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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 12:43:10 AM   
adoracat


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ORIGINAL: Daddysjezzy

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ORIGINAL: adoracat

its not so much "what age" as "what mindset".  Sir makes me feel warm and safe and taken care of, he sets rules and gives orders that are designed to remind me that he is the Daddy, and will always be the one to make the decisions to keep his little girl safe.

my life is pretty out-of-control in some ways, and he gives me structure and safety.  and that's what i need from him.

kitten


kitten, this is exactly how I feel about being Daddys little girl.  Thank you for describing it so perfectly.

jezzy


*blushes*  thank you for the compliment!

kitten :)

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 8:01:38 AM   
daddymommygirl


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Status: offline 		Having experienced being a daddy and mommy's girl i can only say that i found all my experience as a baby, toddler, pre-teen, to teen all so satisfying. Never to be permitted to go beyond teen, always under the guidance of my daddy and mommy. The bond that developes is so incredibly strong and intense. i found such happiness through obedience, stripped of false ego, proud to feel part of them, so eager to do as i was told, knowing that everything i did or was told to do was for my own good and theirs two. Its very difficult to explain the emotional satisfaction in words.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 1:41:16 PM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		I dont mean to hijack...but since some of you have said you identify as VERY young ie, under 10. Does this mean your "daddy" is fantasizing about having sex with someone of that age...since thats the image you are projecting? I hope this wasnt an offensive question and that i didnt word it offensively

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 1:55:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

I dont mean to hijack...but since some of you have said you identify as VERY young ie, under 10. Does this mean your "daddy" is fantasizing about having sex with someone of that age...since thats the image you are projecting? I hope this wasnt an offensive question and that i didnt word it offensively


I play with age-regressed women all the way back into infancy, sometimes. Though it has its deep erotic power, mostly based on dependency and control, there has never been any sex involved. That is just how I do it.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 1:56:04 PM   
hana20


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Status: offline 		i am the 12 year's old daddy's little girl!

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 2:13:49 PM   
Littlepita


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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

I dont mean to hijack...but since some of you have said you identify as VERY young ie, under 10. Does this mean your "daddy" is fantasizing about having sex with someone of that age...since thats the image you are projecting? I hope this wasnt an offensive question and that i didnt word it offensively


No, he never fantasizes about someone underage. It's not about that for us, and I don't think it is for most Daddy/little girl relationships. Your question is not offensive. It can be difficult to clearly articulate the type of relationship a Daddy/little girl one is. Of course, everyone has their own spin on it and do what works for them.

For us it is much more a mindset than an age-play or role-play thing. I like to hold up my hand, display my fingers, and announce, "I'm five!" It's cute and funny. I'm very much a child at heart and love how I get to behave like one in the safety and nurturing love of my Daddy.

We are also in an M/s relationship. Therefore, the dynamics often shift from moment to moment depending on the mood and need.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 2:50:43 PM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I enjoy it more for the feeling of structure, and of safety..of being taken care of while still being controlled....of being cherished while still being taught.....no age...I am still 27, me...but its the dynamics of who he is to me...

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/14/2007 11:34:27 PM   
Mars777


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Status: offline 		I wanted to say “Thanks” to those who took the time to respond on this subject. The range feelings displayed were wonderful and in my eyes, you’re all “good girls”.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/15/2007 1:46:28 PM   
softness


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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

I dont mean to hijack...but since some of you have said you identify as VERY young ie, under 10. Does this mean your "daddy" is fantasizing about having sex with someone of that age...since thats the image you are projecting? I hope this wasnt an offensive question and that i didnt word it offensively


when i have age played i enter the head space of the little girl i was aged between 4-7 ... chatty, bubbly fearless outgoing ... all things which i find i am not so much these days.

i have NEVER had any kind of sexual contact with my partner in those sessions and i am certain that they were not thinking of me in a sexual way -


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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/15/2007 9:01:47 PM   
lighthearted


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Status: offline 		there is no ageplay involved in our relationship.  the "Daddy" in him is his need to take care of me, love me, and be for me everything I've pretty much never had in my life.  it's difficult at times for me, because I have a hard time accepting help.  like a lot of women, I worked so long and so hard to be independent, that the notion of relying upon anyone but myself is very foreign.  but I am getting better at it.

ageplay is in a way totally unnecessary, because basically I'm a third grader stuck inside a 41 year old's body anyway!

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/20/2007 6:59:47 PM   
Mars777


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ORIGINAL: BabyNyla

kindergarten ... coloring books, naps and story time


Well, BabyNyla, just remember to always color in the lines or the color red will be introduced to your bottom.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 1:16:57 AM   
Dddylilgrl


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Status: offline 		I am naturally a child at heart still. I like tto know that I am safe whne I am with my daddy. I do not rlly identify with a ge so much. 

