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sunshinemiss -> RE: BOUNTY'S coffee shop (4/16/2010 8:07:01 PM)
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ooo... dinner at Aylee's!
And Tim, I asked a very reasonable question. It is interesting that you jumped on it. And as the Dom in the relationship, here is the question posed directly to you...:
Do you think it's realistic to attempt to create a poly relationship when you barely have gotten together yourselves?
If you think that you telling me to "BACK OFF" is going to make me stop responding to someone, you are sorely mistaken. And what if, for example, I was the unicorn you were looking for? Hmmmm? What about that? Perhaps I was asking to see if you two would be a good match for me. If this is how the two of you respond to a bisexual submissive woman who has been in multiple poly relationships who you (Tim) have known for years, then I wonder how you respond to others that you don't know.
Tim, recently Bounty posted about looking for another gal. Several people suggested to him something similar to my question to soft. They told Bounty that working on his primary relationship might be the smartest thing until that gets settled. He was gracious in his response, and I believe he listened to what the gals said. If nothing else, he did not react with hostility. You may wish to have a chat with him. I expect he could shed some light on this for you.
And I do recall you asking me once if I knew anyone to be a third prior to your being with this new gal. I presume you are withdrawing that question to me?
Good luck,
sunshine
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