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ErusBenignita -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 5:11:27 AM)
Well I was going to post a thought proviking responce to this thread, but after looking at your profile I see that it would be a wast of time. All though I will try and help by saying that I honestly belive that you have stumbled into the wrong place. I might sugest taking amonth or so getting away from any distractions in life and find out who you are and what you desire.

Aileen68 -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 5:12:51 AM)
You mean men aren't lining up at your profile door??? How can that be. You seem so sweet and all together. [;)] Your profile comes across as demanding and bitchy...with lots of spelling mistakes and no real substance as to what you bring to a relationship and what makes you real. Plus....you must be the first slave who lives for getting massages. Perhaps you should learn to give them instead???

MadRabbit -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 5:19:20 AM)
Personally...I am really questioning whether or not that is a real picture of her.

Cuckme4Life -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 5:27:22 AM)
Real? Hmmm!!! A look at your profile leaves me with the impression of an 18 year old full of hypocritical judgements . One that stood out was the comment "If you don't know the diffrence between your and you're, don't bother messaging me" . Let us look at this carefully. I noticed immediately that you have horrible spelling habits but you judge people based on the ability to discern between "your" and "you're"???? You come across as a hypocrite. And now below for your viewing pleasure, words from your profile. List of words for you to work on: 1) diffrence should be difference 2) sweet should be sweep 3) perfer should be prefer 4) messeges should be messages 5) truely should be truly 6) kinda should be kind of 7) extremly should be extremely Perhaps your lack of intelligence has made real people avoid your profile. Not to mention you strike me as yet another spoiled 18 year old judgemental brat that society has to put up with because your parents convinced you that you are all that and a bag of chips. In truth, you are not a very attractive young lady to begin with. Quite ugly , in fact. How ironic when a peek at your profile reveals that you do not wish to hear from ugly people yourself. You probably hang out at your local mall with other snobby brats your (I should use YOU'RE to piss you off) age and snub your nose at anyone and everyone that YOU'RE group of friends do not find attractive or worth breathing air. Grow up and then perhaps return to this message board. Life has a way of humbling young bratty snobs like you.

Rover -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 6:54:14 AM)
Fast reply to no one in particular... Some (many?) people don't deserve to be taken seriously. So why do it? John

beargonewild -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 7:23:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondeinky hmm nevermind with this post. was a waste of time nothing but idiots with spare time on their hands. Yes you're right I have too much time on my hands between, owning a business, volunteering approx 10 hr/week, maintaining friendships, running a house I own, yardwork, replacing the siding on my house, working on a novel, taking care of several pets, running a local Pagan social group and enrolling in some part time night classes. Yep, I got way too much bloody time on my hands!

MamaDomme -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 7:35:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondeinky hmm nevermind with this post. was a waste of time nothing but idiots with spare time on their hands. Well, Bless your little pea-pickin heart, dearie!

missjan -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 7:44:28 AM)
p.s. i think it's "sweep" you off your feet...not "sweet" smile excuse me...i see You have that covered

