what a young Pagan Dom wants. Sorry, there just isn't a blanket answer to your question.
1st girl Phoenix
I thought after I posted this, what a smartass I am. And realized, if someone calls themself a Christian, it doesnt mean they really even know what the Good Book says. For example, does pj even know the Fruit of the Spirit? Or where they are found?
I am gonna take a big stab in the dark and say, probably not.
Sir and I were talking about some "issues" I am having after reading some forum on another website, and he said.....
your ARE submissive and the other characeter traits that you have some will never go away; some will continue to evolve,but no one will ever change the ones you were born with. Like empathy. He said its a part of me, like its woven into my character. Punctuality is a horrible issue...but he said that sort of character trait can be worked on .....
He also said that dominants and submissives in relationship (what we call D/s) may not be meant for each other altho they initially click. Why? Because as they get to know each other, like in vanilla relationships, character traits appear that might or might not cause conflict. A relationship is built on many factors not just being submissive and dominant. Just some more things I was thinking about.
If ya'll want to read the Fruit of the Spirit ... or google it.
http://www.allaboutgod.com/fruit-of-the-spirit.htm
http://www.swapmeetdave.com/Bible/Gal8Q.htm
Sir's cumslut
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