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Trampler -> Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:10:53 PM)

I would like to hear some techniques and stories of female genital torture.  There is a young lady that I have been talking to, she will be visiting in a few weeks.  I would like to have some ideas to pitch by her, (We have decided to play it by ear.)  So please! anywhere from gentle stuff to the hardcore,(but of course nothing that would actually harm her.)  Thank you in advance everyone!




frazzle40 -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:32:05 PM)

'pitch' would probably work.        
You are meant to be the Domme, excuse me for being a bit thick here, but shouldnt you know what you're doing before you go and 'play'.      You must have talked, worked out what you're both looking for?       





LadyHeart -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:35:16 PM)

I have a glass dildo that we put in the freezer before play. When it's inserted, it feels as though it's burning, and the sensation lasts for ages, without any nasty after effects. It will enhance anything else you do for sure. It's a great mind fuck. Tell her you're going to fry her, and her mind will feel "hot" even though it's actually cold, snicker...
:))
LH




imthatacheyouhav -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:37:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

I have a glass dildo that we put in the freezer before play. When it's inserted, it feels as though it's burning, and the sensation lasts for ages, without any nasty after effects. It will enhance anything else you do for sure. It's a great mind fuck. Tell her you're going to fry her, and her mind will feel "hot" even though it's actually cold, snicker...
:))
LH

Oh thats just MEAN......i love it [:D]




PairOfDimes -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:40:32 PM)

Oh, goody, one of my favorite things to think and talk about!

Secure two chopsticks together at the ends with rubber bands, fastening an outer labium between them. Lovely for making the work area more accessible. Also, can be used as little canes for hitting the clitoris. Clips of all sorts can have wonderful effects--go through your hair accessories, your office supplies, and your cooking utensils to find interesting options. I'm partial to binder clips and bulldogs, partly because they have built-in attachments that make it easier to incorporate them in predicament bondage. I had enjoyed clamping prominent inner labia for some time when I encountered a woman with petite inner labia that wouldn't even hold my smallest binder clips. If you can find the inch-long plastic clothespins, they are wonderful for clamping those tiny, delicate parts.

Those rubber bands from the chopstick apparatus can be wrapped around the clitoris of a well-endowed woman, and can be drawn back and snapped on just about any girl part you can think of. Skewers for kebabs are lovely for drawing back and snapping, and also poking with the sharp end (dip it in hydrogen peroxide first, please, just in case--it's hard to pierce skin, but not impossible). Continuing on impact, you can use your hand for pussy spanking or punching, and knee strikes can be quite arousing (although not often torturous, in my experience). You can also use hairbrushes, any paddles, and my personal favorite, plastic rice paddles. I favor the latter because they stand up to high-heat cleaning.

Abrasion is delightful. Nail files, sandpaper, bath sponges, kitchen sponges. Turn that hairbrush you used for spanking around and scrub with its bristles. I've got a glove with bristles like a hairbrush's that I received as part of some fancy bath gift--it's wonderful. The shape of mine lends itself more naturally to CBT, but it's fine for lady parts, too.

Tweezers. As temporary clamps, they can grab a tiny bit of skin. Yanking out hairs can hurt, too. (This is generally not effective for women who have waxed habitually, as they are somewhat inured to the sensation.)

Cooking chopsticks (which are around two feet long) are great for proper caning of sticky parts, because they are disposable. Don't expect quality akin to a good rattan cane, but expect that you can happily eat the fifty cent cost if disinfecting becomes problematic. Blind rods, and metal canes, are also good because they can be easily washed. Thin cable, and medium-size wire (the kind that is covered by a light coating of something more flexible--enamel? rubber?). Fan belts--they have the rough inner side that can be fun sensation play, but they are also just clit-sized.

