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naomifai -> Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 8:30:59 PM)
I've been talking with my partner about hardcore 24/7 BDSM and I'm wondering if anyone actually does it. We're talking about keeping me bound, gagged, and blindfolded whenever I'm not being used, being treated like an animal, tortured with beatings and burnings, and used as mute furniture on a 24/7 basis. Is it just a fantasy, or can people actually live this way? If you do, has it impacted your head or your ability to function outside of the relationship?

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 8:40:17 PM)
Its a fantasy, its also dangerious. Their are plenty of people who want to be objectified, but what you are talking about is not practical or sane. Sorry to be so blunt. People can live that way, I don't know what kind of life it would be though. You would cease to function as a person and as a member of society, I have heard horror stories of women being treated that way, they usually die within 4 or 5 years. Some fantasies, are best left as that, fantasies.

darchChylde -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 8:49:57 PM)
i agree with slaverosebeauty, this is just plain stupid... maybe it could be done for very short periods of time; but then it's not the same thing, is it?

mythi -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 8:56:14 PM)
I'm guessing anyone with first-hand knowledge isnt allowed to use the internet. [;)]

LadyHeart -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:02:14 PM)
Read "Perfect Victim" by McGuire and Norton. It's the story of the "Girl in the Box." Quite apart from the psychological and physiological damage that can be done, there are the practicalities. What happens to you once you're too old? Or he is? You wouldn't be able to function socially. It's a great fantasy, but one better played out for a weekend than for a lifetime :)) LH

ownedgirlie -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:04:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naomifai I've been talking with my partner about hardcore 24/7 BDSM and I'm wondering if anyone actually does it. We're talking about keeping me bound, gagged, and blindfolded whenever I'm not being used, being treated like an animal, tortured with beatings and burnings, and used as mute furniture on a 24/7 basis. Is it just a fantasy, or can people actually live this way? If you do, has it impacted your head or your ability to function outside of the relationship? Going by what you said, there would be no functioning outside the relationship because you would be bound, gagged and blindfolded.

naomifai -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:09:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie quote: ORIGINAL: naomifai I've been talking with my partner about hardcore 24/7 BDSM and I'm wondering if anyone actually does it. We're talking about keeping me bound, gagged, and blindfolded whenever I'm not being used, being treated like an animal, tortured with beatings and burnings, and used as mute furniture on a 24/7 basis. Is it just a fantasy, or can people actually live this way? If you do, has it impacted your head or your ability to function outside of the relationship? Going by what you said, there would be no functioning outside the relationship because you would be bound, gagged and blindfolded. quote: Going by what you said, there would be no functioning outside the relationship because you would be bound, gagged and blindfolded. Well, there'd still be work and outside activities, so I suppose it's not completely 24/7 - we're talking about this being the setup at home.

TheDiva -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:09:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naomifai I've been talking with my partner about hardcore 24/7 BDSM and I'm wondering if anyone actually does it. We're talking about keeping me bound, gagged, and blindfolded whenever I'm not being used, being treated like an animal, tortured with beatings and burnings, and used as mute furniture on a 24/7 basis. Is it just a fantasy, or can people actually live this way? If you do, has it impacted your head or your ability to function outside of the relationship? If you two decide to go that route, don't forget things like diapers or wee pads. Modifying your fire escape plan to accommodate the "bound, gagged, and blindfolded" aspect would also be a great idea.

crouchingtigress -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:47:08 PM)
Stockholm syndrome has to do with "falling in love" with your captor who represents your only access to survival. what you are asking is what are that adverse long term effects of living a fantasy where presumably there is already love present....i think when folks look for any extreme level of disconnection from their humanness it signals to me that the person has been damaged and would not be able to function in society very well in the first place, so it would be hard to gage if that person would be better or worse off really.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:49:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naomifai Well, there'd still be work and outside activities, so I suppose it's not completely 24/7 - we're talking about this being the setup at home. Oh ok. You said whenever you were not being used, which left a completely different impression.

becca333 -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 9:58:18 PM)
Apart from the psychological changes, you need to be aware of physical problems. If you're doing beatings and burnings on a regular basis you need to allow the body time to recover - there's a lot of stress chemicals released into the bloodstream to cope with that kind of damage, and over time it can cause long-term damage to some organs if you're not really careful. And if you're still going out to work, will you be on painkillers when you're out? Each day? They cause damage over time, too. How are you going to go to work each day and explain the bruises and scarring? You can't hide it all. Sooner or later someone's going to call in some kind of agency for suspected abuse. What happens if you get pregnant? Or visitors drop by suddenly? Or the house catches fire? You have to cover a lot of contingencies. And living that way can cause psychological changes - are you ready for all that? Have you tried the odd weekend, or a week or two, to see how it goes?

GeekyGirl -> RE: Stockholm Syndrome BDSM (6/23/2007 10:14:44 PM)
I can understand wanting something like that for a weekend..maybe even a week when you're on vacation...but all the time? No. Not healthy. And I'd worry about the mental health of anybody who truly desired such.

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