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Switching in life. - 7/8/2007 8:55:07 AM

BiteGirl

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I am a switch, and I find that I switch in life as well as in the bedroom.
There is one person who has latly bought this aspect of my personality to show. He is the biggest a-hole, but he has a very dominant personallity, yet I can make him "switch" (or so to speak) in a conversation.
This sounds odd, but I was wondering if this was just me?
I am not just talking about, one is talking more than the other or anything, but it has a kind of sexual undertone. And is more than just one aspect of the conversation, it rules the conversation, or interaction.

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/8/2007 9:38:49 AM

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So, you make him "submissive" in conversation?

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/8/2007 6:52:09 PM

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Sometimes you shouldn't attempt reading into that sort of thing, but as at times it can be very good to understand someone by how they speak as opposed to what they speak of.. it becomes a very interesting thing. I've had it happen myself (and yes I'm a switch) to dominants and submissives (as well as tops and bottoms) speaking in a whole different fashion, of course depending on the topic or atmosphere.

I'd say that you are not alone on this subject, personally.

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/9/2007 8:53:58 AM

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*snickers* OP you must be so proud of your ability to tame the beast.

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/9/2007 9:32:07 AM

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Anyone can appear to be what they are not in conversation or any other part of life.
Lots of men appear to be very dominant. They are used to playing that role. Some play it well and some not so well.
In my experience the more dominant a man appears often the more insecure he is in that role.

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/9/2007 7:23:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackWolfSwitch

Sometimes you shouldn't attempt reading into that sort of thing, but as at times it can be very good to understand someone by how they speak as opposed to what they speak of.. it becomes a very interesting thing. I've had it happen myself (and yes I'm a switch) to dominants and submissives (as well as tops and bottoms) speaking in a whole different fashion, of course depending on the topic or atmosphere.

I'd say that you are not alone on this subject, personally.

Very well said, BlackWolf. I agree 100%. Nice to read you.

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RE: Switching in life. - 7/15/2007 10:33:25 PM

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I think talk is cheap as they say. If the guy can put his body were his mouth is, that's the question.
I would certainly own up to being able to discuss far more than i can actually 'do' as it were lol one gets me hot, the other gets me off.
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