nydeviant
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Joined: 6/28/2006 Status: offline
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too funny....this thread reminds me of a recent scene I had with a group of friends that I know well and trust - it included myself (switch), two dominant women, a submissive woman, and a submissive woman training to top on master's order. Each of us came with a toy bag in hand. At the end of an extended, multiple scene scene, we literally had to pick toys up out of a pile and sort them into whose was who's! It was particularly nice, because I got to use/have used on me toys that my partner and I don't own - kind of like being able to test drive the car before buying it... So yeah, I'm all for sharing! I do agree though, that if a bottom came to me and said 'use this on me', I'd bristle at it. 'Course, I'm a little pushy to begin with, and generally will ask someone first if they brought any toys with them to start of with....in a addition, as a top, there are toys that I own that I adore, and seeing a person's reaction to something that has never been used on them before is always fun. Last thought - I would hate to be restricted by the toys that someone else brought with them - perhaps their previous partner can swing a gigantic bull hide flogger for hours on end, but my arms get tired after a while with something that heavy! Same thing for toys like single tails - if you insist I use your single tail, we're probably not going to have too much fun, 'cause I'm not terribly skilled with them yet... *caveat* of course, all this applies to hurty toys....vibes, dildos, plugs, gags, etc is a completely different can o' worms
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