laurasecrets
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Joined: 12/29/2005 Status: offline
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to start off tell your shrink the truth, they cant help you otherwise, yes it will be hideously embrassing at first but get used to it, that is life, and your shrink gets paid to help you not to judge you (and if they do judge you then they are crap so get a new one) my shrink (who i happily admit to being in love with) has actually tried out some of the lifestyle and while he wouldnt recommend it to most of the people he treats he doesnt question my right to do what i want (given it is what i want) gyno saying that you clamping up during exam is a sign you do it during sex stupid idea, (i know this because) my gyno said the same thing - turns out i had abnormal cells on (pre cancer of the) cervix, causing painful sex and hideous bleeding, and me clamping up while he was doing an exam was because he actually hurt me have you been tested for human papaloma virus (or any of the other typical virus associated with sexually active people ie herpes) because they can often present like thrush and reoccurent thrush is not normal have you applied said youghurt to your bits (yes werid and cold but can help have you tried sex with you on you side bottom leg straight down the bed top leg bent with your knee to your chest and your lover approaching from the bottom? it worked for me (we were both cuddlie and he was small) how do you have sex... ie is it a planned 3 hour event with candles, oils and seduction or is it wham bam thank you ma'am sex failing that accept that sex will suck unless you drink copiously, and then take up drinking
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[I] “No lover, if he be of good faith, and sincere, will deny he would prefer to see his mistress dead than unfaithful.”[/I] De Sade [I]"That which yields is not always weak." [/I] Jacqueline Carey -- Kushiel's Dart
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