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COCODOMINANCE -> The differance (6/9/2005 4:36:36 PM)
how can you tell differance between a serious sub/slave from one who is unsure? what are some signs? I'm new and extremely serious I know my role and I'm looking for someone who is the same, but I'm having the hardest time trying to pick from truth and lies.

sub4hire -> RE: The differance (6/9/2005 4:41:10 PM)
Pay attention to every word they say. Liar's contradict themselves quite frequently. Something about not remembering what lie they told a while back. Also someone who has been in the lifestyle a while has played before. Maybe not in all aspects but they have some experiences they can share. What emotions go through their heads. A truthful person should be honest and tell you they are new and unsure. In a perfect world anyway. There are no absolutes you just have to use your best judgement. Move slow that way you have more time to judge.

darkinshadows -> RE: The differance (6/9/2005 4:56:14 PM)
quote: how can you tell differance between a serious sub/slave from one who is unsure? Truth is - you can't. Just because a sub/slave is unsure doesn't make her not serious. People react to submission in different ways. Some are hesitant just because they need a certain type of dominat who can 'coax out' the submissive in her and help her to become all that she is capable to be. Theres no real, no true - just individual relationships - just like 'vanilla' ones. You don't know who you may be compatable with - and there will be liars and cheats, but you use your commen sense, have patience, take your time, remain strong and true to yourself and don't let your loins rule your head(unless you want it too...[;)]) and you will slowly begin to find the people you are looking for. Try visiting a munch or group in your area - great place to start. Peace and Love

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: The differance (6/9/2005 7:32:48 PM)
What Dark said :)

perfection20005 -> RE: The differance (6/10/2005 8:20:31 AM)
I think that dark said it all. perfection

asissyforher -> RE: The differance (6/13/2005 12:22:15 AM)
ok..i am not any authority here..so it is a shot-in-the-dark for me.. but i would think..maybe? the honesty level and those able to actually talk things out? i do not know for certain.. a sissy

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