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My wife - 6/13/2005 4:55:40 AM   
footsick


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Status: offline 		I have a slutty wife who likes wearing revealing things and likes sex very much, she fantasizes about rape and being fucked by strangers...but whenever i tell her that i want to be her slave for life and clean the house and do everything for her and become her total slave she doesnt seem to like the idea, although lately she's started calling me her dog during sex and making me suck her toes and pushing my face into her ass...is there any chance that i can turn her into a 24 hour dominating Mistress wife? and how?
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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 5:24:24 AM   
BeachMystress


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Am I the only one who thinks this reads like some guy trying to get off on responses?

I wonder how his wife would feel to hear that her wardrobe (probably chosen at his request) makes her a slut. I also wonder how she'd feel at the violation of having her private fantasies posted on a forum by someone she trusted enough to share inner desires with...

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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 5:50:01 AM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

is there any chance that i can turn her into a 24 hour dominating Mistress wife?


No & by you wanting to make her this way would be topping from the bottom & this is extremely 'not desired' by dominants.

The only thing you can do is tell her that you really enjoy the role play but don't expect her to want this at a higher intenity if she herself does not care for it to be that way.

MstrssPassion

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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 9:19:51 AM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress


Am I the only one who thinks this reads like some guy trying to get off on responses?

I wonder how his wife would feel to hear that her wardrobe (probably chosen at his request) makes her a slut. I also wonder how she'd feel at the violation of having her private fantasies posted on a forum by someone she trusted enough to share inner desires with...


No, you are not.........even at his description of wife sounding like she would like to be used, (definitely not the Domme point of view, don't you agree???) I smell troll also....


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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 1:39:45 PM   
onceburned


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ORIGINAL: footsick
.but whenever i tell her that i want to be her slave for life and clean the house and do everything for her and become her total slave she doesnt seem to like the idea


So if it bothers her to call you 'slave', why bother? Who cares about labels? Isn't the point to make her happy?

Just start cleaning the house and doing everything for her - its what you want to do isn't it? And won't freeing up her time make her happier?

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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 4:22:27 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Chris is right! I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't like to see a man clean the house!

If she doesn't want to call you slave, then it's not what she wants. You want to be a slave to her, then respect what she wants. Stop imposing what it is that you want.

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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 5:52:15 PM   
SecretDomme


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Status: offline 		I personally don't know anyone who can dominate 24 hours a day. I would encourage you to enjoy what she is doing with you and stop trying to make her into your fantasy. Let her explore that role in her own time.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: My wife - 6/13/2005 10:48:57 PM   
MadameDahlia


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ORIGINAL: SecretDomme

I personally don't know anyone who can dominate 24 hours a day. I would encourage you to enjoy what she is doing with you and stop trying to make her into your fantasy. Let her explore that role in her own time.

Be well,
Julie


I totally do it twenty-four hours a day... even when I'm asleep... or in the bath... or watching the telly. Wait... did you say breathing (or beating)?

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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 6:24:01 AM   
kisshou


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress


I also wonder how she'd feel at the violation of having her private fantasies posted on a forum by someone she trusted enough to share inner desires with...



Stands up , Applauds and Cheers for BeachMystress!!

you have said something so Important here. Since I am a slave my perspective is different, but there are so many threads I did not answer to because I felt this way. There is a line between participating, discretion and violating a trust. Thank you so , so much for bringing up something so often overlooked!

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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 8:21:45 AM   
ProtagonistLily


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I have a slutty wife who likes wearing revealing things and likes sex very much, she fantasizes about rape and being fucked by strangers...but whenever i tell her that i want to be her slave for life and clean the house and do everything for her and become her total slave she doesnt seem to like the idea, although lately she's started calling me her dog during sex and making me suck her toes and pushing my face into her ass...is there any chance that i can turn her into a 24 hour dominating Mistress wife? and how?


Is this the same letter you sent to Penthouse Forums that got rejected?

Lily

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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 8:31:29 AM   
dommemagnet


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Status: offline 		Does read like something submitted to Penthouse forum or worse. How would anyone even want to be Dommed by someone they so obviously don't respect. Slut? Likes to be f***ed by other men?

Why try to make someone something they are not. Haven't smelled too many trolls being on the sub side of the equation. Is that the strange odor i smell?

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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 9:23:17 AM   
kc692


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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 11:15:03 AM   
nonuts4thshoney


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ORIGINAL: footsick

I have a slutty wife who likes wearing revealing things and likes sex very much, she fantasizes about rape and being fucked by strangers...but whenever i tell her that i want to be her slave for life and clean the house and do everything for her and become her total slave she doesnt seem to like the idea, although lately she's started calling me her dog during sex and making me suck her toes and pushing my face into her ass...is there any chance that i can turn her into a 24 hour dominating Mistress wife? and how?


Hmmm, after reading the posts on this thread it made me think. I had posted a thread on wondering how do I get my girlfriend to be more dominant more often. And after reading these posts and hearing what everyone had to say in response to Footsticks question, I think that I just need to continue doing what I am doing, which is pleasing her and making her happy. I already do everything for her. I cook for her (every meal), I do all the housework, massage her everytime she asks, anything she wants or expects of me, I do it for her. And this makes me happy. It drives me crazy if she tries to do anything around the house. She is dominant in many ways. Definetly not a switch. And I guess not receiving a daily beating will make me all the appreciative when I do recieve one.

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RE: My wife - 6/14/2005 11:20:14 AM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: nonuts4thshoney


quote:

ORIGINAL: footsick

I have a slutty wife who likes wearing revealing things and likes sex very much, she fantasizes about rape and being fucked by strangers...but whenever i tell her that i want to be her slave for life and clean the house and do everything for her and become her total slave she doesnt seem to like the idea, although lately she's started calling me her dog during sex and making me suck her toes and pushing my face into her ass...is there any chance that i can turn her into a 24 hour dominating Mistress wife? and how?


Hmmm, after reading the posts on this thread it made me think. I had posted a thread on wondering how do I get my girlfriend to be more dominant more often. And after reading these posts and hearing what everyone had to say in response to Footsticks question, I think that I just need to continue doing what I am doing, which is pleasing her and making her happy. I already do everything for her. I cook for her (every meal), I do all the housework, massage her everytime she asks, anything she wants or expects of me, I do it for her. And this makes me happy. It drives me crazy if she tries to do anything around the house. She is dominant in many ways. Definetly not a switch. And I guess not receiving a daily beating will make me all the appreciative when I do recieve one.



Sweets, your question was not posed in the same manner as this one was, therefore the responses you received were different....

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RE: My wife - 6/15/2005 3:58:10 PM   
nonuts4thshoney


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Status: offline 		Hopefully I'll get this posting thing right soon. Maybe after a few more posts I'll be a pro. LOL! But so far I have enjoyed posting on the boards. ::: smiles :::

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RE: My wife - 6/16/2005 11:50:28 PM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't like to see a man clean the house!


LMAO, on my honeymoon I got a magnet that says:

No husband has ever been shot while washing dishes.

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RE: My wife - 6/17/2005 4:42:40 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't like to see a man clean the house!


LMAO, on my honeymoon I got a magnet that says:

No husband has ever been shot while washing dishes.


Ooo! Me likey!

- LA

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RE: My wife - 6/21/2005 1:14:34 AM   
Rascalyrabbit


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress



LMAO, on my honeymoon I got a magnet that says:

No husband has ever been shot while washing dishes.



LMAO, THATS FUNNY

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RE: My wife - 6/26/2005 6:07:18 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		yep sounds fishy to Me---

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