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new to the scene (take care of you first ) - 7/15/2007 3:15:22 AM

mons

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greetings

i read a post written by a slave, but when i went to lok for it i could not find it. that person said they were new and needed help. well the first thing i want that person to know is that not everyone who says it has the word dom or domme written on their name does not make that person a true one. also that person does not have the right to tell you what to do, everything they say is no written in stone. trust you own self if it does not feel right it is not right, the gut tells us so much and many do not listen. it takes years sometimes to find the right person, and when you do it is wonderful experinces. anyone who trys to rush you into a realtionship is not right for you. your nor a door mat. your a person . when i told someone that without a slave or submissive we as dominant people are at a lost. we need them as they need us. so take you time never ever let anyone push you into a thing you do not like. think of what you like and look for him for her. there are some really great dommes and master here and with that note i wish you luck .

mons

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RE: new to the scene (take care of you first ) - 7/15/2007 11:51:37 PM

hideandseek

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Thanks so much for your kind words. I'm new to the scene and at first I was often getting obsence or slippery messages but I found friends here on cm who were willing to take the time to help me find the right daddy and I very much appreciate their advice.

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