Do you have any electrical toys? I think that TENS units and flyswatters are glorious for genital play, and violet wands are pretty fun, too. If you have a TENS unit, you probably already know how to use it, and you likely already understand that positioning the electrodes in certain ways creates certain sensations, lovely and horrid depending on who you talk to--also, that different kinds of electrodes produce different sensations. Flyswatters are nice, too. Although they take some practice to use most effectively (and seem to be less predictable than I would like in general--nevertheless, it's hours of fun/misery for less than thirty dollars) it's really, really hard to seriously hurt someone with one. If you wanted to really injure someone, you'd likely have a better chance if you used it as a blunt object. Violet wands are lovely, especially when used in "indirect" stimulation with metal objects. As ever, remember to check for heart problems and neurological disorders when using electricity.

That's all I can think of for now. Have fun!




LadyHeart -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 6:59:41 PM)

That's a comprehensive list, lol. We also have a pair of long handled medical forceps that clamp gently but firmly to the labia. Weights can then be hung from them .. and swung... hehehe
:))
LH




Trampler -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:08:47 PM)

frazzle40,

Just in case ya hadn't realized, We all gotta start somewhere. Now while it would be nice to become Insta-Domme, (just add water!) That isn't possible.  And yes I am planning on asking those in my local community for advice and ideas as well. 




Trampler -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:13:00 PM)

*rubs hands together with glee* yes! those suggestions definatly give me alot of food for thought




Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:21:46 PM)

This may seem odd and I've never tired it but I heard listerine strips can be interesting.




Trampler -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:25:05 PM)

lol, yes i have heard of those, and I forgot! hehehe also the cinnamon flavored breath strips.   ooooo tingly!!




Spitfiregrrl -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:25:53 PM)

I really really love ice.......if done right. Takes skilled tongue work but can be done very well.




Trampler -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:31:04 PM)

Well even if we do play, sex will not be on the agenda. She promised her vanilla boyfriend that she wouldn't have sex with anyone.  [:(]




LadyHeart -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 7:32:18 PM)

If you go into this thread:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1081766/tm.htm

there is quite a comprehensive list of things that can be rubbed on to the clit for some fiery sensations...


:))
LH




CitizenCane -> RE: Girly bits (6/24/2007 8:07:12 PM)

A cheap electric toothbrush and a dab of toothpaste. Or, of course, a dab of hotsauce.






becca333 -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 1:58:42 AM)

Threads like this are dangerous. This isn't my thing, but now I'm thinking....'I've got some chopsticks in a drawer.... and skewers.. and...'

Dammit.  Sooner or later I'm going to beg him to try this.




taintedgypsy -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 3:47:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: becca333

Threads like this are dangerous. This isn't my thing, but now I'm thinking....'I've got some chopsticks in a drawer.... and skewers.. and...'

Dammit.  Sooner or later I'm going to beg him to try this.


OMG OMF OMFG ...what she said .. hell and annother OMG




julietsierra -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 3:53:15 AM)

Shopping... yes, shopping.

Take the toothpaste that's already been mentioned, a little dab'll do ya just before going into the mall, and do a little window shopping. Better yet,  just go shopping - don't tell her about the other stuff. In the mall (don't make it your first stop), find the bathrooms, hand her a little travel tube of toothpaste with the instructions to go to the bathroom and dab it on her clit and then come join you. You could always tell her to bring you her panties after she's done this...much scarier.. really - but a choice for you to make. Then shop some more.This would be about a 45 minute little venture if memory serves me right...just the right thing before lunch.

Talk about anything you wish, other than what's constantly on her mind...every once in a while, ask in an extremely solicitous manner if she's feeling ok and move on.

Beyond the initial trip, no bathrooms allowed.

Such a nice afternoon.

juliet




ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 3:59:03 AM)

start her with a total mind-phuck--take her on a 'shoping' trip to home depot or lowes, browse the most wicked gadgets you can find...a simple wall-paper scraper isn't so simple when you are bound and blindfolded




Master96 -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 5:19:42 AM)

I'm all ears in this thread [sm=evil.gif]




Phin -> RE: Girly bits (6/25/2007 5:45:27 AM)

the timing on this thread is impeccable... I have a pussy tourture scene planned for a social in a couple of weeks, and this will be my first as well. there is an experinced Dom that will be standing over my shoulder, but I would love not to have to stop every couple of minutes and say "What next?" I will be watching this thread like a hawk [;)]




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