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Now that is the thing that I don't get with ppl who call themselves Doms or more likely subs... (I am not trying to be offensive, merely just thinking out loud and trying to understand...)
"I'm always on top, except with the Kaptin."
Whats with the defined role, but then EXCEPTIONS??? It is my understanding that you are one or the other, with no exceptions... that is why I personally say switch, however, I do tend to live out one role in sexuality more often that the other...
How many sub profiles say, that they are sub only to one person, but Dom a whole heap of others? Aint that switchy behavior?
Jeez going by that theory I am totally submissive...except for when I am not... Switching, to a switch, is not confusing, but it may be for me be if i defined myself to a role with exceptions...
Take it in a work place environment perhaps, we submit to those above us, and lead those to whom we delegate, is that confusy?


I have a feeling that it is not only some of the switchy's that are confused in their roles...

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

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Now that is the thing that I don't get with ppl who call themselves Doms or more likely subs... (I am not trying to be offensive, merely just thinking out loud and trying to understand...)
"I'm always on top, except with the Kaptin."
Whats with the defined role, but then EXCEPTIONS??? It is my understanding that you are one or the other, with no exceptions... that is why I personally say switch, however, I do tend to live out one role in sexuality more often that the other...
How many sub profiles say, that they are sub only to one person, but Dom a whole heap of others? Aint that switchy behavior?
Jeez going by that theory I am totally submissive...except for when I am not... Switching, to a switch, is not confusing, but it may be for me be if i defined myself to a role with exceptions...
Take it in a work place environment perhaps, we submit to those above us, and lead those to whom we delegate, is that confusy?


I have a feeling that it is not only some of the switchy's that are confused in their roles...

Oh, sweetheart, don't even take that condescending attitude with me! If you'd bothered to actually take a look at my profile, it states quite clearly that I am a switch. My comments on this thread reflect exactly what my position and life entail, and the only confusion here is your own. I'm a dominant who, by choice, serves one dominant, and one dominant only. I bottom to Him. Everyone else calls me Ma'am.