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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Dominant couple but female sub to Male Dom? (6/27/2007 6:56:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissOchistic Master > Y/you > slavey slave. The alligator mouths never lie. heehee, very cute & love it!

WhiplashSmile -> RE: Dominant couple but female sub to Male Dom? (6/27/2007 7:02:06 AM)
Yes!

zindyslave -> RE: Dominant couple but female sub to Male Dom? (6/27/2007 9:08:04 PM)
Thank you all for your input.

taintedgypsy -> RE: Dominant couple but female sub to Male Dom? (6/27/2007 9:47:11 PM)
ok I will follow this thread with great interest. While on this self growth journey at this moment there is one thing that seems to be comming up alot and that is that I am my own worse enemy in that I am affraid of and there fore fight my own strength ... part of me sees me being strong as being unattractive and inappropriate ... I am bi sexual and when I have been involved with a woman I have always been the dominant one ... The same strength that I draw on there is the strength I deny when with a man .... I have met several Doms when I was collared that like Driver just bring out this need to serve but there were many more who gratted on my nerves and I found it difficult to even answer there attitude civilly (this caused problems) I also found myself very sexually aggressive with other female subs which we were involved with in play/sex. I began to question whether I was submissive/bottom/top what the hell I was ... Sir laughed and told me point blank to stop tormenting myself that he liked my strength and that I needed to learn to accept it and that he saw from the begining my dominant qualities towards women and it did not bother him and that our dynamic would settle into place as we did ... quote "with my hand in your hair I see nothing but my submissive" lol So Here I sit unsure of the future but feeling more at home with who I am and not getting so self detuctive about myself ... there is still a long way to go but hell as long as I can become happy with who I am life will be full of interesting adventures ... It honestly did not occur to me that He would find the idea of me domming a girl as good ... and I look back and shake my head and wonder how I could have possibly seen this man being intimadated rather than enhanced by my strength ... looking forward to a future with eyes wide open and intrigued by the possibilities opening up in my future as I learn to accept myself.

obis -> RE: Dominant couple but female sub to Male Dom? (6/27/2007 11:31:04 PM)
I've had two relationships like this, where my 24/7 slaves wanted a girl of their own to dom for play only. I don't think it's particularly unusual, though I'm not sure how common it is over the long-term. Most ongoing poly M/s relationships seem to be much more egalitarian among the slaves, though they may have an alpha/beta structure it isn't really a matter of one being a master or dominant of the other.

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