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 1:25:30 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Angel is my little girl.  He is biologically male, but when we play, he is my little girl. Our age play is usually between 3-5. While it is very sexually charged for him, it has nothing to do with fantasizing about being with someone of that age. More , for us, its the extreme power exchange and the dependancy that comes with it. He gets excited by the helplessness and need that being my baby comes with.

DV


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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 2:08:27 AM   
taintedgypsy


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Status: offline 		I have enjoyed this thread and thank everyone involved for adding clarity to differring views on this subject.

I have regressed to a small child in a couple of sessions when I was new to L/s and felt safe in my relationship, but not since. I am very child like in many ways, having been referred to in the past as a child-woman... My experiences with Him as Daddy were very reassurring, I was myself and my age yet intune with the inner child I suppose. I found much joy in having my hair brushed, and being snuggled. Yet at other times these experiences were very sexual, he was my Daddy yet I was not a young child mind set, but still a childlike woman, I have not really given thought to it as age play or even role play ... it was just the way things went. This Daddy Dom thing was good and reassuring for me but I do not think I would want it full time, though neither would I like a relationship that did not have elements of this type of interaction. 

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 5:14:34 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		i agree with taintedgypsy. i'm more of a childlike woman. i was too grown as a child. you know the kind that looks like you dont need to explain things too, old while still a child.
with Daddy i'm filled with wonder and trust I thought  only a child could  feel.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 5:20:31 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't say I would 'revert' back to any pubescent age, I like the age I am at.  Just because I am older doesn't mean I have learned the essentials of life along the way, sexually and non., nor have I felt safe as I should have.  I would just be an 'old girl' who doesn't have a clue how to do certain things and a Daddy would be able to create me from today on, top down, bottom up, whatever...to make me better (for myself, to myself, to him, to others and for U/s).  Someone that capable can surely make me want to conquer the world with dignity.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/25/2007 7:23:32 AM   
leatherette


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Status: offline 		If ever I am interested in Daddy/daughter it is as an archetype.  

Daddy -  powerful, strong, authoritative, protective, loving, #1 leader, keeper, symbol of masculine power.
daughter - Daddy as hero, love, source of guidance, protection, disipline. Inspires awe.

Embracing feelings of girlish wonder, innocence and light.
The freedom of deep trust. Real dedication and eagerness to please.
To feel like he'll always care. That he adores his little girl and she'll forever worship him. 

Somewhere in here is the kink

I need to add: these qualities can be found in D/s without the roleplay. 
Just my thoughts... and slanted from a girl's point of view.

< Message edited by leatherette -- 7/25/2007 7:26:44 AM >

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/26/2007 6:27:54 AM   
Aine


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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

I dont mean to hijack...but since some of you have said you identify as VERY young ie, under 10. Does this mean your "daddy" is fantasizing about having sex with someone of that age...since thats the image you are projecting? I hope this wasnt an offensive question and that i didnt word it offensively


For most that I've known or talked to, many parts of DnG has nothing to do with sex.

For me, it's about being able to be who I am at certain times without feeling like I have to be scared.  Being a babygirl for me isn't what it sounds like.  And it's by far not all of what I am.  It's about feeling taken care of, watched over by someone with unconditional love, guided and supported to become what I want to, and what he thinks would be good for me.  Always it's a compromise of what we both want, never something forced.

The idea for me for someone to approach me in a sexual manner when I am in my own babygirl world, is so abbhorrent that I would likely try to take off their tender bits in a not so nice manner.


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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/26/2007 6:39:14 AM   
Faramir


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Status: offline 		It's interesting to see how some of us conflate age-play and Daddy/daughter, and others see them as entirely seperate.

My little girl is 21 years old, and I take her back to...21 years old .  It's about her receiving the emotional presence of a Daddy in her life, not about her being a child.

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RE: Age Play Question: For DLGs (daddy’s little girl)... - 7/26/2007 6:46:13 AM   
Aine


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ORIGINAL: Faramir

It's interesting to see how some of us conflate age-play and Daddy/daughter, and others see them as entirely seperate.

My little girl is 21 years old, and I take her back to...21 years old .  It's about her receiving the emotional presence of a Daddy in her life, not about her being a child.


Thank you.

What I wanted to say, but seemed to leave out. 


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Honey, you obviously missed the "want to be used as a toilet fetish" thread or "where do I get instructions on setting my sub on fire" thread. LOL

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