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dry sex...? - 7/14/2007 6:21:38 AM   
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No, I don't mean dry humping...
I'm wondering if anyone knows a way to temporarily dry out vaginal lubrication without nasty side effects?
I know this is done in Africa but I can only find vague references as to how, and no mention of any negative effects apart from pain (which is why I want to do it!), potential bleeding (which is fine) and increased risk of HIV and other STI's (which, in the context of a monogamous relationship, is not an issue).

Does anyone know much about this and how it can be done?
Thanks xx
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RE: dry sex...? - 7/14/2007 6:50:37 AM   
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Dry sex does have it's risks including increased rates of infections and sexually transmitted diseases. You may wish to follow this link and read this related article.

http://www.rho.org/html/hthps-b-02.html

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/14/2007 12:19:39 PM   
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"Dry"sex is probably not good at ALL in any health related sence.........BUT, since NONE of us are here to judge Anyone one else.......................I’m Sure Super duper absorbency tampons (when you don’t need them in) will work good for absorbing most of your secretions/lubrication..............

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/15/2007 12:28:32 AM   
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Thanks for the suggestion, but I know from experience that this definitely wont work.  I'll spare you the details, but either tampons don't absorb this type of fluid or I'm some kind of freak, lol.
Has anyone actually tried anything that worked well?  Surely I can't be the first person on this forum to be into this...? ;)

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/15/2007 12:44:22 AM   
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Umm well one of the things i went through was Drunking sex and what happend was we were in intocourse and well she kinda dryed up I have no idea how but i was so drunk i couldn't tell the diffrence i wasn't like totaly passed out in so i remember she had to drink bottle water to keep going it was very odd

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/15/2007 8:25:03 AM   
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quote:

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I’m Sure Super duper absorbency tampons (when you don’t need them in) will work good for absorbing most of your secretions/lubrication..............


This could be dangerous. There was a brand of tampons on the market years ago that worked REALLY well that had to be pulled because they were too absorbent and caused Toxic Shock Syndrome.

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/18/2007 10:33:44 AM   
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no, you are not the only one into this. my Master and i engage in "dry" sex quite a bit, partly because i just don't get physically aroused easily, and partly because he just plain likes it that way. He likes the increased friction and the feeling of ripping me open, i like it for the same reasons. but with us this is something that happens naturally, i'm not sure of ways to artificially induce it, hmmm...

there are certain medications, both Rx and OTC, which can effectively dry you out, like antihistamines (pop 2 or 3 benadryl) or certain anti-depressants. i'm sure there are probably some natural herbs that could have the same effect, tho you would have to do some research to find out what those are. perhaps you could try approaching this from a mental/psychological perspective: just don't get aroused. think unhorny thoughts...tragedies that have occured in your life, mundane daily activities, whatever you have to. then have your Dominant take you unawares.

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/18/2007 9:18:32 PM   
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The herb atropa belladonna (Deadly Nightshade) will do the trick, if applied to the mucous membranes in the vagina.

It contains atropine, which is available by prescription, but your doctor is not likely to prescribe it for this purpose, if at all. Kink aware professionals may be more willing to do so, but most likely they will limit the extent of their involvement to giving advice, the first of which will probably be "don't do this".

Make sure the doctor quizzes you on the signs of having absorbed too much.

Have a sober, responsible adult in the house when applying it, with instructions to call 911 if you faint or start acting oddly, and to inform the EMTs specifically that you have been exposed to atropine, so that they can take appropriate measures to deal with it. Failing to do this will lead to unpleasant consequences at some point, if it's from a herbal source, or done unsupervised.

The first time, it should be applied to skin in order to test your sensitivity, much like perfume.

Start with a miniscule amount, and be aware that it is absorbed more rapidly, and more completely, through mucous membranes than through skin, though it will pass through skin as well. Wash it off afterwards, unless your Dom feels like getting his share of the effects, as well as the risks involved; his penis will absorb it excellently.

Increase the amount very slowly, until you start to get a response. Then go slower.

If you go the herbal route, get a skilled herbalist. S/he should be willing to test it on him/herself the first time around, or be a licenced health professional. Otherwise, I wouldn't trust that their skill is appropriate. Specify that it is not for use in your eyes, and not intended to induce delirium; those are the two primary uses for the herbal form (eye drops to induce mydriasis, or "flying salve" to induce delirium). If at all possible, disclose what you really mean to use it for, or at least where. You want a liquid form, e.g. tincture.

