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not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/15/2007 4:40:03 PM   
subnaturale


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Joined: 6/10/2007
Status: offline 		i have kept my profile updated since i first logged on here.  A couple of days after signing on, i received an interesting email.. i had read the profile the day previous and was thrilled that Sir had taken the time to contact me. W/we talked, the bonds were easy to identify.  After the first meeting and many hours of conversation sharing very personal and intimate details about ourselves...i am so glad that i followed the impulse to sign on here.  i never thought i would feel so safe and secure.  i never imagined i would be willing to be devoted and submit my whole life to One ever again.  i honestly did not see it ever happening again in my life. 

Sir and i have alot of planning to do so that i can be with Him in the near future...and i am anxiously awaiting for these days and months to pass quickly

To my Sir,  i willingly take my place, without fear or apprehension. 
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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/17/2007 8:53:26 PM   
NefertariReborn


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Status: offline 		I've been told that what you want comes the moment you stop looking for it.  Hmmmmmmmm think I'm too anal retentive for that to work.  Congrats!!!

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/21/2007 9:07:30 PM   
subnaturale


Posts: 15
Joined: 6/10/2007
Status: offline 		You know.... it has been that way for me without a doubt....
 
i have been out of circulation in the communities for quite some time.. and was not looking for an Owner when i signed on here... altho, that is not to say that there was no hopeful thoughts....i just wanted to get reconnected with O/others in the lifestyle...i needed that connection again. 
 
i tell Sir that i am so grateful that i signed in when i did.  Otherwise our paths may not have crossed.  i am a believer in Destiny and Fate... there was a reason that i impulsively signed on here...
 
Sir is that reason....
 
never lose hope or faith in the belief that yours is truly out there... without hope or faith, then there is no belief.. and then you will not find the true path in this journey that you were meant to follow

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/21/2007 9:10:34 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		You always find exactly what you want when you decide to stop looking. I did with Angel, and Kitten. It never fails. Best of luck !

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/21/2007 9:18:13 PM   
LongTerm24C


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Status: offline 		Yes, have to agree with that. Many times in my life, when i quit looking it slapped me in the face.

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/21/2007 10:15:14 PM   
trustingsub


Posts: 36
Joined: 7/17/2007
From: VA
Status: offline 		that is wonderful! things come to those who wait... it will happen when You least expect it. Congratulations! i wish You both the best.

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 8:02:10 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		What an amazing story .....You joined on June 10th of 2007 ...And by July 15th you were collared....Wow! Just goes to show that it can happen....I hope that in the next 35 days I can find someone who will be equally as  devoted and willing to submit their entire life over to me....Your story is an inspiration to us all.

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 8:22:43 AM   
subnaturale


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quote:

ORIGINAL: trustingsub

that is wonderful! things come to those who wait... it will happen when You least expect it. Congratulations! i wish You both the best.


honestly, i dont think it is simply a matter of waiting..  it is a combined matter of patience, honesty, and being selective.  Patience meaning the knowledge that i do not have to over exert myself to get Anothers interest.  i know my needs, my wants and my desires.  i also know that not every Dom/Master is able to handle me the way i feel i need to be handled.  Not every One will have the insight to know me as deeply internally as He needs to.  Not every One will have the patience, strength and knowledge to take care of me as i need to be taken care of.  Honesty meaning that i must know within myself what it is that i truly seek in my journey.  Selective meaning i have the choice of Who, What, When and Where.... my submission and my lifestyle are very dear and important to me.. it is a part of me that is not to be taken lightly. 

i truly believe when O/one is searching then a certain, how shall i say, desperation mode is subconsciously at work... W/we either have unrealistic expectations....or W/we settle for the next best thing, which by the way, doesn't work ....


< Message edited by subnaturale -- 7/22/2007 8:29:43 AM >

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 8:46:01 AM   
subnaturale


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

What an amazing story .....You joined on June 10th of 2007 ...And by July 15th you were collared....Wow! Just goes to show that it can happen....I hope that in the next 35 days I can find someone who will be equally as  devoted and willing to submit their entire life over to me....Your story is an inspiration to us all.




Sir, please be aware that while it is always good to have an objective in mind, there are always situations when putting a time limit can be dangerous to Your health, and mental well being.  
 
i do wish You success on Your search... but i hope that You let Destiny take You where You need to be so that You find the one who will be true...  don't force it to happen,, otherwise it will forever be a dream, never a reality

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 9:17:32 AM   
SexyRed


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

What an amazing story .....You joined on June 10th of 2007 ...And by July 15th you were collared....Wow! Just goes to show that it can happen....I hope that in the next 35 days I can find someone who will be equally as  devoted and willing to submit their entire life over to me....Your story is an inspiration to us all.


You are so bad! (but so hilarious). I am happy for the OP, but also agree with domiguy in a way. I know luck plays an important part in finding the right person and I TOTALLY disagree that one needs to stop looking and then IT will just find YOU.

I think as in job hunting, you need to put yourself out there.

But congrats and I do hope it works out for the OP!! Truly I do.

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 9:31:00 AM   
bandit25


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Joined: 6/18/2005
Status: offline 		Pick me, Monty...Pick me!  Oh, sorry...wrong thread!


Um, come to think of it...Uh, this isn't Let's Make a Deal?  You mean, I'm really NOT in Kansas anymore?  Toto Toto...watch out for the flying monkeys.

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 9:58:46 AM   
subnaturale


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SexyRed


You are so bad! (but so hilarious). I am happy for the OP, but also agree with domiguy in a way. I know luck plays an important part in finding the right person and I TOTALLY disagree that one needs to stop looking and then IT will just find YOU.

I think as in job hunting, you need to put yourself out there.

But congrats and I do hope it works out for the OP!! Truly I do.


oh i agree... i spent a long while in isolation,,, and you know what... NOT ONE SOUL just came knocking on my door !!!  i slowly came back into the real world....risky....and i did have to put myself out there again...

what i am meaning to say is my primary objective initially was not to find an Owner, a Master or a Dom... i was and still am needing a sense of community.  Real people activiely involved in the Real aspects of this lifestyle that i am able to connect with to continue my learning and my journey...Sir has just become a reality in that journey.


< Message edited by subnaturale -- 7/22/2007 10:04:44 AM >

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 11:33:05 AM   
GDCouple


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Status: offline 		Congrats. I too was not looking, and happened to comment on someone's profile many states away. She responded, and the rest is history. We met online on Xmas Eve, finally got a chance to meet in person in May, and I moved to be with her in June. Our first 45 days together has been awsome, I couldnt have asked for a better companion in my life. 

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RE: not desperate, not looking...found regradless - 7/22/2007 4:04:02 PM   
Kellendra


Posts: 95
Joined: 4/17/2007
Status: offline 		Sometimes things just turn up when you when you least expect.....
Wasn't looking...... neither was He, at least not for anything other than friends....
And here we are....the best laid plans and all that.

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