|
catize -> RE: "Friends with Benefits" (7/5/2007 6:14:18 PM)
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: LotusSong
quote:
ORIGINAL: bliss1
BUT stop saying that those of us who are not happy in this arrangement are off, lacking, twisted, immoral, the list goes on. Isn't it like saying my kink is better than yours??
If it works for us - get off our ass.
Would you please highlight the portion of my posts where I state this? Please be specific. (touchy.. Touchy!! sorry if my posts hit a nerve, you guys)
Okay, I’ll give you the benefit of my doubts and accept that you didn’t mean to be as condescending and holier than thou as your posts seem to read.
I’m sure you are not implying that only party girls end up alone and aged…..or that women are passively ‘passed around’ and not responsible for their own choices.
quote:
Remember, today's party girl, those that get passed around will age. Today's "slut" is tomorrow's used up, wizzeled old cat lady.
Or that you didn’t mean to imply here that any male who has ever had an erection is a bad person.
quote:
. "A stiff dick has no conscience".
Or that I go to bars and only get fucked by drunks because no one who was sober would want me
quote:
Not to worry.. there's another saying - "No one is ugly after 2 AM" (at least that's what the guys say)
Or that only people who are in a committed relationship can control their lust
quote:
I've never let my privates override my good sense.
Or that there cannot be respect and appreciation unless within the parameters of marriage/commitment/true love forever
Or that “just “ friends can’t argue and make up and continue to be friends
Or that no one in a monogamous/committed relationship has ever fucked up and lost their partner
quote:
What a defeatist attitude. But then if you fuck up, you can always say "I knew that".
It seems people don't even try to cultivate a relationships anymore, This is were D'S is comforting. It's like playing house. You be the Daddy (Dom) and I'll be the Mommy (submissive). It's a nice little package where everyone knows what to do and if one drops the ball you can "You didn't play fair! I'm outta here"
|
|
|
|
