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shevosani -> A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 11:01:55 AM)

here is something girl found on her pc from a Master friend that she knows very well, he gave this to girl when she was having a hard time 2 years ago after just coming out of a 5 yearM/s realtionship she hopes that it will make sense to a lot of Free and slaves out here on collarme just take time to read and take in the true words as there are many a player here and all about the world of M/s and D/s and she seeks others speacilly those new to the lifestyle may it be Gor or Bdsm to be aware of certain things......



what is a Master.....

What is a Master? I am a dominant man. I am just that.

I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.

Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness.

I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.

You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.

You have given metotal access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.

You are a women. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished.

We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.

You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.
Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.
We are not equal. We are parts of a whole.

We complement each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive.

It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.

We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong, and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.

You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man.

In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart.

You submit because I have earned your trust.

Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.

Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions.

And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life.

You have give me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gift a woman could give a man.

You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and a sacred responsibility.

I accept this from you withhumility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.

I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.

I dominate you only because you have allowed it.

I dominate only because you have allowed me and when I see your body kneel before me,

in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.

What you give freely cannot in reality be bought and if it could, it would never mean the same.


girl hopes that You find this god and that it makes sense....




RiotGirl -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 11:14:39 AM)

thanks i thought that was awesome!



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 11:24:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shevosani
Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

However a lot of subs want their dom to be stronger and more intelligent than they are.
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You are a women. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished.

Obviously, not all slaves are women. And while it's great that the Owner loves me and such, I'm whatever he needs me to be, treasure or not.
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You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.
Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt.

So females are superior in this sense?

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It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.

Well some people LIKE being degraded...and I don't know that it prevents someone from being a slave to not be secure in their femininity. LOTS of women on this site aren't secure with that.
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We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

Excellent.

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And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life.

Ugh the W word. Only true treasure of life? There goes children I guess...
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You have give me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gift a woman could give a man.

It's not a gift IMO.

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What you give freely cannot in reality be bought and if it could, it would never mean the same.

No but sometimes bought slavery is much more useful.

What's a true description of M/s relationship?

The Master is to be obeyed by the slave.




MstrssPassion -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 11:34:51 AM)

well that can be considered one speculation of 'true' but no one should go so far as to say it is the only truth




LadyAngelika -> RE: One person's perspective of a M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 2:12:29 PM)

This is your perspective. Thank you for sharing. I would advise against saying it's the "true" definition. Neither you nor this man who sent you this list hold the official definition of the truth.

- LA



dragonofjapan -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 2:34:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: shevosani
Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

However a lot of subs want their dom to be stronger and more intelligent than they are.


Intelligent or more experienced?

I have intelligence in the extreme, but I find it is the vastly different level of experience, knowledge and ability to adapt to any and all situations, which the women who come to be my servess hold in the highest esteem.

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You are a women. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished.

Obviously, not all slaves are women.


my god! go to law school. I find this to be just slightly anal. This clearly is a letter from a male dominant to a submissive woman. This whole over the top PC he/she crap makes me want to barf. If you need he/she in every sentence, go get a high colonic.

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You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.
Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt.

So females are superior in this sense?


In my experience, it takes a great deal more inner strength and will to be a truly submissive woman, than it does to be a dominant man.

This is not to disparage in any way the willpower, mental focus and the fact as a dominant I must "always be ON".

But in general for the acceptance of pain and emotional pressure females statistically have higher thresholds then men. Can we find exceptions to the rule or am I saying this makes women superior? I would say you sound like a person who needs everything in black and white.

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And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life.

Ugh the W word. Only true treasure of life? There goes children I guess...


The only thing any person has to give to another in life is their WORD.

Go sit with this and see if you can refute it.

Everything else is to me a gift I have been given by life itself, inculding my children.


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You have give me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gift a woman could give a man.

It's not a gift IMO.


Yes I am with you here. This whole gift of submission is horseshit in my mind. Subs are being subs because THEY LOVE BEING SUBS.


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What's a true description of M/s relationship?

The Master is to be obeyed by the slave.



I will say they both have found each other and are able to give to one another exactly what the other wants. When it is perfect, they do this immpeccably.

Zip



perverseangelic -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 3:24:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: dragonofjapan
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You are a women. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished.

Obviously, not all slaves are women.


my god! go to law school. I find this to be just slightly anal. This clearly is a letter from a male dominant to a submissive woman. This whole over the top PC he/she crap makes me want to barf. If you need he/she in every sentence, go get a high colonic.



Not pc crap, making language gender-neutral. For me, it isn't about assuring that male/female get equal representaiton so much as being clear about cases when gender is an issue v. when it is not. I think that the more we work to make our language gender-neutral, the closer we'll be able to come to equality between all genders.

I don't need a he/she in every sentence. I need a gender-neutral pronoun, but since that isn't going to happen any time soon, well he/she or s/he has to do.



sub4hire -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 4:15:02 PM)

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well that can be considered one speculation of 'true' but no one should go so far as to say it is the only truth


Well said, short sweet and to the point. I won't go far as to pick apart the pieces I don't care for someone else can do that.
I agree with some...other parts I don't. That's the way it should be...I didn't write it.



shevosani -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 4:48:57 PM)

this girl is sorry if she has displeased some Free and slaves/submissives with what girl has posted here she will remove the post at once and again she is sorry if she has displeased.


best wishes to All

she`vo`sani



sub4hire -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/20/2005 4:50:27 PM)

The boards are here so we can all learn from one another. Communicate about the lifestyle.
You will never please the world no matter how hard you try. Try not to take things so seriously.
It was a good informative post, even if there are parts we all don't agree upon.



mistoferin -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/21/2005 10:10:10 AM)

I really hope you don't remove it...quite frankly I think it is one of the better things that I have seen on these boards in a while now.



subversiveone -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/21/2005 10:34:34 AM)

yes, i agree don't remove it!
just understand that a lot of ppl are here to debate, disagree, and offer different viewpoints in general...
however, in the future, if you want to post a creative writing- just for the beauty factor of the piece, try putting it in that category and maybe it'll be looked at more as just that, creative writing nothing more/less...just a thought
namaste



shevosani -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/21/2005 10:55:29 AM)

this girl Thanks all for responding to her post



BeachMystress -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/21/2005 12:53:38 PM)


What he wrote you was lovely, poetic and romatic. Be careful with the use of the words "true" in the future. It tends to evoke negative reactions in people. What was true for you and he isn't true for the rest of us.



HisAngel -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/26/2005 3:21:59 PM)

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That Was a true Token of Love...Thank You for sharing it.



tattooedbiker -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/26/2005 5:48:28 PM)

Great write up



flirt -> RE: A true description of M/s realtionship.... (6/26/2005 6:45:32 PM)

shevosani,

Personally i found it lovely. Each of us have our own "truths" our own definition of things and we adapt to what best suits us. What someone else believes could differ greatly on the same topic. What makes this lifestyle in general so beautiful to me is the diversity, the overall acceptance or at least in theory of people of all walks and beliefs. i believe that our beginnings in this lifestyle our first exposure has a lot to do with what we believe to be truth and the "right way." Be open to all that is how we learn. If someone bashes your beliefs because they don't match their own then they are the ones with the shortcomings. We don't have to agree or see things from the same perspective and thank goodness for that. If these words sooth and comfort you and are how you see a "true" M/s relationship then there is nothing wrong with that just know others will see it differently some with disagree just to be a voice. Be well...............

flirt



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