MissyRane -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 7:49:42 AM)
honey I'M A GIRL OMG and I'm answering in a master forum shoot me! And I'm going to express my opinion, as I often tend to do. After reading your profile I've come down to the few following conclusions about your persona and your personality, these conclusions are based on my opinion and only mine. You are simply way too shallow (and I thought I was shallow!) ..no blacks no asians no people with hair past their ears..no non europeans no ugly not fat...you describe the guys as if you're a 14 years old. You simply don't sound as if you're looking for developing a relationship and getting to know the person you only care about the look. Does an american that moved to europe count as european? I just wonder.. Your babyface has got printed "spoiled! oh i'm such a cute princess". Second conclusion: you should be looking for a daddy dom You start the profile with 'I've literally given up on men' that is just oh such an attractive way to start. You comment on "your" and "you're" like you're obsessed with grammar and spelling, yet you have a tons of spelling errors in your profile -->hypocrite edited to add: I didn't read the replies until after I answered your post and I see some people have been mentioning the same things as I so my opinion can't be all that wrong.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 8:02:01 AM)
If you want to find someone "real" and want them to respect you as a person, you need to put yourself out there in such a way that makes the likelyhood of this happening higher. Your picture, while cute, looks exactly like some cam girl's pic. Thus, you're going to be much more likely to attract cam watchin' wanker men. Post a much more mature picture and you're chances of finding a much more mature man will go up. Your profile screams, "Rescue me!" and "I can't take care of myself!" You don't need to be rescued and you can take care of yourself, if you're developing a health sense of self worth. Change that wording. Your profile also spend all of it's words on the negative and about what you don't want. Change that. You don't need to list all the things that turn you off...simply say, "No thank you," when you're messaged by men who don't do it for you. People reading don't want to read about what they should not be. You never talk about what you have to offer, so it's gonna be assumed that what you have to offer is the cute face and 18 year old body in the cam-girl picture. If you want a long term relationship, behave as if you do. Post a mature picture, post what you want in a "real" relationship (not what you don't want...and make it deeper than "an older man to take care of me"), post what you have to offer a relationship. Think "kinky resume". Master Fire

Travelino -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 8:15:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondeinky :) quote: blondeinky Hi there, blondeinky. Interesting question you have posted, here. I have yet to see such a query posted in such a manner as to illicit favorable responses. It seems you are encountering a problem finding a match for yourself, here at CollarMe. Rest assured, there is a perfect person out there, just waiting to come across your profile, and contact you, and I really hope that person finds you. Just a little heads up, and words to the wise. Statically, folks usually get seriously into the lifestyle in their mid-late 30's to early to mid 40's. This gives them time to experience life, its ups and downs, and learn some life skills to further themselves and those that are close to them. I, personally, have virtually no interest in developing a personal relationship with anyone who is unable to provide me with some sort of physical/mental traits, in themselves, for me to use effectively to enhance my life and assist in furthering theirs. I have a fair amount to offer, and I sit at this table, offering a seat to those who can bring those traits to my attention, and then discuss them. Most of the people, online and in real-life, want to take a seat in front of me, yet, they are standing a few feet away, watching, or are sitting on the floor beside me, playing a game with each other. Patience is a virtue, and I am well versed in it :-) Take care, blondeinky, Travelino

camille65 -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 8:33:32 AM)
blondeinky I just read your profile and I suggest that you read what others thought of it. There is so much negativity showing that it makes you look unappealing. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but if you can't find who/what you are looking for then you may have to consider on how you are presenting yourself. Instead of listing what you don't want maybe try listing what you have to offer? You seem to be 'taking' and not 'giving' which is usually a big turn off. Since your profile is how you are representing yourself try and read it as if it were someone else's profile and why you would/wouldn't contact that person. Try and put a positive spin on your profile, make yourself seen as someone that a man would want to be with. If you need help in writing a new profile you can PM me or just read the other comments here and rework it all.

CitizenCane -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 8:52:47 AM)
I simply can't understand why you can't find what you're looking for. The racism is particularly endearing, but the rest of the shallow bitchiness and general lack of competence is charming too.

nephandi -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 9:34:23 AM)
Hi You are a beautiful girl, witch might get you allot of men. However if you want somone to look beyond your pretty face and see you and sweep you of your feet, you need to put a bit more into your profile, who are you, what do you like and what do you seek. On Collarme your profile is how you sell yourself, and to me honest, female submissives outnumber male Dominants to a rather high prosentage, in your profile you need to sell why they should pick you instead of the hundreds of other willing girls out there. Then it is how you present yourself. You say you are a slave, but you come of as a brat. There is nothing wrong whit that. If what you want is to be a bratty princess for a sugar daddy by all means, but when you say you are a slave and act like that, both on your profile and on the forums, pepole will write you off as fake. i do have demands in my profile, but when you presnet them as an angry grocery list that is very unatractive. Also aking where you find the real pepole many here takes as an insult, you see, not right for you do not mean no real. If i am ever sent out for my Master to find another slave and i found a profile like yours, (though offcourse one that indicated she wanted poly) i would look it over no matter how pretty you are, not becouse me and Master is not real, but becouse you do not state what you want, you seam a hypocrite and simply i could not see we would be right for one another. There is a differance between fake and not right. There are many fine Masters here on Collarme i would ahve turned down if free. Not becoue they are fake, but becouse they are not right for me. Generally, clean up your act, get some manners and some basic idea of what you want and men will be falling over you blondeinky, you got the looks for it. But if your manners are ugly, no matter of beauty in your face will make up for it. Welcome to the forum and i wish you well.