Be very clear on the part about not wanting to induce delirium, because you don't want to.

Every time you get a new batch, start from scratch with the lowest dose, unless the herbalist is willing to test it and compare the strength. They vary in concentration, and only a laboratory can give you the exact concentration in the batch you just got. Failing to do this can be seriously unpleasant at best, and fatal at worst.

As I said, it will do the job.
And it can do so relatively safely.
But, as with anything, you need to take precautions.
Learn as much as possible, seek skilled help, and be very patient.
If you don't take it seriously, it can kill you; Atropa was the Fate who decided when people die.

Apart from that, drying yourself out will cause problems.
Ask your OB/GYN about these.

Nature usually doesn't put mucous there without a reason for it.

P.S.: I have no idea how long the effects last, sources range from 5 minutes to 3 days.


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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 12:58:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: yaqeta

No, I don't mean dry humping...
I'm wondering if anyone knows a way to temporarily dry out vaginal lubrication without nasty side effects?
I know this is done in Africa but I can only find vague references as to how, and no mention of any negative effects apart from pain (which is why I want to do it!),Thanks xx


Since most of the answers you've got say "don't do it" maybe you could back track here and explain a bit more about why you want to do it, and perhaps some other alternatives could be suggested? Are you trying for a rape fantasy, or just pain? Not being nosey, just trying to help.

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 3:46:44 AM   
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I like the way it feels :)
I've had "dry" sex induced by cold air, but the problem is that lovely, painful, ripping sensation only lasts a few seconds before my natural response kicks in and I'm very quickly wet.  I don't see the "thinking unsexy thoughts" option working for me either, as the experience itself of being used when I'm not physically "ready" turns me on so much that my body responds pretty much immediately.  So to answer your question, LadyHeart, I just really love this particular source of pain, and I want a way to make it last longer - hopefully an hour or so.  Its mainly the physical sensation, and the semblance to rape is a bonus.  And my Master has mentioned he would like to try this also, because he just plain loves to make me hurt :)  I was hoping to surprise him with a solution.

Thanks very much for your info, Aswad - I will be sure to research this and not use it recklessly :)

Any other ideas would still be appreciated...

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 4:16:34 AM   
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Unless your Master is a masochist, too, I can't imagine that he'd be happy with an hour or more of dry intercourse.

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 4:34:43 AM   
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Lol.  Allow me to clarify - I don't mean an hour of continuous intercourse.  Just an hour of play that may include a few short periods of penetration, without the psychological turn-on kicking in physically :)

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 4:50:13 AM   
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I know if I'm in pain I get as dry as the desert. Maybe try a little ginger. Shave little pieces off a ginger root and have him clothes pin the pieces to you pussy & on your clit.
The burning from that may make you dry, or may replace your pain requirement during sex.
Just be sure to remove it before he penetrates you so you don't light him up too.
Other than that maybe he could stuff you full of dry wash cloths and wipe you out really good right before he penetrates you, when he pulls back out he can stuff you fill of them again.
Hope you find an answer that works for you,
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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 12:55:49 PM   
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Taking an antihistamine containing pseudoephedrine can dry up mouth, nose, and other mucus membranes. Be aware that it can raise blood pressure, so if you are on BP meds, skip this.

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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 4:15:39 PM   
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Unless your Master is a masochist, too, I can't imagine that he'd be happy with an hour or more of dry intercourse.


This is what lidocaine is for.


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RE: dry sex...? - 7/19/2007 4:21:25 PM   
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Lol.  Allow me to clarify - I don't mean an hour of continuous intercourse.  Just an hour of play that may include a few short periods of penetration, without the psychological turn-on kicking in physically :)


Bear in mind that some of the atropine will reach the systemic circulation, and may affect your responses, depending on the amount. You shouldn't need enough to cause significant systemic effects just to dry out the vagina. But it doesn't take very much extra beyond that to add the effects of pupil dilation, dry eyes, dry mouth, dizziness, nausea, and so forth.

Hence, a "backup play" plan is a good idea, at least the first time around.

And, while the penetration can be unpleasant for the man, going at it for a few hours isn't necessarily a problem for him, even without lidocaine. Of course, doing it bunny-style while you're dry, and for a few hours, will probably get you a few days where he doesn't try that again, though.


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