susie -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 9:41:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondeinky :) Lordy me! Is it silly season again already??

MissHarlet -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 9:46:51 AM)
sounds like a Paris wannabe to me ...

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 11:54:42 AM)
sighs here we go again - must be that time of the month for questions like these ...how come i cannot find a good sub/slave ...why can't i find anyone real sheeeeesh, let's get realistically real here people, finding that special someone isn't going to happen overnight. it takes time, patience and "kissing a lot of frogs" to find your special prince/princess (as my Daddy always told me whenever i got frustrated). if you have neither - then this isn't the right thing for you ...i'm not apologizing for being blunt in reply to you, op, but someone had to say it. edit - after reading your profile, you're looking for a young and rich sugardaddy to take care your conceited and racist self ...well, honey, might i suggest that site sugardaddies.com - they might have what you're looking for.

Kinkypupper -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 1:34:41 PM)
To be blunt. 1. 80% or more people on sites like Collar me or b dot com are "wannabes" or are fishing for just sex. 2. Your ad is so "un-real" how can you, if indeed you are real, expect to find someone "real". 3. You are "18", your photo is so perfect its fake. You are possably someone in law inforcement acting as bait. Or you are Male, 50 ish years old and are a registered sex offender. 4. You have posted "4" posts total. 5. You are a "slave", sorry little girl you need a Master to make you a slave. At 18 you have no conception as to what that may even entitle. Its not like the "books" even fiction ones like the Marketplace series. Untel you are collared you are NOT a slave, You are at best a wannabe slave looking for a Master. 6. You (if real) are looking for a sugar daddy, Yes there are a few out there but even fewer that are going to "Give" you anything without demanding a LOT more from you. And sorry I do not think you will find one "here". 7. Would I like to see you kept in a cage at my slaves feet to awaken you to a taste of reality.. yes. 8. Being a "slave" means not getting what YOU want but giving what your Master wants from you, To please your Master is the driving force. Would you willingly shave all that blond hair off, If your "Master" said to ? Would you be willing to be in a Poly family if "They" so wished it ? To be a "slave" means to serve, regardless of physical or moral limits you may have, That relationship and level of trust has to be so enoumous that you would do WHATEVER they told you to do without a moments hesitation, The value your Master puts on you and the care and concern for your well being is also at that same level. The responsibility and maturity that a Master needs to acknowledge and accept that level of responsibility for another human being is something that many so called "Masters" do not have. There are perhaps less real "Masters" then there are real submissives who desire to have a Master. Am I real, I tend to think so and a lot of people who know me and my slave would attest to that fact. Look at my profile and forum replys and decide for yourself if I am who I say I am, then decide the validity of my comments. I am sending this as a forum post as I am sure you do not have any desire to reply directly.

submittous -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 2:04:09 PM)
I think ya'll have been punked.... the OP and profile have to be the work of a troll, no one, not even an 18 year old could seriously put those two together and mean it.... Bill

blondeinky -> RE: Why can't I find anyone real? (7/14/2007 2:26:13 PM)
wow you guys are really harsh age has nothing to do with this. you guys think you can you know bash just anyone because they have prefrences. attraction isn't everything but it has importance. racist? no, i'm just not attracted to colored men. sorry. you guys can sit and bash all you want, say that i'm just a typical teen, you guys are just putting yourself lower. i asked a simple question, i could get simple answers instead of negative remarks. do all yourselves a favor, and get a life.

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